Question About a Customer
I have this guy that comes in like every Friday and Saturday night and like every time he comes in he like only wants dances from me. I cant blame him since all the other girls are like total skanks or they are like totally old. But like this guy keeps like touching me when he's not supposed to. I want to like tell him to quit it, but like he's paying all my bills. Like what should I do?
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Like this isn't really the right forum but like i dunno like?
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Well he is like touching me during a private dance. Where should I put this question? Could someone like move it to the right place so someone like might answer it?
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A private dance in the club is different from private dancing outside the club. If you were a stripper and not a troll, you'd know that.
Just in case someone is reading this who's actually in that situation, I'll answer the question. You should set boundaries and enforce them. If you're not able to do so, you should not be a dancer.
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Originally Posted by Lena
A private dance in the club is different from private dancing outside the club. If you were a stripper and not a troll, you'd know that.
Exactly!
Yea, he's buying dances only from you. So if he likes you THAT MUCH then he should be able to respect your boundaries. If you still cant' get him to stop, ask yourself if him touching you as inapproapriately as he does is worth the risk of losing the money. Me personally, I'm actually doing away with my current regular because he has pushed himself over the deepend. I will not tolerate abuse (physical, mental, verbal), and I will not be harassed. I'd rather keep my sanity, than keep up with a customers bulls***.
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Originally Posted by Lena
A private dance in the club is different from private dancing outside the club. If you were a stripper and not a troll, you'd know that.
I guess I misunderstood. Thanks for the help anyway. ::)
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i see your in arkansas. you cant be from there though if you say 'like' so many times!
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I'm from Chicago. I live in Arkansas. I work in Memphis. Is there like anything else you need to know that has like nothing to do with my question?
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everyone "likes" knows what you are going to do. you will let him do anything he wants to do so that you can have money to spend on things you don't need. how are the other girls skanks but you're not? anyone who furnishes sexual contact for money is a whore and everyone knows it. that's why you are scared to tell family and people you know/have met what your job is.
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Originally Posted by trophyhusband
everyone "likes" knows what you are going to do. you will let him do anything he wants to do so that you can have money to spend on things you don't need. how are the other girls skanks but you're not? anyone who furnishes sexual contact for money is a whore and everyone knows it. that's why you are scared to tell family and people you know/have met what your job is.
WTF? My doctor is whore becasue he touches my penis and tells me to cough? That's it, no more prostate exams either! I'm going to have bitch slap that chicken head and put his kinky ass to work.
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Originally Posted by trophyhusband
everyone "likes" knows what you are going to do. you will let him do anything he wants to do so that you can have money to spend on things you don't need. how are the other girls skanks but you're not? anyone who furnishes sexual contact for money is a whore and everyone knows it. that's why you are scared to tell family and people you know/have met what your job is.
TH, step down on the name calling. Sex workers are not necessarily "whores" so knock it off with the generalizing and bandwagon-ing. Tina-- can you watch this guy for excessive posting on posts where only dancers need to give feedback?
As for the question, set your boundaries, and stick to them. Otherwise start giving him air dances, and when he asks why, tell him. He'll either behave himself or you'll be replaced. It's up to you to decide if it's worthwhile to have a customer like this (and we don't know how far he's pushing her, so in that context "whore" does not need to be bandied about. I think TH is angry at strippers for some reason, because we all sell sexual contact even if it's just brushing our breasts against their foreheads which is pretty standard. It does not make us whores.) If it IS worthwhile, well, then you know, and you have made that decision without being pushed into it. But I'd be VERY wary about having the customer make that decision for you-- you really need to decide this for yourself if you're willing to do x for x amount of money.
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Argh! Someone close this thread or move it somewhere else.... damnit.. we need a moderator for this section of SW!
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Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl
Argh! Someone close this thread or move it somewhere else.... damnit.. we need a moderator for this section of SW!
I know I know, I wish it could be me ;D
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I nominate cinnamonkisses ;)
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I have never been so entertained by a thread. wtg ginger you made my day.
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hypnotize yourself while he is touching you and imagine its your lover doing it.
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Originally Posted by nylonfeetlover
hypnotize yourself while he is touching you and imagine its your lover doing it.
retch! That's is horrible advice. You're kiddding, right.
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