Not directly, but here's one from the blue side for ya:Quote:
Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=69829
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Not directly, but here's one from the blue side for ya:Quote:
Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=69829
well..yes. the giant booger is a good gift, but a booger and a completely soaked, snot rag that you have been blowing in for some hours would have made you feel even better. especially, if you see her face when she puts her hand in the pocket.Quote:
Originally Posted by smartcookie
That's a healthy attitude, being able to maintain two points of view comfortably.Quote:
Originally Posted by Daniela
That's admirable, and from my limited experience, unusual.Quote:
Originally Posted by Daniela
Agreed.Quote:
Originally Posted by Daniela
HeyGen War I am going off thread topic here. I am not being a smart ass
here but I am a South Park fan and every time I read your threads it's in
the voice of the chef. I mean I am reading your thread and the chef is speaking to me.
We don't hate most of you :-)
Ohhh please, i read the things that the blueboys say about us...i remember a guy saying "If I cant cum from a lapdance, then the girl didnt do her job and im not paying her." Of course I balked--I think thats really asinine! Does EVERY patron feel that way? Of course not. No dancer hates all customers. You know all know that, fellas! We couldnt pay our bills and feed our kids if we didnt have you. (cue gypsy violins) I have respect for people who have respect for me; this includes friendly & respectful customers. 8)
I honestly dont think that girl did anything that he didnt deserve--that guy was out of line; he was rude and abusive, he deserved every but of it. Do you know how fucking demeaning it is to have VERY rich people think that they can buy you because they're rich/famous?
I've danced for pro-atheletes...they are rude, horrible, cocky people. I have only met one that was cool. One Detroit Pistons player I danced for ran out without paying for his dances I (after a big lecture about how he "doesnt give out charity." I chased him to the door and no one did anything about it. This jerk wouldnt pay for a $40 dance when the management kept telling me to go to him when I knew he would be a jerk. If could remember his name, I would have blasted it all over the damn net.
GenWar, I know that you arent an asshole, I've read alot of your posts. So I hope you didnt take that isolated situation seriously. I SERIOUSLY doubt something like that will ever happen to you because you are respectful and have a realistic attitude regarding SCs. That guy clearly didnt. but he offered her more than most men offer me, lol, I've gotten as low as $50. ::)
But if you are nasty to someone, what do you expect? Kindeness? Hell no! I gotta swallow every damn customer insult with a smile and a "ok, have a wonderful night!" After a few months of customers rolling thier eyes when you smile at them, refusing to pay for said dances, being licked, being bitten, having your pussy grabbed, being told that you're ugly/too black/too white/too skinny/too fat ect ect ect ect...wouldnt you flip after so much disrespect? Keep in mind that I DO NOT condone ripping off customers--it just creates bad karma. I have never stolen anything or lied about the amount songs ect....but the case of that guy is this:
He paid $350 to abuse her (by placing the $ in her hand)...he got his kicks and she got paid...end of story.
Money is power in the SC world and she took his money, thus taking his "power" in the situation. Same way guys tell us "oh, you gotta work for this 1$, bend over and spread your ass cheeks wide." Why? because it makes guys feel powerful. I bet that athlete felt like an ass for being so damn rude.
sorry bout the long ass ranty nature of this post...I just deal with tons of celebs at my club and I rarely meet celebs/pro-aths that dont have thier heads up thier ass. They deserve everthing they get for thinking that they are above the law. Give me some regular Joe-Schmo customer anyday!
^^^^ Man, that's a lot of effort to try to ressurect an old thread.
Blah blah blah blah - we love good customers - blah blah blah - but you don't understand how much of a jerk he was - blah blah blah - hey, we have the right to be jerks too - blah blah blah
Um,
Bite me
why, of course not. after all, you're a temple virgin. seriously, one has to wonder if some of you girls are so disconnected that you can't recognize a rip-off when you see it.Quote:
Originally Posted by AkashaM
funny, i thought he was giving her the money for a piece of ass.Quote:
Originally Posted by AkashaM
I find the pink side interesting reading but would not post there no matter how much the conversation ticked me off.
...Derek, what do you find interesting and why?Quote:
Originally Posted by Star Player
I don't know how I missed this or the subsequent pink thread that started it, but my take is this.
Getting asked for more is the nature of the business, IMHO. Sucks for us, but that's the way it is. There's no changing it other than you getting outta the business if you can't handle it.
And am I the only one who saw it as a kind of joke? "I got $700 that says you'll be in my bed!" What is so appalling about that? I'd be flattered because a lot of guys would just try to take it right there during the $20 dance. And I bet I could've gotten dinner and breakfast outta that one too, lol! (I'm a food whore, what can I say?)
And OMG, how dare he insult my delicate nature, I am a dancer, not a hooker! Oh puh-leeze. I've been propostioned just as much in a corporate setting. Travelling salesman are the horniest people around and it's not just strippers that they go after. Strippers are the ones they go after when the wild dinner meetings at the home office are over and they got turned down by us office gals.
These lines are blurred by most of us anyway. Most of us, not all, have crossed the line into something a little more than the actual laws intended i.e.: grinding, boobs in the face etc. Guys don't know your limitations, so they push the envelope. But for you to be appalled when this happens? Just take it as it comes and let him know you don't do that. What's the big deal? Why was this guy worse than the rest of them...why did he deserve to be robbed?
We are not exactly Mary Poppins in this biz. Your job is to sell the illusion and, when someone buys into your fantasy, you do a 180? Consider your job well done that he wanted you, turn him down and count the honest money you just made.
Stop taking things so seriously. Makes the job that much easier.
Well, while I like MnM and all, she does come across as REALLY naive. It's not her fault, but hopefully with age she'll grow out of that.
CF, you're really young yourself, if I remember correctly, and you are not naive at all. You are also very articulate and insightful.
I don't know what the difference is but it's there.
Well thank you. Yes, I am pretty young myself, will be 22 in January.
I can't say what the difference is, but I've gone through a lot of shit in my life that forced me to grow up fast.
OMG, a dancer who has a realistic, non black and white view of the situation. A very rare thing. I love you. Marry me ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by DylanAngel
Yeah, until the next time Mr. Punk posts something I don't like and I turn pink again.;)Quote:
Originally Posted by xdamage
(I really wanted to say something cute back to you, but I'm afraid I'll disappoint Jenny...hence the remark spoken like a true smart ass)
It's okay, I understand the need to maintain an image of being a hard-ass, as well as not wanting to aliienate the pink side. Your secret is safe with me ;) I'll just have to admire you from afar ;DQuote:
Originally Posted by DylanAngel
That's really pretty accurate. It's not a business for everyone.Quote:
These lines are blurred by most of us anyway. Most of us, not all, have crossed the line into something a little more than the actual laws intended i.e.: grinding, boobs in the face etc. Guys don't know your limitations, so they push the envelope. But for you to be appalled when this happens? Just take it as it comes and let him know you don't do that. What's the big deal?
Indeed...those Pinkies force girls to toe the party line pretty hard.Quote:
It's okay, I understand the need to maintain an image of being a hard-ass, as well as not wanting to aliienate the pink side.
Shucks. Thanks for letting us know.Quote:
Originally Posted by Casual Observer
Oh come on. That is not significantly different than anything that any other regular has said (not that DA is not delightful and original). But IF there is a "party line" that is actually it.Quote:
Indeed...those Pinkies force girls to toe the party line pretty hard.
DA - for the record. I would have been disappointed.
VERY disappointed.
Well good then. Mission accomplished. Have to do something lest the Blue Boys think I'm turning purple. (Pinkie mixed with a little blue).Quote:
Originally Posted by Jenny
I do realize that my post could have been copied word for word from any number of blue posts, but I thought it would have more impact coming from a peer.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jenny
Judging by the almost shocked posts by the boys, it seems it did have some impact. All good, but it will probably be lost on the one for which it was intended.
*sigh...newbies.
You say that like it's obvious, yet the number of girls that post on Pink with a near-obliviousness to the nature of the business never ceases to amaze me. Maybe you should let them know.Quote:
Shucks. Thanks for letting us know.
Dylan
I meant on the pink side. Look at the debacle that is currently "Anyone an extras girl" and you have post after post of girls saying that they do different things, that they've done extras, that they stretch the limits - the only thing you don't have are girls copping to actual fucking and blowjobs in the club.
I wasn't criticizing you for it; I just don't know where this idea that pinkies insist that airdances are the norm and anyone who doesn't do them is a whore COMES from. What I read is mostly "yeah, we've all done it"
For the record - it was all ENTIRELY lost on the one for whom it was intended. Although when you think about it: compare the posts that get so greviously offended at "being mistaken for a prostitute" and detailing that stripping and prostitution are SO different that it is a cutting wound to imply by such an offer that there is similarity with the "Tyra" threads. How dare Tyra Banks think there is a difference between modelling and stripping!
Oooh. Irony.
Amen.Quote:
Originally Posted by Casual Observer
I'd say the vast majority of the issues between pink and blue come to down to a fairly minor grey area, and yet that's where the truth lies, and often the inability to face the not so perfect truths about what goes on in the clubs.
Oh I more than get you Jenny. I've always been one of the people who consider sexual acts the extras and grindage and the like being the norm.
I would love to work in a place where a gentleman pays me for my time, treats me like a princess and would never dare to insinuate that I would do anything more for money.
Yeah right. I live and work in blue collar country where guys work hard for their money and will not part with it without receiving some type of gratification. Even if that gratification is only to humiliate us by showing that they have all the power.
I harbor no illusions about what I do. I can say without a doubt that the fucking and sucking is not performed by me, for money, in the club.
The only time I get indignant is if someone calls me a prostitute.
I never accept money for my sexual favors.