Ok, wow, I'm the newest newbie ever.
Hi everyone!
Well, I guess the title says it all. ::) I have been considering dancing for a few months now and several things have kind of propelled me to really start taking this prospect seriously; number one being finances. I'll be going to school in September and I'm out of a job currently. I want to work part time dancing and then maybe another part time job in an office or something. I'm wondering if this sounds reasonable. I know you can make alot of money in just one night dancing but, being new & new to a club, I understand it probably won't be very much for awhile. Is it kind of the norm to work more than job?
I plan to go check out a strip club with a girlfriend or two just to check up on different clubs and see how things work a little bit. Is it ok to just talk to one of the girls or will I really only get what I want to know if I pay them to talk me, just like any other customer? I understand they're working and could be making money instead answering stupid question from a wide-eyed little girl! lol.
And as far as auditions, what is the general procedure? What time of day should I go to ask for one? Is it like a regular kind of interview where I need to provide references or anything? How should I dress; ready to dance or like a professional interview? If they ask me to dance, is it a private thing or do I go up on stage in front of other people? What's a house mom? Would it be a stupid question to ask if they pay you anything or if everything is tips? What kind of questions do I need to ask them?
Yeah, I know, I'm kind of rambling, sorry! Just one more thing, I have a boyfriend who has already expressed his severe dislike at the thought of me being a stripper but it's something I want to do or at least try and money is a big issue. My first instinct is to lie and just tell him I'm waitressing, but is this a good idea or even possible to pull off? I'm thinking the 6-inch platform stilettos and glitter thongs in the back of my car & in the laundry basket might be a little suspicious.
Thanks so much for taking the time to read this & help an overly worried girl out!! I really, really, really appreciate it so much!! Thanks!
Sincerely,
Mandy
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It would be very hard to hide dancing from a bf. Ask him why it worries him, and talk through it. Ask him to support you as you try it on a probationary basis. Tell him you will work day shift - the only way to truly be able to spend time with a bf if you live together. I work 2-830 pm mon-fri. That kinda thing.
Go with your makeup done up - very heavily. Dress cuteley, in clothes that are flattering. This is not business casual. Bring an outfit or two, and dance shoes. They may ask you to audition, and yes, that is in front of the club, usually. You don't need a resume or references.
I don't know of any clubs that pay you. You make tips off stage, money from lapdances, and, usually, commission off your drinks. Be prepared to hustle the crowd to make money. The hustlers get the big bucks and the pretty girls with no hustle get the pitiful leftovers.
And yes, if you want to talk to one of us at the club, please pay us for our time. It's only polite.
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Hi Mandy...
Welcome to SW. This website is a huge resource to those starting out. We are very friendly and try to be helpful. There is an EXCELLENT search feature, just type in the topic you want answers too and in most cases you will find what you are asking for.
As far as the questions in this post...
Call the club ahead of time and find out when they do auditions... Most do them in day shift... Bring a bag with your dance cloths. YOUR audition WILL be in front of Everyone, on the stage.
There is an excellent thread about what to take with you when you start working. (after your get hired)
there is also a thread about lying to boyfriends...
Essentially my advice is: Do a search on those excellent questions you asked....
They have all been answered...many times...
xoxo
Montana
:banghead: I am sort of grumpy today...
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sh*t & be D*mned i DID NOT REALIZE you could search the forums :O .... wow now i'm about to really be a computer potato!! :D
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I'm sure that if you go to a club and are genuinely interested in dancing then girls would be happy to talk to you and answer any questions you may have.
Its a fun job, but if you're already in a relationship I'd think very carefully about where your priorities are.
I only say this because I started dancing 2 years into my current relationship, and although my b/friend supported my descision, it caused and still causes problems between us sometimes. I'm just trying to paint an honest picture from my experience. My man is WICKED but no matter how cool a boyfriend is, the majority of them will still have certain issues with this type of work.
Maybe it would be an idea to actually take him into a reputable club and both of you can see how it works. If you're honest with him from the word go, and make him feel that his opinion counts then this will definitely help. Good luck and have fun xxooxx
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Originally Posted by genesia
sh*t & be D*mned i DID NOT REALIZE you could search the forums :O .... wow now i'm about to really be a computer potato!! :D
You coined a new phrase! Computer potatoes, unite! :D
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Yipee~! It's not just me!
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as far as auditions go, it varies from club to club. i recommend calling about 2 or 3 you are interested in working at and asking them how to audition. some will give you an audition as a walk in, others will have you fill out an application first, some you have to go through an amateurs night and others they set up an audition appointment. so to answer all your audition questions in one brief sentence - ASK THE CLUB. ;D
but no matter what when you do actually get up and audition you need big fat stripper shoes and one outfit. so buy something, basic will do, before you go anywhere.
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Practice walking in your shoes before you go on stage and they will need broken in epsspically boots.
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I know you probably have all the advice you need...
Chances are, you are going to be given a chance at any club you apply at (especially if you're young and cute!) so you're really sweating the small stuff...you're going to do just fine and will probably look back at this time and wonder why you were worrried in the first place! I know I was!
Smile pretty, tell your boyfriend you love him and you are taking your relationship to a new level, either he's ready to 'take it up a notch' or he's not. I know if you love him (and you probably do) it's hard, but unless he can pay your bills it's up to you! Good luck! It will all work out.
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Hiya We're In The Same Boat I've Checked Out A Few Clubs What Area Are You In /:o