So i have been dancing for two months i see some other dancers getting guy after guy after guy. I just want to know what im doing wrong. I also want to learn better selling skills and how to close pleass help!!!
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So i have been dancing for two months i see some other dancers getting guy after guy after guy. I just want to know what im doing wrong. I also want to learn better selling skills and how to close pleass help!!!
welcome to hustle hut. Your question is pretty much what this whole section is about. Keep reading!
What Emily said. Read this section!
Also, we couldn't possibly tell you what you're doing wrong, or give you any tips to improve your game with what you posted. You'd have to tell us what you're doing now...
Bridgette's right. We have to know what you're doing right and what you're doing no-so-right. Here's a good exercise which I usually suggest to most people who ask the question you're asking. Don't answer this off the top of your head though. Think about the question the next time you go to work and make note of the answers. Keep track of the top three types of resistance you get from your customers. In other words, why are you being said "no" to? Whatever the answers, make note of the top three responses whether it's, "I'm waiting for a friend", "I just bought a dance from that other girl", whatever. Write them down and post them this thread and we can go from there.
I've found that there's many guys in my club don't have the balls to say no, instead they'll lead us to believe we're going to go the VIP, they'll tell us after they finish eating their food, etc. and to come back in 20 minutes and then they'll leave the club!!!! That happened to me last night, it's so irritating. Why not just say "No, I don't want to" Don't waste our time saying "Yes, let's do that" when they have no intention on doing it!!!
I've also had customers that couldn't give me a reason why they don't want to go to the VIP. I had one customer who bought 4-5 dances with me, who went to the executive lounge with me and got dances there, kept tipping me on stage but when it came to do the VIP he said he "couldn't do it". He could not give me a reason why he couldn't. He said it wasn't about the money and it wasn't because he didn't like me, he said he didn't know why. Come on, everyone has their reasons!
Has anyone else experience this? If so, what do you do?
"If you don't know why, then there's no reason not to! Let's go play!"Quote:
Originally Posted by leogirl876
im gonna have to try that line, i got my first "i dont know why" the other day. i mean pull your head out of your ass, if you dont like naked girls dont go to a strip club.
Tried that and this one guy still was like "I just can't" Why not? "I don't know, I just can't". WHATEVER PU$$Y!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Bridgette
I guess it just depends on the guys you approach. It may be them. Try asking the other girls what they say to start everything.
some girls said i needed to be specific on what i was doing wrong. well i realized the club i work at is all hustle...i know its stupid i realize it more like I understand it more, but i have to hustle in discreet as in not letting the custy know all i want is his money. Fucking custys piss me off, but some of them could really make my day. I guess my problem was not talking and spending some "time" with them. I will never talk more than two songs.."You dont wanna dance than peace out...is what i say in my mind. You know the wanna dance approach does work, only if you have found a custy who has had his eye on you. Another thing i did wrong was not enough eye contact. I went to work last night and it was better than before. Thanks girls
I knew a girl who went to sit with the customers, but didn't talk. I mean, she would come to a table, sit down, say Hi, and then watch the stage the whole time... I was so shocked to see this... And when I talked to her about it she says "I make money" but she made like $50 a night! What a weirdo
Anyways, it's important to talk about stuff, and sit for a few minutes.
Yeah, you would be suprised at how little hustle some girls have. I'll sit down at a table with three guys and two other girls, and the girls will be smoking cigarettes, watching the stage, not talking to the guys. They just sit around and wait for the guys to ask.
I found that even tho you may get bored - find a good one liner and say it close to his ear while massaging his neck and hair line - that usually works - also look in to his eyes at that point they either think you have earnt the money or they are really horny that they will go for a dance !
Also when you are selling never say NO !! always say - we will work something out :-) even if you do not intend on doing it :-P I do this about 2 times a night and it is ok - I do not go around saying that I iwll give them extras etc. But I do not say no! Well atleast until I get their money - what are they going to do? Cry?? Lol - my blatiness!
Another thing that works is being cute, friendly, smile and have a sexy attitude - Dont wear under wear on the floor as that detracts the amount you possibly could earn - as they have seen it all already - they will not pay for it if they have seen it!
Wear nice shoes, have fresh odour and teeth and always do your hair nicely - generally make yourself look hot and you will feel good about yourself and you will earn money - if you put no effort into work then how can anyone expect ot make money????
Good Luck! Let us know why they dont want a dance too - maybe we could assist you in a cute saying to tell them after they say it!
xx