Would the type of pics he prefers...
A question for anyone with an opinion,
I am in a 2 year relationship... in the last 2 years, the only pictures he has offered to take have been when I am in near nude costume or just plain nude. Jerk off pictures are the only pictures he has requested and the only ones he has in his possession.
The only times he has taken a picture of me in decent civilian clothes is when I've asked him to take a picture for "my mom". Then I find after developing the pics that they are A.) out of focus B.) His thumb is in the way C.) he didn't use flash.
He doesn't bother to take anymore and doesn't ask to keep any of those. And no he does not have a pic of me in his wallet.
During this last time around, it set a red flag in my brain. Does this mean its only a sex thing? I know that unless you are in this relationship (which you are not, you can't answer accurately) but what would be your take on this?
Thanks everyone!
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no,guys just love nudie pics.I wouldnt really care myself.
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id think something was up. my bf had clothed pics of me in his wallet after hed been with me for just a few months.
its weird he doesnt have any clothed pics of you two. do you do things together to warrent such pics tho?
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I love taking nude pics, for my man, if I knew they wouldnt be showed off to the guys. But I think its kinda weird for him to not have a clothed pic of you somewhere. Have u asked him y he doesnt?
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I'm gonna be blunt.
That really seems like only a sex thing. Really. Enormously.
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I'm the wrong person to ask. My husband does photography. He'll photograph me all kinda ways, but he doesn't carry one of me in his wallet.
It does seem weird though.
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I have one pic of the Empress in my wallet, it is cute and old, as soon as I get a chance I'll update it. She has clothing on. If she would ever do a very sexy pic, well I'd not have it in my wallet, and would prefer the real thing anyway.
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It's odd. I do have nudie pics of my ex's but I have a whole lot more clothed pics of us bumming around the country and such!
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The fact that you're asking makes me think you know something is up. It is strange to me that he only wants the nude or semi-nude and doesn't even care for clothed pics of you.
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Thanks to everyone who replied, and to thank you for your blunt honesty. If we can't be honest here, where can we?
I do think something is up. Its one of those things that you can't put your finger on it until its blatant. I did ask him why he didn't care to take one of the other pictures... he had some lame excuse like "we don't have a good camera" -he totally missed the point. Then again he really didn't, its one of those "play dumb" tricks.
It all struck me as strange as well. He can be my best friend sometimes.
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I think it's weird. I would definitely talk to him about it. Sternly, if necessary. He can work the camera just fine to take the pictures he wants, and by implying that he can't, he's calling you stupid. Ask him to tell you straight up what the deal is.
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I'm agreeing with Morrigan on this one. Granted my man has a huge stack of my nudie pics, he also carries a portrait of the two of us in his wallet to show off to his friends and co-workers.
You need to seriously ask him what's up. This isn't normal.