ok.... how to be a good "paid for girlfriend"
so... we had the dancing discussion, so now how to be a good "paid for girlfriend"??
since that makes alot more since than being called a "dancer". it's alot less confusing of A title.
and I'm sorry for gettin g so defensive on the last thread, I just hate it when people tell me I'm full of shit when they've never even seen my face. so, I apologize.
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so... we had the dancing discussion, so now how to be a good "paid for girlfriend"??
since that makes alot more since than being called a "dancer". it's alot less confusing of A title.
That's pretty much what stripclubs are these days. Dancing is secondary. You can be a pretty crappy dancer and still make big bucks. Calling it "dancing" is probably a hold over from the days when guys could look, but no touching, and the girls mostly stayed off the floor.
As for how to be a good paid for girl friend? Mostly common sense. Imagine the customer is some guy you really do like, who you want to talk with, and makes you smile, and want to put your arms around, etc. If you can pull off that fakery well you'll bank $$s. If not, well, maybe try making your money in another line of work. I'm quite sure it isn't for everyone. Not everyone can fake it and hide that they are faking. Fortunately for you a lot of the customers are fairly easy to please. You don't have to be a very good faker.
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but howdo you fake it?
pretend.
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"Then, other times, you play Ms Naughty, yeah, I need your firm guidance.
Without you, I would be lost,. Just show me the way. Yeah."
how do i fake this aspect? this would work for me very well, i thimk.
I want to know what to talk about that's not going to piss me off. I don't give a damn about paul wall. I dont really give a damn about the stock market, either. I don't really give a damn about computers unless its to get on the internet. I love death metal, fine art, black flag, dead kennedys, black sabbath, handcuffs,dr. dre, a 66' el dorado, manacles, sammy hagar, hot chicks that have big guns, N.W.A., fast cars and dangerous guys, slayer, getting tied up, and fucking in public.
I'm an artist, that's why I like to dance so much:)
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how do you make it not so hard for yourself to pretend, though? I REALLY hate to lie to people.
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Ask on the pink site. I'm just an occassional customer, and being a bad faker, I have no idea what goes through the heads of the girls to prepare themselves to pretend to like the guys.
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how do you make it not so hard for yourself to pretend, though?
That is the job. If you can't fake interest, you are already down to less than 5% who will buy a dance from you, and even fewer who will buy multiples. What you will get is guys who want to monopolize your time and have a nice free discussion/argument.
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I REALLY hate to lie to people.
Maybe if I gave you $20 bucks to do it for 3.5-5 minutes or $250 an hour, would that change your mind? That is what customers do, they pay you to like them, which is 99% of the time a lie.
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yeah, but why don't they just tell me what they want up front instead of trying to pay me to like them. that seems really gay and desperate. y'all must not get alot of play unless you pay... that's actually pretty fuckin sad if you have to pay a girl to pretend to like you.
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yeah, but why don't they just tell me what they want up front instead of trying to pay me to like them.
You don't seem inhibited about talking here, why not ask next time you let some guy jerk you around for a half hour. It's his fault that you stayed there for more than 2 songs, he should at least owe you an explanation, right? I'm sure when you blow up on him, it will be an instant sale...
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that seems really gay and desperate.
What's really sad is using someones sexual preference as an insult.
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y'all must not get alot of play unless you pay... that's actually pretty fuckin sad if you have to pay a girl to pretend to like you.
I was using the term like as a catch all metaphor for activities, in the sense that $20 makes you like me enough to take off your clothes, wave your tits in my face, and grind on my cock.
Tell me, how sad is an attractive woman that can't even make a buck taking her clothes off?
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yeah, but why don't they just tell me what they want up front instead of trying to pay me to like them. that seems really gay and desperate. y'all must not get alot of play unless you pay... that's actually pretty fuckin sad if you have to pay a girl to pretend to like you.
There is a reason why many dancers think of customers as PLs (aka Pathetic Losers).
It's desperate yes, but not gay.
People really have no say over their genetics (that includes their body, brains, and any genetic health problems they are born with), or who their parents are, or how they are raised until later in life. Some are luckier then others in the genetic lottery - emphasis on the word LUCK (not to be confused with earned or deserved). As much as we'd like to believe we all have complete control over own destiny, the I believe that if we had other people's exact brains, exact bodies, and lives exactly as they had them we would be them and have done as they did.
Back to genetic differences. In general it's easier for a woman to get sexual attention from men then it is for a man to get it from a woman. There is lot of good reasons why, but add in that it's much easier for an attractive woman to get that kind of attention then it is for an unattractive man.
People have certain basic needs, food, security, attention from the other sex, etc. There is no point in judging people for having these needs, they have no choice in the matter.
So basically a part of me finds it quite ugly when a women who is lucky enough to be born attractive looks upon unattractive men who have a need for sexual attention as lesser life forms. I am not saying she shouldn't enjoy her good fortune, but it can be enjoyed without thinking less of others who are less fortunate. So yes, it's sad that some guys crave the attention of beautiful women and have to pay to get it, but by sad I mean in a sympathetic way, not in a demeaning they are pieces of useless shit way).*
Now there are plenty of exceptions of course. Guys that can get attractive girls, but don't want the trouble of a real relationship, or who are involved in a relationship and want a temporary reprieve to spend time with another woman. Other reasons as well, but the bottom line is if you are lucky enough to be born an attractive woman enjoy it, definitely, but there is nothing attractive about total lack of sympathy for other human beings that aren't so lucky.
* Besides, what's more sad and pathetic? Guys who have to pay for attention, or the girls who profit from the pathetic?
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so... we had the dancing discussion, so now how to be a good "paid for girlfriend"??
since that makes alot more since than being called a "dancer". it's alot less confusing of A title.
and I'm sorry for gettin g so defensive on the last thread, I just hate it when people tell me I'm full of shit when they've never even seen my face. so, I apologize.
well, considering comments like these:
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I I can definitely tell you that I'm the second best dancer in austin besides venus that works @ joy. I don't understand why all these dudes(or
at least most of them) want to talk? I don't like to talk about a bunch of dumb shit with a bunch of dumb people. shit that's not even sincere, or meaningful. even if I did like you, I wouldn't want to talk about half of the stupid ass shit that I've heard girls talk about. all of you girls can just lie and lie and lie. I can't do that. I'd much rather be appreciated for MY NATURAL BORN TALENT than my retarded ass pick up lines.
it's pretty clear you'll never be a good 'paid for girlfriend' - you just don't have the pleasant personality needed for it. Nor will you ever sell as many lapdances as the dancers who aren't arrogant, condescending, stuck up and rude. Since you have so much natural born talent - for what you haven't said - maybe you should move to Hollywood and become a star.
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yeah, but why don't they just tell me what they want up front instead of trying to pay me to like them. that seems really gay and desperate. y'all must not get alot of play unless you pay... that's actually pretty fuckin sad if you have to pay a girl to pretend to like you.
I really think you need to find another line of work. You may think of yourself "dancing" as an artist....but we as customers don't really give crap about art in the strip club. The only art I wanna see is the target tattoo on the small of your back or maybe a logo on your neck that says "leggo of my ears, I know what I am doing" (thank you Larry the cable guy).
We don't really "want" you to like us, just pretend you do, and we in turn will pretend that your conversation is deep, and we will pretend that your dancing is the most brilliant art form there is...etc. See how this works? And if you are good, you will "BANK"....if you are not, you will seek an online forum and ask why you don't get any lap dance customers.
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[FONT=Tahoma]so... we had the dancing discussion, so now how to be a good "paid for girlfriend"??
"Cock awareness" sums it up for me. And I don't mean just physically.
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yeah, but why don't they just tell me what they want up front instead of trying to pay me to like them. that seems really gay and desperate. y'all must not get alot of play unless you pay... that's actually pretty fuckin sad if you have to pay a girl to pretend to like you.
You see, just when I think you might genuinely want some feedback and really have an honest question to which you seek an answer, you go and say something like this. Something that can only be read as designed to make me feel bad about doing the very thing you are asking for advice on.
I do pay pretty girls to pretend to like me. (Not to touch me or rub against me or to help me in any physical way. Just to pretend to like me.) I do it a lot. I enjoy it a lot. Is that "pretty fuckin sad"? Perhaps. Still, if experience is any teacher, I know a lot about it. And I would be happy to share my thoughts on how it is done. But, the thing is, I don't get the feeling you REALLY want to know. Instead, I think you aim to garner a reaction more than anything. And if that is your true goal, then you need Sandy's expertise/experience, not mine.
Please, tell me I am wrong and that you are truly seeking knowledge and just suffer from a difficulty in how to ask for it. Cuz, that would speak much better for you...
-gen
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gay is not used in sexual context here. stupid. so y'all were saying that I'm in denial, when it's really all of you that's in denial!! you're going to sit here and say that were going to pretend your conversation's deep. have you ever had a fucking REAL conversation with me? WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED TO BUILDING SEVEN? WHAT ABOUT THE FALSEFLAGNEWS.COM?? OBVIOUSLY, YOU'RE MORE WORRIED ABOUT GETTING YOUR COCK GRINDED THAN FINDING SOMEONE THAT REALLY CARES ABOUT YOU. YOU'RE JUST NOT WILLING TO PUT FORTH ANY EFFORT TO FIND A GIRL THAT REALLY APPRECIATES YOU. AND I GO TO STRIPCLUBS WITH MY BOYFRIEND- BUT WE DONT TRY TO GET THESE GIRLS TO TALK TO US. WE DONT WANT TO HEAR IT. WE KNOW THE GIRLS DON'T GIVE A DAMN. WE KNOW THAT THEY KNOW THAT WE AREN'T BUYIN THEIR STUPID LINES. PORN GETS OLD AFTER A WHILE. SO, THAT BEING SAID, I WILL RETURN TO MY VOLUNTEERING AT THE ANIMAL SHELTER, WHERE I'M ACTUALLY MAKING A PURPOSE OUT OF MY LIFE, AS WELL AS A POSITIVE DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD. SO, WHEN YOU ALL ARE OLD WRINKLY AND ALONE, DYING IN AGONY, WISHING THERE WAS SOMEONE TO HELP YOU TO THE OTHER SIDE, REMEMBER HOW YOU WASTED ALL OF YOUR MONEY AND ALL OF YOUR LIFE DOING DRUGS AND FUCKING STRIPPERS. I THINK THAT IT REALLY IS QUITE SAD THAT YOU HAVE TO PAY A GIRL TO LIKE YOU. IT'S DESPERATE, LOW, AND SLOTHLIKE. AND IT'S A PRIME EXAMPLE OF SOMEONE WHO DOESEN'T CARE VERY MUCH ABOUT THEMSELVES, SINCE THEY OBVIOUSLY CAN'T DRESS UP, GO OUT, AND MAKE IT IN THE R-E-A-L SOCIAL WORLD. WHY CANT YOU GO GET A GIRLFRIEND THAT DOESENT HAVE TO GET PAID TO TAKE HER CLOTHES OFF? IN MY OPINION, THAT WOULD MAKE A BETTER GIRLFRIEND THAN A STRIPPER ANY DAY. NOT TO SAY THAT STRIPPERS MAKE BAD GIRLFRIENDS, I'VE BEEN DANCING FOR 3 YEARS. I'M JUST SAYING, WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU?!? WHY WOULD YOU PAY FOR A GIRLfriend when you can get one for free????? that's the dumbest shit I've ever heard!
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I Always Either Make A Ton Of Money Or I Dont Make Shit
Once again, *click*
Stop the shrieking. Please. We can all see where this is going.
- JZ