been dancing for a year, need to know what a Private Show is....
I'm new on this thing, I have been dancing for a year in Portland, Oregon. Worked at 4 different clubs, love where I am at though, I hear all the girls talking about Private Shows and customers asking for them, but I dont actually know what they are. I'm not a dirty dancer, in fact I know a few that are close to me, but I am just curious on what it actually is, what is alloud and if I should have a bouncer or a friend with me just in case the situation gets out of controll??
Re: been dancing for a year, need to know what a Private Show is....
Depends where you are. Sometimes a private show is just that, but more often it's a euphemism for meeting OTC for sex (prostitution). At any rate, no matter what you are doing, you should NEVER meet a stranger in private by yourself! That's how women wind up dead.
Re: been dancing for a year, need to know what a Private Show is....
it also depends if you're talking private SHOW or private PARTY
it's easy to get confused because in australia we usually refer to parties as shows, but i think generally speaking, a private show is a dance for one or two guys in a private residence (i don't do these so i'm not really sure on the specifics) and a private party is a dance for a larger group of guys at a bachelor party, birthday etc outside of the club. and like yek said, it can also mean prostitution.
i guess you should just talk to some of the other girls and find out exactly what they mean when they say private shows.
my only advice is only do what you are comfortable with, and always take security. never go to a private residence alone, and if for some reason you have to go alone, make sure someone knows exactly where you are and keep in contact with them to make sure you're safe.
Re: been dancing for a year, need to know what a Private Show is....
In Portland a private show can mean a lap dance w/ some contact or it could mean a bachelor party type of show. If you aren't sure what the customer is wanting out of his show, just ask him. He may be happy watching and masturbating, or he may want full service (sex).
If it is a bachelor party, the guys will usually carify if you ask. Just say "what kind of private show?"
And, yes, Always bring a bouncer!!
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