i almost feel bad for this girl...
a new girl started at our club tonight and, for some reason, all the other girls can't stand her. every conversation i heard between dancers tonight involved this girl and why they didn't like her.
i have to admit, i got a weird vibe from her off the bat too and wasn't going out of my way to be overly friendly. but i can't figure out what it is about this girl that is so unlikeable. i've never noticed such a negative response to a new dancer before. it was really odd...
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Drugs? What's she look like?
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don't think it's drugs.
she's attractive. her face is just alright, but she's got that stereotypical stripper body thing going on. slim with blatently fake boobs.
she's a lousy dancer though...not in the awkward new dancer way. more in the unjustifiably confident way (if that makes any sense).
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I know what you mean. If you caught a vibe you caught a vibe, so I suggest that you just be friendly, but not too friendly, because if she thinks you're her only friend then she'll follow you around the club like a wounded puppy. Then if this girl has given you a bad vibe, she'll betray you. So, just watch your back.
-Rayna Skye
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Listen to your instinct. She's probably that kind of person that you know somethings not right but you just can't put your finger on it. Am I right? You'll find out in time, she's probably up to no good, or probably bad news that will stire up a bunch of problems. Be cordial but keep your distance.
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I would bet that she doesn't give two shits if any of you like her at the club. Does she make money? Is she a good hustler? Does she seem to outsell alot of girls? That's the most common reason most new girls aren't well-received amongst co-workers. ESPECIALLY if her dancing style doesn't suit most girls there. "She can't dance for shit! Why does she make so much money?? Ugh I can't stand her; she's such a bitch" --- sound familiar?
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Originally Posted by Bridgette
I would bet that she doesn't give two shits if any of you like her at the club. Does she make money? Is she a good hustler? Does she seem to outsell alot of girls? That's the most common reason most new girls aren't well-received amongst co-workers. ESPECIALLY if her dancing style doesn't suit most girls there. "She can't dance for shit! Why does she make so much money?? Ugh I can't stand her; she's such a bitch" --- sound familiar?
she didn't seem to be getting any more dances than the other girls. i sold dances to guys that weren't buying from her. and usually a new face gives a girl an advantage...
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I've gotten this exact vibe from girls before: that vague sort of not-quite-right feeling. So far my instincts have been 100% correct! One of them turned out to be a meth addict, one a major-league back-stabbing bitch drama queen and a third...I'm still watching but she may just be a dipshit. In any case, smile, nod and give her a wide berth. She'll self-destruct eventually and don't be nearby when she does.