Wouldn't Sleep With Spy, possibly losing job...
I already know not to give customers your phone number, but my friend and I did. I'm aware now, horrible decision.
However, he texted me for about 2 months and I'd never respond. We had a club meeting this weekend and he started harassing me today. He said he was a spy for the club (which they say they have) and he'd report me on the phone number and get me fired if I didn't sleep with him. Then he threatend my friend's job too if I didn't sleep with him. He knew the manager's name, everything. He texted lude, threatening, and pornographic comments for 2 hours this evening to the point of where I was too nervous to go in and missed out on the money tonight.
I called the police and complained that he was harassing me, and they called him and the texts have stopped.
But now I am concerned. I guess I'll just have to go in tomorrow and find out. But how would you deal with the managers? I know I fucked up and will regretfully leave the club...but are his harassing comments necessary?!
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show them the texts you are getting and let them know that you willnever ever giv eout your number again and that you weren't thinking when you did it, hopefully the manager will see your side of the story.
good luck..
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steph....i think you did the right thing by contacting the police....now they have it on record that this guy is bothering you. he is an ass for demanding that you sleep with him. if he really is tight with the manager, there is a small chance that your job could be in jeopardy. but honestly, if the manager is willing to back this guy up after what he did, then you might be better off in another club. save those messages and consider playing them for managment. there's a good chance that this sicko won't say anything...if he mentions your transgression then his blackmailing you will come up.
giving him your number was not a good idea, but that does not mean that he has any right to harass or threaten you. it's never ok to do that. if he keeps bothering you, then keep going to the police. this fucker is sick, really sick. i'm sure he gets off trying to manipulate you. take care....if you leave the club, there are others. maybe it won't come to that. good luck and take care.
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Go in as if nothing has happened. I give you 10-1 odds he's bluffing.
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Contact the police. Tell the ass you contacted the police - and if there is any bullshit going on because of him - the police will have all the pornographic and stalking like contact made for a conversation with him.
The police LIVE for these kinds of guys.
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yup- good call on the police. but also talk to management. And, I'm really glad you didn't ask if you should sleep with him for your and your friend's job. Obviously NOT!!! That's total blackmail and I hope the cops nail his ass for that AND harrassment.
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Originally Posted by Everyman
Go in as if nothing has happened. I give you 10-1 odds he's bluffing.
I somewhat agree with this. While this person could actually be one of the spies, it is more likely that he is not. Any customer who hangs out at a club enough will know the manager's name, will somewhat know how the club runs (spies, rules, etc.) and could easily pose as a spy.
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If he's a "spy", you'd probably be in more danger of losing your job if you DID sleep with him.
Tell them your number fell out of your purse. Like, on a business card for something else you do, or something. :P
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No...don't lie about it. Just chalk it up to being a newbie. Tell them that you are sorry and will never do it again...but they may have him "fired" from spying. If he's done stuff like this to you, he's probably done this to other girls (and who knows how many have fallen for it) and is causing MORE problems for the club all by himself.
Just be honest.
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Normally I wouldn't advocate lying -- it's just hard to think of what to do in a situation where it's already her word against his. :P I suppose, yeah, on second thought VG may be right -- let the paper trail speak for itself.
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Wow, you handled it well, though! The only one who'd BETTER get fired is HIM! IF he's even a spy.
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DO NOT even bring the incidents up because he's gotta be lying. Get a copy of the incident report from your local precinct and a copy of the official report if they created one. Take it to work when you go back so you are armed with the evidence on the outside chance he is. I gotta say this is one of the creepiest stories I ever heard.
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I agree - sounds like BS to me. Dont bring it up to the club. If its not BS and the manager says something show the texts and the police report. Done deal.
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Agree 100% with Deogol. And when you tell this freak you contacted the cops, mention you said they could ID him by his tiny dick.
Sorry this happened to you.
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Originally Posted by Deogol
Contact the police. Tell the ass you contacted the police - and if there is any bullshit going on because of him - the police will have all the pornographic and stalking like contact made for a conversation with him.
The police LIVE for these kinds of guys.