How regular is too regular
I watched this documentary about stripping once and one of the female strippers was mentioning that she's not impressed by guys that turn up week after week after week. Like they are just full on losers or something that go for a perve and should find something better to do.
Because of this I made sure I didn't visit the same clubs too often and I didn't want the girls getting the same impression from me. Nobody wants to be thought of as a loser.
Now it seems after reading the posts on this forum that its not so bad. Even some of the girls at the club I go to said that I don't come in often enough.
So how much would be deemed as too much or is that just not possible.
Surely if I went to the club every single night then the girls would say something like hey maybe you should get some other hobbies to balance things out.
But maybe a visit once every week or two, is there anything strange about that?
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Why does this matter? Going to Strip Clubs isn't about what the strippers think about you, it's about your entertainment. If a dancer gives you shit for giving her money too often, get another dancer :D
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Originally Posted by Bubby
I watched this documentary about stripping once and one of the female strippers was mentioning that she's not impressed by guys that turn up week after week after week. Like they are just full on losers or something that go for a perve and should find something better to do.
That's rather pot calling the kettle black ironic that some strippers would say that. A lot of folks in the civilian world think that very same thing about strippers. I guess it takes a full on loser, to take another full on losers money.
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So how much would be deemed as too much
Too much is not a matter of time or frequency. Too much IS:
- when you're spending your rent/grocery/kid's lunch money.
- when you think that the only way you can interact with a woman is to pay her for it.
- when you think you HAVE to be at the club because she's there. This is her job, not yours.
- when you're making your favorite dancer's car payment, or getting more involved in her OTC life than you should be.
- when you're letting someone else's preferences dictate your spending habits.
- when you get too possessive of your favorite dancer and think that she has to revolve her schedule around you.
- when you blame her for "manipulating" you, when in reality you allowed yourself to be manipulated.
- when you think she really is in love with you, but you can't bear to cut off the money for fear of finding out the truth.
Personally, I go on average, about every six weeks. I'd rather have one really nice trip as opposed to several so-so ones.
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I have regulars that come in once or twice a week, every week. They get great service. They have their drink before they sit, they get hugs from wait staff, I have more patience to sit and chat with them etc.. As long as you're a nice boy and treat the girls right, you're golden. Have fun!
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I have a regular who comes every time I work. He usually buys a VIP and some dances. Personally I find it rather sad when I see the same ol' customers come into the club. We have customers who frequent the club DAILY.
Some people just need to be around others in a social scene. They may not get the same attention out in "civilian" world, so they come to the SC to be fullfilled.
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But maybe a visit once every week or two, is there anything strange about that?
Another question: Are you there every week or 2 to visit one girl, or random ones? I have talked to veteran dancers who tell me they'd rather their regular save up " a weeks worth of money" and come in on 1 night rather than come in 2-3x that week. Sometimes it gets hard (juggling) spending time with several different men and giving them all equal attention that they seek out.
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I don't think it's any different from being a regular at any other bar. Some guys just prefer to hang out at the strip club.
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Clubbing too frequently (which is very subjective) might generate some dressing room gossip in extreme cases (whats up with that guy...doesnt he have a life? Hes here every day) but its not likely that the dancers will turn down your business or give you sub-standard service just because you dont fit in the mold of their perception of a perfect customer.
I wouldnt worry about it. Youre not there for acceptance and personal affirmation from strippers or at least you shouldnt be. Its business to them and should be business to you. Go as often as you like and can afford. Assuming you are getting what you want from the visits and the dancers arent avoiding you like the plague (which means you are doing something that overwhelms their desire for your money) the system is working.
FBR
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let me put it this way: when you pitch a tent on the stage at the end of the night, put on pjs and offer to cook eggs and sausage when the club opens the next day, i have problems.
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More than once a week, but who cares what we think!
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I certainly fall into the category of guys who would rather hang out in a strip club than a regular bar. My visits range anywhere from once or twice a week to once or twice a month depending on how busy work is. I go to see the same dancers all of the time unless It's a new club on the road. At this point I don't see any of my favs often enough to be a serious source of income for them. They always seem happy to see me and gladly accept my money. It could be BS or they could really be glad to see me. I don't worry too much about it.
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I certainly fall into the category of guys who would rather hang out in a strip club than a regular bar. My visits range anywhere from once or twice a week to once or twice a month depending on how busy work is. I go to see the same dancers all of the time unless It's a new club on the road. At this point I don't see any of my favs often enough to be a serious source of income for them. They always seem happy to see me and gladly accept my money. It could be BS or they could really be glad to see me. I don't worry too much about it.
I agree with Yoda that most experienced SC guys realistically juggle their clubbing with real life based upon their own circumstances. But if a fella can afford the time and money to go there every day, more power to him. i wouldnt want to club that often but thats just me. Im reminded of the Indian dude (that I posted about on Blue) who is there most every day, complete with either slinky jogging pants or tight biking shorts. The dancers make fun of him behind his back but they beat a path to his door for the LD's he buys. He's always smiling so I guess he has come to terms with his obsession LOL
FBR
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Back when I worked for somebody else and actually took vacations I could be found in my favorite club for maybe four days out of the week...but that was one week a year - lol, the other 2 weeks where often spent at Disney world...WAYYYY more money than I could ever spend in a strip club.
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Back when I worked for somebody else and actually took vacations I could be found in my favorite club for maybe four days out of the week...but that was one week a year - lol, the other 2 weeks where often spent at Disney world...WAYYYY more money than I could ever spend in a strip club.
Tell me about it. Based upon my company's policy (which I wrote by the way) I get six weeks vacation due to my senority. Im lucky to take two LOL But I admit, by taking advantage of my position, I am able to sneak out every once in a while for a couple of hours. So I guess in reality if you add it up I actually take a bit more time off than that ;)
I did the Disney world thing but thank god that was a long time ago. My youngest is 20 and we are in the college expense countdown :)
FBR
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there is no such thing as "too regular" you actually spend money in there and arent just getting a free show.
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Toronto is were I attend clubs. Have lived in hotel rooms and on the road for 25yrs, started going to strip clubs when there was no contact and the features were almost of burlesque quality. Always in groups often mixed. Never went to local clubs for fear of seeing someone I know. Too often I have gone for a drink or to play pool in TO and ended getting involved in verbal or worse altercation. Now I go to strip clubs solely, excellent security and beautiful women. Don't always get dancers and only problem is a few dancers who plead for dances. Toronto also inundated with eastern european dancers some of whom will do almost anything, not my thing(twice had tongues shoved down my throat) yikes. Am I a freak, does the staff think I'm a freak who knows who cares. ;D