Hi, this is Rob. I'm one of two people who use the 82Candy account. One of the administrators here accused my wife, CorsicaFire of being both 82Candy and CorsicaFire because some of the posts came from the same IP address. CorsicaFire is not 82Candy.
This account was created one night when a long time friend of mine found out about me and CorsicaFire were living together, and I confessed to my friend that I was falling for CorsicaFire. My friend (who I will just call 82CandyB) use to be a stripper, and tried to convince me she had all kinds of inside info that would help me woo CorsicaFire. I'd tell her about CorsicaFire, and she's tell me what to do, what to say, how to win her heart.
Well, it worked, but it wasn't honest. It was during that time my friends and I were playing with this program called VNC. And one night, quite drunk, 82CandyB and I created the 82Candy account to try to tell her that her boyfriend Harry was an asshole. I'm not going to blame this other woman, it may have been her idea, but I'm the one that helped make it happen. And I'm the one who didn't want to tell CorsicaFire to her face the problems I saw because I didn't think she hear me say it because she would think I was just trying to get her myself.
Maybe she would have been wrong to not believe me, but she would have been right in the reason. I did want to date her myself. And worse than that, I did something dishonest to get her to date me. (now you can throw the stones, I'd recommend "manipulative" and "controlling" because they both fit pretty well).
As it went on, 82CandyB would write most of it, because she knew about the Stripping part of things first hand. But I knew it all along, I was the one with the "inside information" that I was feeding her so she knew just what to say and how to say it, and I didn't stop her. I think I deleted one or two of her posts that I think went to far, but for the most part, I let her go.
At first, it seemed harmless. Then I felt guilty. Then I felt really crappy about it, but when my wife walked out on me I became desperate. I talked to 82CandyB for hours, what could I do, what should I do, and eventually we came back her to StripperWeb. At first, 82CandyB was in full tilt attack, and I didn't know what to do. But CorsicaFire was talking to me again, she called me, she messaged me, and it seemed like 82CandyB was doing something that was working.
It felt wrong, it felt manipulative, but the idea of possibly getting my wife to finally go to Councling with me was all I could really think about. I played a huge part in all of this, hell, I proof read 75% of her posts. I even made the little dancer signature thing myself.
Then something happened odd (I think 82CandyB was drunk) and I started to get the impression that she really might have more than "friend" feelings for me. The more I told her how happy I was my wife was talking to me again, the angrier she got at me and "those Stupid Strippers" (hello Pot, Kettle calling!) I guess she sent some PMs I didn’t know about also.
Anyway, I think she pissed off an admin, and when the admin PMed to say she thought 82Candy was CorsicaFire, I just had it, the whole thing went way to far, and now it's going to negatively effect how people here see CorsicaFire. I don't want that, some people here have been good friends to my wife, and I don't want them thinking THIS ACCOUNT is her.
Hell, we were going to get caught soon anyway, and I'm sick of the bullshit deception. All I really want anymore is to have a totally honest relationship with my wife, and I really do believe that needs to start by us opening up in counseling.
I'm changing the password so 82CandyB can't sign in at all, I deleted VNC from my computer, I'm actually going to shut it down at night, and I really think it might be best if the admins lock the account (82CandyB has the email account linked to this account, so she could request a new password and I can't stop it).
So, I don't blame anyone but myself. I’m going to standup, admit it all, take responsibility, accept the consequences, whatever. Let it fly, I have it coming. I'll take full responsibility for what I did, and I deserve what ever nasty things anyone here has to say about me. I sure as hell won't be surprised if my wife wakes up tomorrow and walks away from this whole marriage after this stupid stunt.
From now on, I'm not talking to ANYONE about my marriage except my wife, and our marriage councilor. Some of my best meaning friends have some of the worst advice, and it's really none of their business anyway.
