i've been hanging out w/ him, he's bought boobs, loans, etc, but can't pay me my money for 2 vip's? loser? yes cut off? YES!ever had that " loser custy"
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i've been hanging out w/ him, he's bought boobs, loans, etc, but can't pay me my money for 2 vip's? loser? yes cut off? YES!ever had that " loser custy"
Did he buy you boobs and loan you money?
I guess if he bought your boobs and loaned you money, he figures he's paid for those 2 VIPs already. I understand that's not really the deal in the context of a stripper-custy OTC relationship, but I'm sure that's still how he feels nonetheless.
hell keep milking his wallet.......ive never heard of sugar daddy lasting for ever.......
I'd be as up front and honest as possible with him. If he has sincere feelings for you that are not reciprocated and you are just using him for $$$, then it could end up getting very ugly.
well, you got to cut him off cause he is trying to take it farther than the "custy" relationship, he thinks u owe him--if you want to continue working him, be fierce and let him know he disrespected you by wasting your time when you are there to get money. my friend had the same problem with this one guy, he would spend a g on her everynight and she did all this charity shit for him after she maxed him out and was actually losing a lot of money cause she'd sit with him all night, hoping the next day he'd have the cash... cut him off before he fucks up any more of your $$$
no not me, he bought them for a different dancer who recently quit. never loaned me any money. i'm p/o because he has the money.Quote:
Originally Posted by Deogol
He sounds like one of those guys who will only spend money on a dancer whom he can get his way with. He probably sees spending money in the club on dances as a waste, and when he does only does so when a dancer will hang with him as well as fuck him.
It was wrong of him to take you in the VIP and not pay up. What was his excuse for not paying when his time was up?
As they say, it doesn't matter how much money someone has. A person will only spend money if they derive satisfaction from what they are spending it on.
ALWAYS get your money upfront when there's a lot of money involved. If he comes in the club to see you, tell him you won't spend any time with him until he pays you for the time before and upfront for tonight. If he won't then cut him off immediately!
I had a custy who bought me stuff.. One night he didn't have the cash to pay me, so he asked if he can come back the next day and he'll give me double. I said ok, and he made good on his promise. Since that night we did this arrangement a few more times (who doesn't like to charge 100% interest on a loan?)
But eventually, when he came he said he didn't have money today, and won't have it tomorrow. So soon enough I cut him off because I didn't feel like being his "friend" and sit with him for free while I could be making money.
The point is, cut him off, and don't give him any more chances t rip you off.