Has this ever happened to you?
Felt sick after talking to or dancing for certain customers? Either they will try to massage my back or touch my leg or stomach, I feel like I am going to puke so I tell them to stop. Or they just sound perverted by talking about what they like to do in bed, etc. giving nasty details, that makes me feel quesy (sp?) too. Is that weird? I had to leave work early the other night because of this. Even though they look normal certain guys just creep me out!
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I've never gotten physicaly ill from that but guys have creeped me out beofre. You may get used to this, you may not. Now when guys say stuff to me like that it goes in one ear and out the other, if they're getting dances, sometimes I'll talk back to them "oh yeah baby, I'd love you to ______", rolling my eyes the whole time.
If it's going to continue to make you sick, maybe try another club. I recently moved from the local hang out strip joint to more o0f a true gentelmens club and I've found that the clientelle is much better. I haven't had to deal with anyone getting out of line in any way as of yet.
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Happens to me a lot. That is when I politely excuse myself to go to the bathroom, or if I am giving dances, then I "turn my butt to them" if you know what I mean. Since i work in a grinding club, I will grind with my ass.
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Yep, it does. That's when I know I need a day off.
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A small percentage of guys will actually make me feel this way. It's hard to tell until I get close to them, but when I do I swear I get the most awful vibes from them. I will then continue to give a really crappy air dance and excuse myself quickly when the song is over. Luckily, this happens very rarely, but when it does happen there is no money in the world that would make me stick around.
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Yeah, the odd guy will do this to me. I don't really hide that I'm very uncomfortable either, so thankfully I don't have to do many dances for them.
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Originally Posted by jessica_rabbit
A small percentage of guys will actually make me feel this way. It's hard to tell until I get close to them, but when I do I swear I get the most awful vibes from them. I will then continue to give a really crappy air dance and excuse myself quickly when the song is over. Luckily, this happens very rarely, but when it does happen there is no money in the world that would make me stick around.
Yeeeaahh. I work off of vibes. It's rare but sometimes a guy will have such an evil vibe I won't go near them. I actually met a guy one time who made me uneasy enough to want to get away or grab a gun. I mean I met a guy in Queens who stared at me in an intense way so I went to get a tip and he wouldn't let my hand go and looked at me like I'd be his next victim. Ewwww! Those types I won't talk to.
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Yup, especially the really needy ones with the terrible breath that look you intensely in the eyes when you dance......
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Originally Posted by Katrine
Yup, especially the really needy ones with the terrible breath that look you intensely in the eyes when you dance......
...and say "I would love you to be my Breath Mint"
:D
I score a lot of trim with that line, and I also never have to brush.
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Yes, It sometimes happens to me too. I think it happens to all of us at one time or another.
Stripclubs attract all types of men and some are alot more likeable than others.
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Yep. There's one guy in particular I avoid at all costs. He skeeves me out so bad. I absolutely refuse to dance for him. I don't care if I only have $1 in my purse, no way will I put up with that man!
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There is a guy that saw me at work one night, who I know lives in my building. I never acknowledge him, but today he was following me around in a drug store, and I've seen him trying to follow me or staring at me hard when I've been walking in my neighbourhood. I don't know what his issue is. I try my best to avoid him and not make eye contact seeing as how we live in the same building, but he really is starting to creep me out. Just be happy the really creepy/needy/annoying customers can normally be left at work, and to an extent be forgotten about.
Also, when living with my ex, I had a customer who my boyfriend swore he saw cruising by our place in a rental van...then we had a garbage bag go missing. That is creepy!
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Wow. I just realized my post was kinda off topic. But, yes, certain guys are quite sickening whether it be their crudeness, groping or serial killer type qualities. Depending on how I feel that night will determine my tolerance level.
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yea.. UH... I miss the gentleman's clubs. In Tampa though.. there just isn't as much money there though...
Wanting to move....
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hell yeah of course it happens .. lol most of them are freaks .. im known as the freak magent at my work i get them all .. im not really fazed by a whole lot but i do get the yucky feeling every now n then depends what they do n say
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Originally Posted by Jeanette
There is a guy that saw me at work one night, who I know lives in my building. I never acknowledge him, but today he was following me around in a drug store, and I've seen him trying to follow me or staring at me hard when I've been walking in my neighbourhood. I don't know what his issue is. I try my best to avoid him and not make eye contact seeing as how we live in the same building, but he really is starting to creep me out. Just be happy the really creepy/needy/annoying customers can normally be left at work, and to an extent be forgotten about.
Also, when living with my ex, I had a customer who my boyfriend swore he saw cruising by our place in a rental van...then we had a garbage bag go missing. That is creepy!
omg that's scary you should try to move!