Originally Posted by Emily
I do dumb and ditzy...but I do not do trashy! You go trashy and you will get the guys that treat you like trash. If you do it right, they will treat you like a grandparent treats a grandchild (well, sorta)....like you really want to make them happy and you know they are easily impressed by shiny things (or money).
It's not really so much your actions, like gum chewing or hair twirling, but it's the way you communicate. Act confused when they use big words. Seem easily impressed by their boring stories. Tell them stories like about the time you went to buy a car and the salesman kept staring at your tits the whole time. Do not talk about school or current events (unless it's like, "I wish we'd stop killing people....that really sucks!") Know some dorky (not dirty!) jokes. If you use a ditzy name, even better.
But do it with class. Sit straight with your legs crossed. Don't curse or talk badly about anyone or anything. Be focused on them, but keep it light and flirty. Then when you get them paying for your time (like dances for VIPs), then you get into deeper stuff. I don't like to be too engaging too soon. Then it gets hard to pop the question.