Dancing In Hotels Or Private Residences
IM always being asked to do a party with a few of my freind from work ither at a private home or hotel, ive ben offered alot of money for these private dances (only) and im considering doing them, if you all were in my shoes where would you guys feel more safer doing a private dance outside the club at HOTEL OR AT private resicidence like a house,condo, apratment etc,? or has anybody here ever done any private dances outside the clubs?? ither at a hotel or a home?? please let me know what you all think,,im thinking of doing a party this upcoming friday!!! so i need fast adivce :'( huggs,kissses and godbless you
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I will NEVER EVER EVER do a private party in a hotel - sorry.
Private residences, yes - Pay my security 10% of what you're paying me per hour. :)
Private party without my security? Call my agent and book through her. It's much more expensive but she has your real name, address, phone number, times I'll be gone, times she'll be expecting my call that I finished, my number AND emergency backup. :P
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I've done both shows in residences and hotels. For a bachelor party, I'd rather be in a residence. You can be alot more louder, and there is more room. For a private party (dancer and a few guests) a hotel room feels safer to me.
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I've only did a few partys at hotels...But for some reason i always BANK at the. Dont know why..
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I've done heaps of parties at hotels, private residencies, sheds, shops, basketball stadiums, function centers... hell, I've even done one in the back of a truck.
It's all the same to me - my security goes everywhere I go, and I've never really found any difference in the way guys behave just because they're in different places. I've had good private residency shows, and I've had bad ones. I've had good hotel room shows, and bad ones.
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I've done both and when I am the one setting them up, I bring my security. Once a girlfriend of mine set up a party at a home and at the end of it, we got stiffed... NO MONEY, no security to make sure we got paid. I was pissed, she was pissed..... I called my guy and he came up there and we got SOME of our money... not the 1500 as promised.. but it was better than a kick in the ass.
Sin-
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Hotels can be fun because who cares if it gets a bit messed up! I have done very well doing private parties at hotels!
TWO words of caution..first safety! And, if you use the same hotel alot, the hotel owner or manager does not like it! They will give you the boot out. These are very nice hotels i am talking about. Hilton, and such since they are very close to my home.
Sleazy hotels who cares...but still be careful. Make the party at very nice hotels if you go that route.
A guys home, sure...again security.
Pamela
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ive never done private parties but I know people that have and they always come out with like 3 times what they make at a club, but like the girls before me said SAFETY FIRST
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i have did a private parties before at somebody house but never at a hotel.always safety first
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i spoke to 1 of the older girls at my club about doing private parties and she pointed out somthing that i fouond interesting, she told meth at like you all have said on here SAFETY 1ST. , she also told me that every time shes done a private dance for mutiple men ither in a home or hotel somthing always goes wrong, ither a fight breaks out,1 guy gett totally drunk and stupid wants to like have sex with all the girls etc. was she right on this? or is that like tottally big BS.?
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i've been doing private parties for nearly 3 years and i could probably count on one hand the number of times that a party has gotten out of hand.
honestly, if you take the proper precautions - eg make sure its a reliable booking, take security, make sure someone knows where you're going (whether that's a friend or your agency) - the likelihood of you running in to trouble is minimal.
the only times i've heard of girls getting seriously fucked around at shows is when drunk guys have come into their club, flashed around some cash and offered them a heap of money to come back to their hotel to do a private party, and they've just up and left and gone up there by themselves.
you can do private parties irresponsibly, OR you can do them responsibly.
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thank you all for all the advice your all sweeet hearts now i feel better about doing private dances that i know much more,, thanks agin huggs kisses and godbless
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I just did a private show with another girl at the Trump Towers were taht show is filmed, Donalds home. And I NORMALLY DANCE IN CLUBS. Once in a blue moon I will dance privatly. You have more of an oppurtunity to make more money at a club.8)
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you really think there more chances of making more money in the club as opposed to private dances? ive alwasy heard many dancers saying that they made 1500.00 in a few hours doing private dances in hotels etc. do you think thats possibel or there just BS'ing me ( lol huggs and kisses godbless
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It's very possible. I do it every day. I do not dance in any club. Just do private parties. Of course its better money.
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I've been doing parties for going on 13 years, and have had exactly two real problems. One was a woman who was pissed at me being there (the guy's mom had hired me for his 21st birthday, and his girlfriend was NOT happy), and one was a fistfight that was no where near (and had nothing to do with) me. Both times, my security stepped in and got me out immediately. Other than that, no problems. Heck, I've had more issues in clubs, frankly. Most guys at parties are fairly wel behaved, esp if you (ALWAYS) get the show-up fee up front. If they're paying $300 for you to be there, no one is going to let one idiot make you leave half way through the show (and that is my standard policy).
Tips:
-ALWAYS take security. Always.
-Security people that are friendly and unobtrusive are best. Ideally, security will NOT step in unless you absolutely can't handle something, because if your security is a guy and he steps in too often, it will cause a huge testosterone pissing match. *I* handle the guys until I can't handle the guys, if you know what I mean. example: One bachelor kept trying to lick the kitty. I told him to knock it off or I'd pull his tongue ring out--he was drunk and I was faster. He did, and I did. He bled a bit, and the other guys hollered him out of the room so I could keep dancing :-) It's all in the presentation.
-Go in dressed as an entertainer. Costume/theme shows = more $$, and automatically give the signal that you are a dancer, not a hooker.
-Give you $$ to the bouncer as you get it. Pick it up after each song, and just hand it to him to put in his fanny pack/pockets/whatever.
-Be nice, hand out cards afterwards, and then leave. No hanging out if they aren't paying you.
-NEVER take a drink from anyone but your security person.
As far as money, it can be fantastic. Or, it can suck. Depends on the party, the guys, etc. I've danced for 10 guys and banked, and 120 and literally not come out with a dollar (nor did any of the othe TEN women they hired...ergh). Never judge a book by it's cover, and hustle! Ideally, I do 2-4 parties a night, and should come home with (bad night) $400 to (Good night) $900. If I did toy shows, it'd be a heck of a lot more.
Good luck!
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Here is my question...how do you ladies find a good security man that can be trusted? Do ya's all go through an agency? Anyone ever use a bouncer they trusted from a former club they worked at? I never know what agencies are really just looking to book dancers,,,i see newspaper ads with agencies promising dancers AND escorts atleast 1000 a night,,,make me think that an actual dancer would not be in demand? Any thoughts on this? I am in the Phila area.
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HOW TO: Hire a driver / security -- http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=62334
That question has been asked and answered. Do a search ;)
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SILKY ,, many of the girl ive asked usualy use a current or former boyfreinds, a bouncer from the club and some independant escort put small ad's in news papers looking to hire drivers/security guys. hopefully this may help you in some way