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At what age did you lose your virginity?
OK recently I posted a question asking, "What were you like in high school?" I got many interesting and relatable responses. Bringing up the subject of high school and our teenage years brought up another interesting subject...at what age did you guys lose your virginity? I noticed that many of you wrote on the "What were you like in high school" thread that you guys were outcasts, didn't date much, hung in a different crowd, etc. So...when did you first start having sex? Was it around the same time as the general high school population at your school, or earlier, or later? Did your early(teenage) views on sex influence in any ways becomming a stripper? Did your sexual experiences(or maybe lack thereof) during your teenage years/early sexual years influence or shape how you are as a person, a stripper, or in the bedroom?
Sorry for all the sociological/psychological survey type questions...I just find studies of groups of people to be very interesting. I shoulda majored in psychology in college, insteada math. :P
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Man I lost my virginity rather late, I was 17. I lost it to a chick I used to get high with and she taught me a few things about down and dirty sex.
My views on sex really didn't influence me in any way that I know of......
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I was 16. I married him about 8 months later.
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I was twelve. Non-consensual, my mother's then-husband.
After that, I was just like, whatever, I don't have anything to save for the future hubby anyways, why care? So I did a ton of girls, and quite a few guys, all of whom were over 25. I've always been an exhibitionist, and kind of a do anything girl. Really no holds barred in bed.
All in all though, I'm glad with my choices - I've tried a lot, done a lot, and learned a lot, and am able to be free with my body and my own desires. It's nice to be uninhibited, even though I'm now monogomous, and have been with the same guy for a year and a half now.
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i had just turned 16. i was always a big slut in high school but since i turned 19 and im 26 now ive been fairly un sluty and mainly been in ltr's.
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August 13, 1999 - I was 16.
I dont regret a single moment of it. It was a time of my life that I'll cherish forever. My boyfriend and I had a great relationship. We were together for 3yrs before he died. I still miss him.
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^^ Damn you remember the date too? Wow good memory.
I was 13 and in junior high. I was a huge slut. After being with so many people I felt comfortable being naked more and more. I guess it sorta influenced me being a stripper. I thought if I was ok being naked I could be ok with other people seeing me naked too.
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19.
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I have to watch that gif all the way through everytime I see it!
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I had lots of bad luck. I was busted often enough at the wrong momments. I know it could have happend sooner. I was 19 when it finally happend. Then of couse the hunger hit me. I have made up for any lost time. I think my body is addicted to making up for lost time in that department. If it is not 2 hours or makes me shiver from energy expendature when I'm done, it was not long/hard enough. And yes sometiems I wish I was joking about that.
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I started getting sexual with girls when I was 13. Hooray for corr schools! As I said in the high shcool thread, 17 for boys....
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Umm 15 with girls(yay for all girl schools!), 16 with boys.... I turned into a slut when I was 18.. I was with the guy I lost it to for 2 years.. two years of hell.. two years of my life I wish I could have back. Oh well.
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Shortly after i turned 20.... i learned not to get too shit faces drunk at parties....
i dont remember what he looks like, lol... he was a virgin too......
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OK now my turn...I had just turned 17. It was with an older boyfriend(19 or 20ish) that I ended up seriously dating for nearly a full year. However, we'd only been together for a few weeks when we started having sex.
It's weird, because as Blade even mentioned, people act like 17 is a "late start" for having sex. I kinda felt that way too and it is because of my long wait, that I am the fucked-up perverted individual that I am today(but I guess I can be lots of fun lol). Even though I was an "early bloomer" and reached puberty slightly earlier than most others in my class, my dating life got off to a very late start. I was a fugly loser in middle school, and although I became prettier in 8th and 9th grade(through lots of make-up, trendy clothes, and hair dye!!), the boys in my class still wouldn't date me. My parents were very strict about dating and that made me feel even more insecure. I didn't get to go on a date until I was 16. At that point, I was angry and bitter that I'd unwillingly waited so long, that I made sure my first date was a "real winner" to the parents...24 yrs old, bleach blonde spiky hair, tons of piercings, and an owner of a motorcycle shop! Really hot though! :-) Surprisingly, he didn't really try anything sexual with me, which kinda infuriated me, and after that I would date a lot of guys and was overly eager to try stuff. At that point(10th grade), everyone in my kind sheltered, small school had dated but not very many at all had started to have sex, so I was all about trying to jump on the less-crowded nonvirgin side of the fence! The only reason that my first partner was a serious boyfriend, was simply outta luck of the draw and good timing; if he hadn't been around then, I woulda lost my virginity regardless, I didn't even care if it woulda been with a one-night stand(actually, I was planning to do that actually, if it weren't for my mom preventing me from going out that one night!). So my boyfriend and I dated for 11 months, mutually broke up due to us kinda getting bored with each other and willing to try new things...after that, I became kinda a big slut and started hooking up with good-looking guys...the only requirement was that they had to be extremely good-looking(yes I'm shallow, I know lol). I figured that if guys could be shallow and dis me when I was a fugly middle-schooler, that I could do the same back, and only accept guys who were equal-caliber with my looks.
Most people go through a rebellious "slut" phase for a little bit and then mellow out...There were several times that I thought I would mellow out too, but it never happened. :-\ I started having sex to prove to myself that I was mature/rebellious/attractive/different than the dork I once was in past years...and then it developed into a bit of a physical addiction. I've actually had past problems focusing on schoolwork because of this sexual addiction(although I somehow still managed to get A's!). I found that even when I had enough experience under my belt to prove to myself the mature/rebellious/attractive bits, that I didn't want to stop and so I kept going. Even now, I do not look for boyfriends and almost every relationship that I've ever had, has arisen unexpectantly. It was the kinda thing that I wasn't looking for to happen, but just kinda did. Each time that I get a boyfriend, I try to convince myself that I am reformed and no longer desire to be promiscuous, but then when we are in the break-up stages, I go right back to my addiction. I've honestly been with more partners than anyone else I know except for 2 specific guys, and my friends have suggested psychiatric counseling for it and saying that I shoulda been born a guy because I have the mindset of one LOL. I've been sexually active for 7 years now and I don't see myself stopping the number of sex partners any time soon.
Would my classmates have guessed this woulda happened to me when we were all in early high school?...lol hells no. There woulda been better odds of them predicting that I'd become a stripper. Did my parents think that I would turn out this way, despite their attempts to raise me in a strict prudent household?...nah, by the time I reached college my mom was reminding me that it wouldn't be a good idea for me to try and lose my virginity just to look cool in front of my college classmates!(meanwhile, it was a few yrs past that point)
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i was 17... the fall of my senior year of high school.... It was with someone i hardly knew.. a friend of my cousin's.... it was the worst experience ever.... I wish i would have lost my virginity to someone i cared about.. :(
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15--married him 5 years later ;)
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I was 17, with my boyfriend at the time.. only ended up dating him for like 5 months.. He was awesome, though... He was albino and had terret's syndrome ;D Too bad he was such a loser and wasn't doing anything with his life, so I had to dump him :D
I took my current boyfriend's virginity ( he was 18 ) and I'm so proud of myself ;D For some reason I really love the fact that I'm the only person he's slept with. And he's the best boyfriend ever, so I'm keeping him for a long time! ;)
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I was 16. With a guy I had been with for just over a year. Too bad he was an asshole :)
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How this... I can't remember the exact age or even grade... year/grade 11 or 12... one of them anyway. All I can remember is the experience itself as THAT is ingrained in my memory. It was with a Papua New Guinea TSS student ... as you see the School I was @ hosts the PNG girls... and I was friends with a few so I went along to their little socials/dances. The dances were held at the school I was attending (a CHRISTIAN one as all private schools here in Australia are one denomination of Christianity or another) and the PNG boys from TSS (an all boys private school) would attend.
I had a made crush on the guy. Tony if I recall his name correctly. He was a really great kisser. We didn't really "go out" or anything.. just muck around at the socials. Anyway, I was at a party being held near-by the school... and managed to sneek away from the party and meet somewhere in the outside garden border (as such) of TSS (his school)... a kiss lead to .. well.. yeh... it hurt like a mother-fucker at first and I hated it... and only in the last moment just before he came (he wore protection - how nice of him lol) was is pleasurable.
So that was when I technically lost my viriginity. In my mind, I didn't really loose my viriginity until waaaaaaaaaay later since all my sexual encounters/experiences until the time I felt I really lost my viriginity weren't exactly pleasurable for me.... for ages sex didn't equal pleasure for me.... until Andrew... the only guy I ever dated for so damn long (and I thought I was in love with at the time). He is also the guy who encouraged me to get started with stripping... he saw my "talent" for it (and he isn't wrong - he really did know me).
So whilst I technically lost my viriginity back in late High School. I didn't loose it "in my mind" until I was in my early 20s....
TSS means The Southport School --> http://www.tss.qld.edu.au
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I am a late bloomer--I was 19. It was also the first time I kissed someone. I didn't start really enjoying sex until my most recent boyfriend (about a year ago--when I was 27).
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I was 14, he was 17. We were both virgins. And we're still together! :)
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like a month and 1/2 after my 16th birthday... on the 4th of july.
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It was the summer before my 15th birthday... he was 18... it was in 2002... he and I had met at the battle of the bands that my high school was hosting. He was hot too. Too bad we didn't have a serious relationship, it was all about the sex between us. He's still a good friend tho