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what...???
might be having a blonde moment but i have no idea what your on about!
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sounds like prostitution to me. You should just stick to exotic dancing(stripping) only.
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Originally Posted by Miki
I'm scheduled for a private performance, my first...I've never danced for one person before....What are your tips for private dancing altogether? I want to show this a guy a good time and I very capable of doing that WITHOUT getting pelvic. ;D
Some thoughts - please check them out with the dancers on this board.
1) You need to find to what the legal constraints are on what you can do. If you go outside the law, there's always the change of getting busted.
2) How far do you, (as a person), want to go? No point in showing the guy a good time, if you feel bad about it afterwards.
3) Think about your safety - will you be taking someone along to look after your welfare, and is the place you're performing sufficiently public that if there are troubles, you can leave easily?
4) If you want to give a strong show, without getting pelvic, consider using toys.
Phil.
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Pelvic, hee.
Sounds like she's just asking how to do a private dance. Go to a local (clean) club and buy a lapdance- then copy. You shouldn't have to get pelvic or use toys during a private show, unless you want to of course. I do 'non-pelvic' bachelor parties...it's not hard, just keep your eyes lusty-looking and your movements slow.
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Tell all of your customers from the get-go that you don't get pelvic. In fact, please use that exact phrase. "Mister, I don't know what kind of girl you think I am but I'll tell you right now that this dance is not getting pelvic now, later, or ever. Capisce?"
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Originally Posted by red red red
Tell all of your customers from the get-go that you don't get pelvic. In fact, please use that exact phrase. "Mister, I don't know what kind of girl you think I am but I'll tell you right now that this dance is not getting pelvic now, later, or ever. Capisce?"
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.
That's an R. Kelly single waiting to happen, "Getting Pelvic."
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Please be careful! It is easy to go from doing the "norm" strip during private parties to ALOT more, because the $$$$ are better the more you do. And you don't have to get pelvic with a customer for this to happen. You screw yourself.
Set your boundries. Stick to them. Dont get wrapped up in all the money that may be offered.
Good luck,
Pamela
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[Maybe I'm oblivious, but I just noticed that Pamela is back. So happy to hear from you again...we were worried.]
Can't tell from your post if you are dancing at a party or one-on-one. I've never done either, but from what I understand, one is considerably different from the other. I hope you have security covered.
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As Scarlett said, go to a club, pay for a lap dance and see what happens. I work at a club where there is no touching allowed and we don't do toys etc. I try to make the customer feel relly special and involved... Lots of eye contact, smiles and looking as though you're loving every minute of it ! Also, as has been advised, make your boundary's and stick to them no matter what ! You have to respect yourself so don't do anyhting you're not comfortable with otherwise you'll feel worse off, no matter how much you've earnt... Good luck !