I think you all know by now that I'm saving myself for marriage, so don't ridicule me too much.
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I think you all know by now that I'm saving myself for marriage, so don't ridicule me too much.
Dude, aren't you married to the Lord?
I was 15, just, and it was with the same guy my friend lost hers too, but it never was a problem for us, we just thought it was kinda cool - my god 15 year old girls are strange!
I remember another friend of mine being mad at me for it because she, being a year older than me, should have done it first!
That relationship lasted about 5 months and I then went into a 3 year relationship with a guy who was a virgin and at the time I wished I had saved myself for him.
I bloody glad I didn't now because that ended in a bitter twisted way.
I found this topic by doing a search on 'school' because I was going to start a thread on what you were like in School! But PhillyDancer beat me too it - what can I say, great minds think alike! Off to read that post now!
I was 13, and even though I don't generally think it's an awesome idea for 13 year olds to have sex, I am very glad that it happened to me when it did. He was also 13 and a virgin, and I was so in love with him. Everyone said that I'd look back on my relationship with him and realize that it was "puppy love" or "preteen love" or whatever you want to call it... but 10 years later I know in my heart that I was just completely in love with the guy, and so I'm happy to have given him my virginity, because he's the only person in the world I'd want to have it (sappy, I know).
Now, the twist to the situation is that being that much in love when you're 13 AND having sex leads to all sorts of complicated emotions that were too huge for our teenaged selves to handle. So we had a sad and messy breakup and were mortal enemies for several years, and badmouthed one another incessantly throughout high school. Sometime around the age of 17, something happened and we suddenly became friends again. And we stayed friends. And I STILL love him (though I'm not "in love" with him in the romantic sense any longer). I only see him once a year or so since he lives in Europe, but we sent each other "Happy 10-year Virginity Anniversary" emails on June 21st, 2006. Yeah, it's so cute I could almost die.
I was 17, drunk in my basement with my best friend and some guy she brought along. The night before New Years Eve. So hung over and disturbed that I didn't even go out the next night.
Actually, it hardly even counted. It was horribly awkward and he was the freakiest, hugest guy either of us had ever seen (and she was the...most sexually experienced girl at our school). So it barely fit, hurt too much, and yeah.
I was 14...And I'm still with him today!!...My first and only!
i was 14 not good with a girl 14 guy included also great
Didn't
I was 17...I was drunk and don't remember anything from that night(I lost my shirt my lipstick and my glasses)...i was afraid that it would hurt so drank too much=///
i was 14. And hes the father of my 3 yr old daughter. Uh.. I still have to associate with him. yuck.. lol
16, highschool boyfriend. i cried the whole time. :(
thank god it's fun for me now!
I was 14. It was to the song "hypnotize" by Biggie Small. We had it on repeat so that nobody in my parents house could hear us. Now, whenever I hear that song, it soooo reminds me of that night.
I never lost it. I gave it away, gladly, and didn't even wave good-bye. It had stuck around way too long.
16, after the prom.....
The funny thing is, I realize how cliched it was at the time... ::)
had jsut turned 15, at sleep away camp, with a russian guy named Serge who didnt speak enough english, cheating on my byfriend at home in doing so. i shoulda just done it with him. haha. (woulda saved me problems now lol, as we got back together this past aug, 10 yrs later)
19
It was good. 20 y/o girl across the street was visiting her parents during summer break. We fucked every day after that until she left for school.
I was 16, and Lost it to a girl I had been dating for almost a year. It was out side under the stars in the woods. I wasnt particuarly good either. But it is a memory I look back at and smile
I was 5. Virginity was not taken by my choice. Consentual sex when I was 13 with a girl. First consentual sex with a guy I was 21.
I was 18, and luckily it was with my first real boyfriend (I consider) that I loved.
I was 18...very not rock star of me, I know. But she was the first girl I ever loved. The date (if I remember correctly) was May 13, 2004. She was a virgin too. She's a year younger than me. And it was her idea...I let her set the pace for the relationship. We broke up a few months later, went through a rough patch of not speaking to each other, and now we're friends again. Huzzah.
I was 17 (drunk and high) at a New Year's Eve Party. I met this cute 22 year old college boy and he gave me a crash course in sex that night and the next couple of weeks after. ;-P Looking back, I wish I would have waited for someone I cared about.
I was 18. It was the early morning on December 31st, 2005. I lost my lesbian virginity a few weeks before, but dont remember the exact date.
Oh, mine was the WORST. I was laying there thinking, I'm such a sinner, I'm totally going to hell, this fucking hurts! Why does he like it so much!! Then, afterwards we fall asleep. I wake up a few hours later and he's going at it again, and I'm so sore from the first time! (But I didn't bleed when my cherry was popped .. or maybe it was already popped?)
I was 17 at the time, dating my high school sweetheart (of 7 months). I went to his senior prom, and we ended up having sex at his parent's condo in Ortley Beach, NJ. Was actually one of my best boyfriends that I've been with, but unfortunately he's getting married this summer. Can't keep them all I guess.