Getting Crazier at Bachelorette parties??
I've been stripping for a few years now and have a question to pose to the ladies...
It seems like the internet is filled with websites showing wild stripping parties where the women go crazy fondeling the dancers and even more...I know that some of them are staged, but there are a few that are taken from real bars, parties, etc., where the women really get into to getting up close and personal with the male dancers!
I'm wondering if this is a trend that I should include?? I realize that all groups are different, but I wonder just how far I should be going in order to give the women what they want???
Any thoughts would be appreciated!
:)
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Just do your show the way you've been doing it. If they are satisfied, then you are doing your job.
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I quit doing private shows when the girls started raffling blow jobs. Yeah, things get crazy sometimes, but that is because the entertainers offer/invite or put up with it. As a disclaimer, I'll say that sometimes it is just that they do not have reliable bouncers/bodyguards.
It can be hard to make $$$ when the others you are with offer more. You can always work by yourself or choose your "co-workers" according to what you and they want to allow.
Some custies want WILD (intimate fondling, sex, etc.), others just want to be entertained by a hot guy dancing naked. I am in the second group, some of my friends in the first. When I was younger, I was in the first group. I still like grab-ass too, if allowed, but don't head for the jewels, and don't want them licking/kissing/groping me intimately either.
Do what you are comfortable with - never cross your own boundaries. Let the party/group know what those boundaries are when they hire you, and let them choose if you are what they want or not, both parties will be satisfied then.
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i dont mind touching, although i dont encourage it, i dont stop them. If they try to give a blow job, i'll let them but only for a few seconds then pull away.
if any one of them wants to go further after the show, thats a different matter.
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Y'know if a girl was a dancer I think she'd be highly offended if people were raffling cunnilingus on her. WTF makes women think it's okay to try to suck the male dancer? NOT ALL MEN WANT IT. I mean, what if they have girlfriends or wives and they go home feeling dirty because 30 women just licked his cock even though he was pushing them away and fighting them off?
I'm sorry... I just don't see where it's okay for women to act like this at parties but when men do it, it's sexual harassment.
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TOTALLY AGREED, lilithmorrigan! Women can be really hypocritical when it comes to the sex industry. Ugh. The stuff men have to deal with can be just as difficult as what women go through.
My boyfriend's the type that would feel uncomfortable if a girl touched his dick during a lapdance, and a lot of my friends agree. Also just because a man has an erection doesn't mean he wants sex with you either.
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Originally Posted by TifaRae
Also just because a man has an erection doesn't mean he wants sex with you either.
Too, too true. Thank you TifaRae
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I wonder if maybe part of the reason women grope men like that at bachelorette parties is because the majority of women really do assume that the exact same thing goes on at bachelor parties. Sure, we know it doesn't, but don't forget that there's a LOT of women out there who still think stripper = hooker. I have to wonder if part of their justification of their behaviour comes from thinking that their husband/boyfriend/fiance is doing the exact same thing.
We hired a male stripper for my 19th birthday two years ago from the same agency that I actually work for. At the time I was working in a VERY strict no-touching club. To this day that male stripper says that we were the most well behaved group he has ever danced for, because we were so used to enforcing the non-contact rule on guys that we sat there with our hands firmly to our sides for his whole performance LOL
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It's really tough being a male dancer!
There was a party I did recently where I had to fend off a women who was constantly pulling my g-string off! I couldn't help but think that if that happened at a private party with a woman dancing, the person would have been clocked by her driver!
It is really amazing the difference in enviornment bewteen bachelorette and bachelor parties!