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XXX Shows and "Aunty Flow"
Ah... please forgive me if this is in the wrong section (private dancing).
Well, since I havn't really been active sexually for quite awhile now (nearly three months) I decided to stop my depo injections for a little bit (last injection was in February)..... well you wouldn't guess it (I didn't)... today.. Friday.. "Aunty Flow" has decided to stop by for a visit :laughing:
I know how to deal with her visit when working within a strip club - insert tampon, cut off string. Easy. I've done that before and it's worked fine.
HOWEVER
I'm doing XXX shows via the private parties which means insertion (of a dildo) in a masturbatory fashion at some point in the show (near the end, naturally).... how the hell do I deal with Aunty Flow's visit when doing xxx shows and not gross everyone else with period blood all over the dildo/toy when I use it ???
This is a dilema as I can't NOT be available for them as there is no work if I do not allow myself to be available for them (quite possibly). I've already had one quiet weekend, I can't really afford a second quiet (under $100) weekend..... any suggestions etc ???
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Maybe try a divacup? Those (I've heard) you can use during sex, and it catches all the blood in the cup, then you just empty it in the toilet when you're done. www.divacup.com
I personally have never tried them, but I would think this would be the only way for you to *safely* do it.
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I'm in Australia... does anyone know of any similiar products which would be available for me to purchase today ???
I found http://www.thekeeper.com.au however that isn't available at a local pharmacy as far as I can tell... I'll go up v.soon to see if the local pharm. can be of assistance.
Tho' I may order "The Keeper" just in case for next time. :-[
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Hrm, they should have something similar at a drugstore...but I'm not sure :( Goodluck! :)
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...... The only logical reason I can even guess as to why it is not readily available here in shops yet, is because it could suggest a loss of profit for some major sanitary companies? [hmm... and from discussions with mangers of my local health stores, possibly a fear of sales failure, or a lack of profitable mark-up?] .......... from: http://www.grudknows.com/inanemutter..._spam_0506.asp
That doesn't bode well for me being able to find something "up the road" ... ah well... maybe it will just be a quiet weekend again... lol! Definately going to "invest" in a mentral cup.
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get black vibes :) lol
wear a tampon, and dont insert too much. lol and dont use pearls!!!
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^^ :thanx: I doubt I will have many requests this "weekend" ... I guess I'll just be extra careful as there weren't, as I thought, any menstal cups available "up the road". Shame. Hopefully this has helped someone else not just me ;D
I can't be the only one who has had to deal with this situation. :laughing:
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can you do shows that arent xxx? like just do basic strips, lap dances, all the other crap?
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I've found that if I wear a tampon, I'm "dry" for a little while afterwards. Like nothing leaking out or anything. Maybe you could do a super absorbancy for the first part of your show, excuse yourself to the bathroom to get ready and take out the tampon. I don't know about anyone else, but I have no trouble having sex for at least an hour.
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I don't know how unsafe or bad for you this is but it's possible to have sex or finger insertion while having a junior absorbency tampon inside and have there be no blood showing on the penis/finger/toy. I've pulled it off a couple times when I barely knew the boyfriend and was to shy to tell him why we couldn't mess around. It will make you dry overall though and it's probably asking for an infection but it works in an emergency.
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I would use a red or black dildo. OR, at worst, use a red tinted condom with strawberry lube with the lights turned low. The guys will see that the lube is tinted, and probably won't see anything. Just make sure you've got a dark towel handy to wipe yourself off quickly and wrap up the toy.
Edit: And, I've never gone to this much trouble before, but you COULD travel with your own lights (WHICH I'VE SEEN DONE). Get some red tinted plastic from an arts, photography, or graphics store (or get red scarves); fix them over the lights, and you've got instant mood lighting.
This would only work with light flow though. good luck!
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make-up sponges work really well..the triangle ones.
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I've heard that escorts use natural sea sponges if they want to work during that time of the month...but I don't really know the details. These are sold as makeup sponges in most drugstores, and I think I may have seen some sort of natural-sea-sponge-tampon type product at a natural foods market here in the states.
Has anyone tried this?
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Originally Posted by HoneyHITZmore
can you do shows that arent xxx? like just do basic strips, lap dances, all the other crap?
Not if I want to make any money... regardless, I didn't get booked for any shows so didn't have to worry about Aunty Flow embarressig me or anything. I'm getting my Depo shot on Monday. She only visited temporarily before stopping anyway so I worried for nothing ..... tho' my worry and post has been helpful to me at the very least (and hopefully others).
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In my short stint as an escort, they said to just use makeup sponges *shrug*
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Those of us who do XXX film work use make up sponges.
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Gold Coast Girl
Have you tried make up sponges? they can be bought for next to nothing, put lube on in and insert - woolah aunty flow free (for atlease 1 hour depending on flow density)
The sponge will last a while during your show - this is what most of the show girls use to do xxx rated shows - also I have been informed that escorts do too.
Make sure that you use a solid see sponge insert it, do not wash it and put it back in, just use a new one (get them for like $2.00 for a big pack from junk shops)
Good Luck
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well my cousin who's a prostitute, uses sea sponges......get them at the chemist.
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Wow... This thread was.... informative... The sponges absorbs everything?? You can have sex and nothing comes out?
What about for stage dances....? I have enrdometreosis.... (spelling) so I usually have to call out the first couple days of my period?
How do you get them out?
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Just put your fingers in and with your nail fish it out - may sound yuck but it definitely will work.
Dont rely on sponges if you have extremely heavy flow (by that I mean filling a tampon in under 2 hours - it happens to me often grr)
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What I do is kind of like a colonic for the vagina. Lay in an empty bathtub right before you leave. Position your legs up so your vagina is right under the faucet with your pelvis up. Then run the water and hold the lips open. Normally the water will flush everything out deep inside of you(buying about a little under an hour if your not heavy). This works best if its coming to the end of your period. *Don't do this too long or it will get a little fun and you won't get out* Then put a tampon in and leave. Right before the show go check if your still bleeding which if you are will be very light.
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i thought this would be an issue, i do toy shows as an escort, and i just shove the tampon up there, and don't insert the toy to far....once i almost lost my tampon. good luck though, i think as long as you don't insert it to far you'll be fine
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If you ever think you have 'lost' your tampon or sea sponge, squat on the floor and insert your fingers to fetch it out. It helps if you can get your muscles in your vagina to push down while you do it, as it makes it easier to get it.
Make sure you wash your hands and ensure your nails are clean prior to doing this - last thing you want is an infection !!!
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Was going to say... nothings getting lost up there :O
lol
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You can push a tampon all the way up and turn it sideways - it won't come out and it allows you more room with no leakage.
The sea sponge thing is short term (like, under two hours) and if you have heavy flow you have to be careful not to bear down with your muscles and squeeze the blood out. Before putting it in (right before the show) squat in your bathtub or over a toilet in a pinch and put your fingers up there and kind of scoop out the blood and clots that especially seem to accumulate at the top around the cervix. Just keep scooping out and rinsing, scooping out and rinsing, until your clean wet fingers come out clean. Then insert the sponge and your good for a couple hours.
If you're using a real sea sponge (and you probably shouldn't use anything else) you can rinse and reuse.