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I've had that happen before. I think they are hoping that you will be able to hook them up with money since you obviously know how to make it...as in "hey..why dont you take me AND my friend to VIP?".
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Maybe after they see you are going to be good for the club and are not just another annoying, drugged out, can't dance to save her life new girl.....
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I agree w/ both of the above.
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Personally for me the ones who were bitches to start with who suddenly want to play buddy buddy, are the ones I trust the least. I think it goes back to that old saying... keep your friends close and your enimies closer....
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Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
you'd think this is precisely when the hatering would get worse.
Maybe this is the point where the club runs out of Hatorade? Hmm...
Nah just kidding. If you ask me its because once theyve realized you are good at what you do and know how to make money they find it easier to accept you. Immoral? Yes. Avoidable? I doubt it.
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without wanting to defend their actions, girls can quite often be bitchy and mean and terratorial without really meaning to.
when you've been working in a club for a long time, and a new girl comes along, a lot of the time you wanna sit back and observe her and make sure she's not a skanky ho before you befriend her and make her feel too welcome. i think a lot of the time it's just girls being protective over their club and it's reputation.
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Yeah, I've befriended new girls and got shit because the new girl was offering sex and since I was her 'friend', I -MUST- have told her this was okay. So I was ostracized for being nice to a new girl that was a skank. Since then I watch their behavior. I'm nice to them, but I do NOT go out of my way anymore.
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Ill admit that I am do not go out of my way to be nice to new girls anymore, but this is recent due to the overwhelming number of hos getting hired. Plus the more friends i make the less money I make, I have all the friends I need..
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I always figured it was the whole "keep your enemies closer" kinda shit. Either way, they decide to get on your good side because it will get them further. Likewise, I noticed that that girls who are initially nice to you often turn weird or even bitchy when they get used to you and you start banking.
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oh, i don't expect everyone to want to be my "friend" right away. i was the girl who'd been there the longest at my old club, and i wasn't instantly friendly with new girls. i wasn't a mean bitch either. i'm talking about girls who go from saying mean shit the first second they see you, to trying to be your friend in an instant. i agree with pretty much what everyone is saying.
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I've had girls openly taunt me one day and be all chatty/friendly the next. And then the day after that they once more won't give me the time of day. This has been going on for over a year at my club and...whatever. The amount of marijuana smoked in our changeroom any given night probably has something to do with it. Maybe i'll chart a graph and monitor their intake and figure it out. hehe. I've given up and smile big and wide whether they say "cute skirt!" or 'accidentally' burn my arm with a cigarette butt.
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Originally Posted by Lyssa Lynn
Maybe after they see you are going to be good for the club and are not just another annoying, drugged out, can't dance to save her life new girl.....
I agree.
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goodness.. being a new girl at a club..ugh I hate it!!.. I like when they sit in the chairs and stare when I'm on stage in groups haha..
i mean damn..whats with the haters, bitches, the dirty looks!!!??!?..I don't even understand..its funny when they think I give a fuck when I don't. I make my money and go.. I talk here and there but thats about it.. It doesnt make sense..
does these bitches have anythin else better to do than to check me out HAHA thats how I look at it.. excuse tha language SW.. but I deal wit this on a nonstop basis.. maybe cuz I always have a smile on mah face... so maybe they be quick to judge & think im stuck up or some shit when im not!
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They are called bottom feeders. Being "friendly" is their way of priming you so they can suck up your leftovers. Be on your toes with them, because they could just as soon cut your throat as look at you.
These are the worst bitches to deal with because they play all sugar and honey to your face then stab you in the back. Be just "friendly" enough with them to keep an eye on them.
They may not all be evil bitches, but the chances are good.
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be wary of some of the clubs in tampa. a lot of girls have pimps, which means they are ALWAYS in the club, so sometimes they can be tight with mgmt and they will cut your throat. i wont name the club, but a girl i knew worked there-- she was beautiful, her 1st night had about 600 before 12 and she was asked not to come back. sometimes you have to eat shit and it sucks, but in the strip club world who you know and who likes you can keep you in the club. i would just ignore them and try to be nice, who gives a fuck if they like you or not as long as they dont try to get your ass fired. Could you PM me and tell me the club cause I think I know which one it is.....
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"They are called bottom feeders. Being "friendly" is their way of priming you so they can suck up your leftovers. Be on your toes with them, because they could just as soon cut your throat as look at you."
I totally agree Bridgette!!! I have had so many girls I thought were friends. and then they screw me over. I don't keep many friends anymore for that reason. It has never been the men that have made me dislike the job, always the women.