What to do when other girls offer extras and you don't?
So the title pretty much explains my whole question, except the extras I'm talking about may not even be considered extras in some areas. I'm talking about letting the guy touch you during a dance (nothing bad like boobs or cooch) but anything else. I used to let guys touch, but only certain areas now I stopped completely letting them touch me anywhere, not even my arm.. all of sudden it just started bothering me for some reason. Even if I'm just sitting there chatting with them I don't want them touching me anywhere.
So what do you do when all the other girls are letting the customer's do it (right in front of your face, when you say "i don't allow that" and then he says, "well that girl right over there is allowing it."
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Don't say, "I don't allow that." Keep it sweet as long as he's within reason.
I am the same way; I only let them touch me if they're spending a LOT of money and I actually want it, which rarely happens. Most of the other girls in my club offer more contact, but honestly, I have never had a complaint. I keep his eyes on *me* - not on anyone else in the laproom, and I doubt they even miss the groping. When a guy reaches for me, I'll take his hand and hold it in mine for a moment, or I'll brush it aside like it's in the way and do a move like I had to be in that spot. I keep so much eye contact and closeness that I really don't think they notice what other girls are doing. And like I said, I've never had a complaint and I've never had a guy point out what other girls allow.
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I know this has been mentioned before, but maybe you could be sexy in a dominatrix kind of way telling them that you are dancing and that it's your job to touch them, not their job to touch you.
That could even turn the guys on.
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Originally Posted by Yekhefah
Don't say, "I don't allow that." Keep it sweet as long as he's within reason.
I am the same way; I only let them touch me if they're spending a LOT of money and I actually want it, which rarely happens. Most of the other girls in my club offer more contact, but honestly, I have never had a complaint. I keep his eyes on *me* - not on anyone else in the laproom, and I doubt they even miss the groping. When a guy reaches for me, I'll take his hand and hold it in mine for a moment, or I'll brush it aside like it's in the way and do a move like I had to be in that spot. I keep so much eye contact and closeness that I really don't think they notice what other girls are doing. And like I said, I've never had a complaint and I've never had a guy point out what other girls allow.
Your customers have VERY low standards or way too much money.
Guess it's good you take money from them that would otherwise go to other women, and therefore you weaken my competition.
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If a guy's hands are wandering, I will put my hands over top of his and guide them to a spot like my stomache and keep my hands on top of his so he cant move them, or I will just move around a lot. If he is being really touchy, I will just tell him that I can give him a much better dance if he holds still and lets me do all the work, this dance is for him, he should take it easy and let me turn him on.
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Tell him that it does not feel good, flat out. 84% touch you because they think you like it. How many times have you heard, "I want to please you"? Explain that you love (no touch) dancing because it makes you feel sexy. Then most will be good boys because you like it that way.
You should see the looks on their faces when you remove their hands for the 2nd time and say, "I does not feel good."
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While I am pretty new to stripping, I found out by accident that when I straddle a guy and pin his upper arms against the couch/wall and dance with my crotch just out of reach of their face they totally love it. Especially younger, hornier boys. And then it is easy to pull away if they try to get too close. Just a suggestion.