I feel like I could be getting alot more dances if I connected with people immediately after my set onstage. I always feel rushed and was trying to think of a quick way to make someone like 80% more likely to buy from me later....any ideas? :-*
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I feel like I could be getting alot more dances if I connected with people immediately after my set onstage. I always feel rushed and was trying to think of a quick way to make someone like 80% more likely to buy from me later....any ideas? :-*
I sell a good number of dances from stage. If someone really seems to be enjoying the show, I'll lean in real close to take their tip and ask them if they're gonna be ready for me once I get off stage, or tell them that I'd be having a lot more fun in private with them, blah blah while I touch myself suggestively.
A great line to use with a tipper on the stage is, "This would be a lot more fun if we were sitting together, eh? How about I get a table for us when I'm done?"
i too, need to get better at this, so i'll keep an eye on this thread. the other day a customer kept comming to the stage and tipping, acting really interested. eventually he asked if i'd come see him after i got off stage for some private time. this happens occasionally, but this time it made me think "how many guys are interested and are just SHY, what if i had asked on the stage"
i just suck at "lines" so i'm always nervous to do it. i'm much more of a "in conversation" hustler. must.get.better
I'm usually a slow hustler.. a lot of minors sell dances from the stage at my club (since they can't mingle), but I always feel like it's rude. I also tend to sell more dances if I sit and "get to know" the customer for a while, so if I see someone who looks really into me and/or is tipping $2 or more a song, I playfully say something like "Let's grab a table and have a drink together" with a smile and eye contact.
The blonde minors with big boobs often can sell dances from the stage, but I find the "let's get a drink/relax and chat a bit" technique really pays off for me in the end, with multiple dances and repeat customers whose names and personalities I can actually remember the next time they come in.
While I'm collecting tips, if someone seems really interested I'll kneel down, ask him his name and then slowly move up and whisper in his ear what my name is. If I just do this to one guy and just quickly collect around the rest of the stage, it makes him feel special but it's a gamble and I really try to only do it to the one who was focusing on me the most.
It's frowned upon to ask for dancing after your stage set is over. It's like a 90% chance you'll get cussed out by management and the dancer who goes on after you if you try to pull that...
so ck when do you ask for a dance?????? if u cant ask after ur stage set is over? is there like a designated time frame for this? im confused?
^^^ Well we have like "intermission" it's called "chance for a dance" and that's when we can approach customers who are at the tip rail. The rest of the club is fair game while a girl is on stage though. The tip rail is a big no no in my club unless no one is performing at the club at said time.
Are you kidding me?! I get most of my dances from stage! I'd starve at your club!Quote:
Originally Posted by cinammonkisses
Anyhow, as mentioned earlier, just ask him if he seems to be enjoying your set. I don't like to ask closed questions, so I'll say something like, "I would love to get closer to you" or "let me know when you're ready to be molested by me (works great for bachelor parties or dirty old men)". Are they cheesy lines, absolutly! Do they get easier and more natural when you keep using them, yup! It dosen't really matter how you form your question, it's all about the delivery.
yeah, we're allowed to ask at the tip rail as long as it's right after our set.. not like 1/2 way through the next girls... obviously.
I generally watch, while on stage, and look for guys that are looking, but not tipping. Quite often men that come into the club are too embarassed to tip on stage, but love one-on-one attention (guys like this are generally big spenders). I tend to do well with guys who are too shy or embarassed to tip, because I am a bit shy. Stage is a great way for me to scope out the crowd. Also, pay attention, because I notice a pattern of guys who come solely to tip, and men who come only for table dances.
I always made a LOT of dances when I asked while they tipped me onstage..