Taking a day off Kat?
Couldn't agree more, except it's not what that I have to say, I really just don't care.Quote:
Originally Posted by Katrine
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Taking a day off Kat?
Couldn't agree more, except it's not what that I have to say, I really just don't care.Quote:
Originally Posted by Katrine
And how many dancers have ever used the word 'jocular'? Kat has consistently proven to have the broadest vocabulary here on the blue side. I also enjoy her ability to swith attitudes and perspectives with the comfort and ease of a well practiced yogi.Quote:
Originally Posted by Katrine
Interesting. As a rule, I never talk about sex, period. Not with dancers, not with friends, not with SO's - never. Why talk about something you'd much rather be doing? And - for me, talking about sex just ruins all the intensity surrounding the subject -- and act.Quote:
Originally Posted by Katrine
Movies? From time to time if there's a good one out at the time. Clerks II is the funniest movie of the year. I think I'll see it 3 times in the theater just to share the experience with my friends.
Music? A difficult topic for me unless the dancer has some deep roots in music history. Nothing ruins a discussion about music for me more than to have someone talk about thier favorite popular bands then unwittingly poke fun at some old good performers who were one of the inspirations/groundlayers for said fav. popular band.
I have come to prefer talking about the seemingly inane - What are your favorite words? Do you sleep on your back or your side? Dumb stuff which you can easily answer without fear of critique upon which you can quickly build a rapport. I've found these questions really piss off the hard hustlers and endear me to the gals not afraid to 'be a little real' ITC.
Yep, but then you have to get over the uncomfortable feeling she has that you aren't the easiest hustle in the room.Quote:
Originally Posted by Katrine
Alas, so true...:'(Quote:
Originally Posted by Katrine
Yea, I've enjoyed many nights in Vegas where the dancer made a choice to hang out and drink and lap dance for free for the night (well usually for a handful of dances, the rest free) just because. I'm honest about it though and tell them go for it if they want to work the floor. I'm just there for me and honest about that too.Quote:
Originally Posted by GenWar
However Vegas might be an exception. There are a lot of clubs, filled with a lot of girls, many of which are not full time strippers. They come and go for a few weeks a year to make some extra money. Many haven't been in the business long enough or don't work enough months each year to completely burn out to the point where it's just a job.
Still, having said that I spent 12hrs with a stripper at Sapphires when I was in Vegas last July. Cost me 4 dances and drinks for the two of us for the night. She has been in the business for 10 years. She just didn't feel like bothering with the hustle I guess or she just wanted to talk and unload. I'm pretty damn honest when I'm drunk, and she seemed to like the straight up honest discussion we had. She declined to do more dances for money, but stayed on my lap all night for free. It got rather hot and heavy but I cut it short it at taking it OTC because I have an SO and have limits.
And yes, it's a good ego stroking when a dancer spends the night with you without charging you. /shrug, I don't feel guilty about getting my ego stroked.
On the other hand I won't pay to just talk. If a dancer wants to talk it's going to have to be for free or not at all. I will pay for lapdances if I see something I like, but then I want that time spent dancing, not talking.
What Kat said in both her posts.
There's always exceptions (and I admit gravitating toward dancers that meet said exceptions on a more regular basis), but usually the level of discourse in the club isn't anything exciting.
^^I am so jealous of both of you (Kat and CO) that you lead lives such that conversations with beautiful women over drinks are commonplace and unexciting.
For me, that is pretty much all I get :)
-gen
P.S. The sarcasm level of this post is Green. Repeat, Sarcasm level is green.
creative and unusual conversations? hmmm.......let's me think. nope, i'm outta gas.Quote:
Originally Posted by azcustomer
why not? this topic is practically begging for it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Susan Wayward
very true.Quote:
Originally Posted by Susan Wayward
i do. why bother with sublety in a sc? frankly, i'll eyeball a stripper from neck-to-toe as if she's a choice porterhouse steak. i'll stare at her cleavage and tell her she has nice tits. i'll tell her she has great ass and turn around and stick it out. so, i can get a good look at it. after all, that is the whole point of strippers putting their naughty bits on display for a customer's perusal.Quote:
Originally Posted by azcustomer
same here. then again, i'm more of a PSE type customer.Quote:
Originally Posted by Katrine
I dont think Ive posted here already...I didnt go back and check.
When Im one on one I tend to keep the coversation pretty benign...but when I have 3 or 4 strippers hanging out and drinking, katie bar the door LOL I dont have to do much other than maybe subtly introduce a topic and let em go at it LOL
A week or two ago I had Miss D, Miss A and one or two others partying with me. I'm not sure how it got strarted but the first thing I knew Miss D starting describing this gynecological instrument that her doc last used on her. She said it looked kinda, sorta like a penis most guys would be proud of and interestingly she thought it felt pretty good. If youve read any of my previous posts, you know I had to ask the obvious question ;) Which is a whole nuther story :O .
FBR
Awwww, you're the sweetest shill ever! ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by azcustomer
Now that's just insane. Sex is the best subject ever. Everyone likes it and has their interests and preferences. Its a great sales tool, and gets the customer potentially riled up. Damn Az, I bet you don't even talk dirty in the sack, for shame. :-\Quote:
Originally Posted by azcustomer
Not really, most dancers don't try to put the hard hustle on female customers, especially fellow and former strippers. Besides, I don't really care if she feels "uncomfortable." If she isn't comfortable hanging out and dancing for someone like me, she is in the wrong business, because I am as cool as they come in regards to customers.Quote:
Originally Posted by azcustomer
I keep the conversation short, don't waste time, and get dances ASAP.
If I'm not interested, I will let her know so she can go elsewhere.
If I like the girl, I will get her myself, she doesn't even need to hustle me.
I don't touch without permission, and I tip extra.
No, I'm not going to spend $1,000 and buy a bottle of Dom, but I'm fucking hot, don't wear skirts with no panties, and don't ask for extras or threesomes.
If anything "extra" does occur, it is, and has been, 100% dancer inititated. Boys, we aren't even playing the same sport. :P
true, it is a great sales tool. if it's performed properly. recently, i was approached by this tall, thin, hard-bodied stripper who plopped down in my lap. now, i don't normally buy dances soon after i walk into a sc. i need time to decompress and get in touch with my inner pervert. anyway, i saw her out the corner of my eye as she approached me and completely ignored her, but she didn't take the hint. in any case, i planned to give her the heave-ho after her introductory spiel. however, after i turned her down and she stood up to leave. she paused for a moment, while she pulled down the back of her very, tiny and tight mini-skirt.Quote:
Originally Posted by Katrine
i did a double-take. actually, willy did a double-take and exclaimed, "sweet jiminy christmas! this girl's ass is so round. she can barely pull that dress over it". "hold on, let's not be so hasty...er....what was your name again?", i said as i grabbed her hand. so, we chatted a bit. what did we chat about? what did she look like facially? i have no freaking clue, but i'm think it had something to do with her awesome ass and me biting it. anyway, i do know spent a lot of time looking over her shoulders and staring down at her boobs, while she sat in my lap and made small, grinding circles with her ass as i started to sprout wood. at some point, she said, "you're very hard. i think you're ready for a dance". true, i was guilty as charged on both counts. "you took the words right out of my mouth", i replied. she turned out to be real friendly.
oh yeah. obviously, the drawback (if it can be called a drawback) of not wearing shorts (sans underwear) in a sc is when you pitch a tent. in fact, after i stood up. the stripper asked me if i wanted to wait. yeah right, like i care if i'm walking around a sc and pitching a tent. i thought that was the whole point.
Hey, I didn't even touch on your lapdancing skills! Kat, you know you're my all time favorite - well... because of that thing that you do... :-XQuote:
Originally Posted by Katrine
Hope to see you again this weekend.;D
Less talk, more action - we can talk about it while laughing and gasping when it's over. I'm no good with chatterboxes who expect me to participate.Quote:
Originally Posted by Katrine
Hey, let's just work on trusting each other in the sack and only say something when you feel uncomfortable. I like Yek's "Strawberry" code word.
Don't tell me what you're going to do to me - SUPRISE ME. I have had sex with a few chatterboxes who like to talk dirty. However, in MY experience with these gals:
When all is said and done, there's a lot more said... than done.
Yes Kat, you are hot and you know I love buying doubles matches with you and another gal. It's strange how they always give their portion of the payout to you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Katrine
However, please don't think that you're the only 'good customer' who's been um, well - 'used'. Just last week I got four dances from the hottest gal in the club who went a little crazy. }:D
She never asked and went ahead with a 'frankly I don't care if you give a damn' attitude. When we were finished, she smiled sheepishly at me and I told her: "Okay, but for that last bit, I think you owe me a dollar." She laughed and said: "Yes I do..."
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Originally Posted by GenWar
I love this.... Can I use it ^^^^?
:D
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Originally Posted by azcustomer
Wow. ;D Thanks!
I was thinking about buying that T-shirt Hell shirt that says something like :
or...Quote:
With an ass like this, who needs tits
sorry...
off topic.
;)
It depends on the dancer as cookie cutter conversations aren't all that rewarding or insightful. Whatever she is comfortable talking about would be my answer. I generally let her control the conversation and wait for cues on subjects she'd be interested in talking about. It usually helps a dancer feel more comfortable with me and if it leads to a dance, it becomes all the more better for both parties.
Lets see, well sports is out for me.
I had a good short convo about trying to stop getting too many carbos and how the hell to get rice out of a mostly asian diet.
I tend to mention odd but not offensive stories from the news that have been the The lounge, seing if they catch the thread, and if I can sniff out if their a poster on SW, or if they can figure out who I am.
Giving comical responses to my penchant for red bull, and why I order it.
-Talk enough to build raport.... beyond that it depends on the dancer, and if I in someway know her or click.
There are some out there, that just can't do it for me, and of course there is occasionaly the dancer that will ruin me for the rest of the night, if I don't spend all my money on her. By ruin I mean that, no other dancer is really that intersting after her.
If I knew one was an anime freak, well I'd be worried about how much all this talking was costing me. Then again, different dancers, different games, different paths, and different costs.
It is really funny when being in a strip club starts reminding me of those dating anime games that, give you a series of answers in response to a lady's question. I love seing where the answers take you.
I've had some fun convo about Melb'n as well.