Originally Posted by Kyle1111
Yes, I hear that not only on message boards from strippers, but from strippers working at the club. Some actually believe that all their fellow strippers are of one mind on this issue. Others see it more like a protection mechanism for both dancers and customers. The typical dancer probably already has a boyfriend and the last thing on her mind is collecting more boyfriends.
Bottom line is that there are exceptions to the rule and there are degrees to the rule.
One "hardened" stripper was fooling around with me on a slow day. And, she is a just show me the money type of dancer. Sometimes I would buy one or two dances from her, but usually she would ignore me or I would decline her offer for a dance. She was upset about something and she wanted to talk, about everything, but the problem. So she talks and talks and I listen and listen hoping she will get to the problem so there might be an opportunity to solve the problem. She never gets to problem, which is disappointing. And, I'm also thinking this is really her buddies' job--listening and looking for a solution. I'm also thinking we aren't close at all--we've just known each other a long time. So during this long talk she gets on top of me and starts giving me a lap dance. And, I'm think oh NO. I didn't ask for any dances and hate it when dancers do dances without asking first and then demand payment. I figure oh well, this "hardened" young lady will learn that I'm NOT going to pay or will pay very little for unrequested dances especially when I was trying to be helpful to her!
Somehow she is able to dance and talk. And, the dance keeps getting better and better and she is talking less and less, but she seems a lot happier now. I'm getting very concerned because I expect her bill will be mind blowing and I'm NOT going to pay for the unrequested dances or pay very very little. I've known her a long time and she will get aggressive and will call in the manager/security so I'm expecting the worst. Thinking I probably should have been a little more aggressive in stopping her from getting started. The time continues to pass and although she is doing a fantastic job I'm thinking about the business she is now losing. The club has people now and she could definitely be earning money.
The songs keep changing and she keeps dancing. And, I'm still having a fantastic time except for the guilt that she should be working and the fear of the upcoming confrontation. Finally, I say to her that it getting past dinner time and I need to be getting home. She gives me this beautiful smile and then a nice kiss and thanks me for a good time and says she better get back to work. I let her leave to see how far she is going to let this run. She starts flirting with another customer at the other side of the club so I figure I better get this resolved. She tells me you didn't ask for any dances so you don't owe me anything. I tell her I need her to charge something to keep it business like. She gives me a tiny figure that I double (it is still tiny) and then the saga continues on later visits and continues and continues . . .
Strip clubs are definitely a lot of fun depending on what you're looking for. :)