"Fake" wife for a male gay couple?
I'm hoping this isn't too far off topic, but I've been thinking about it for quite some time, and I'm wondering if anyone else has thought about this or has any suggestions.
I am a lesbian, and as a dancer, pretty attractive and good with people. So I was thinking that maybe I could get a job pretending to be the wife/girlfriend for a gay couple. I'd go out with him, eat out in restaurants, dance, and ideally move in and live with him, and my lesbian partner would do the same with his gay partner . . . where everyone would think we were just two straight couples who lived together, when in reality, we would be two homosexual couples that co-habited. My partner and I are both really femme, and I think we could pull it off, I just don't have a clue how to get invloved in this or what I would do to let guys know that I had this available. I think this would be a scenario for a gay couple that didn't want everyone to know that they *were* gay.
This would be a true "escort" (not prostitute) job, played 24-7, or at least all the time when people were looking.
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i think its AWESOME!!!!!! :)
no idea how to get into it tho,sorry. good luck
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A 24/7 job can be very..... straining. People get sick of each other... etc. Also, be careful of how much you do in this faux pairing. Lying about such things for child adoption and medical insurance, for example. Make sure what you agree to pose as couples for wont land you in jail.
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I think if he could afford to set up this kind of arrangement, he could probably also afford to consult with a lawyer on the matter. I can't imagine what would be illegal about it, though, I mean people marry people that they're not in love with all the time, especially women who marry for security or money. Nothing in a non-religious wedding insists that you have to be romantically involved with your spouse, but I'm not rightly sure what all would be entailed or the legal rammifications of it all. I AM sure it would be a big deal if our marriage would give him a green card/citizenship.
I'm looking to cultivate a friendship with a gay couple that I could stand to be around, but I seem to be ok with most of the gay guys I meet, so I wouldn't imagine it would be a huge problem. If we got to the point where we couldn't stand each other, we could always avoid each other at the house or eventually break-up. Straight couples break up and get divorces, too, ya know.
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Do you have a gay community so to speak in your area? If so there's likely to be local magazines and papers or even local website or community board where you could place an ad or you could just try advertising in the classifieds of a regular local paper...
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Why would someone want to pretend to be straight ?? I am curious
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i mean no offense at all, honestly, but why further a "need" to "hide"?
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Originally Posted by bostondancer
Why would someone want to pretend to be straight ?? I am curious
I cant believe you asked that question!
It's still very hard for some people to come out completely or at all. Some people may feel the need to put on the straight act just some of the time around specific people / places, and some all of the time except when in private. Each to their own - everyones situation is different.
A couple of reasons I know about through people I've met / friends.
1) Risks embarresment to family and also being written out of the will / disowned.
2) Coming out would mean facing discrimination amongst co-workers (which is now illegal here, but still...)
3) Not ready to come out / finds it easier to put on the straight act. / Is fine with people not knowing sexuality.
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What's sad is I know a million reasons why people would want to do this and why.
And it's sad that each reason even exists.