Re: Professional Help Please
I foresee a move to CC in your future, Tony. And 99% of dancers are attached in some way. Look, we've all been there in one way or another. Honestly, if you must ask her then just come right out with it. Just bear in mind that you'll be the 52nd guy that night to do so. Who knows, maybe she'll go for it. Just don't feel bad if she turns you down (which is a probability that has little to do with you and more to do with reflex and personal concern).
Re: Professional Help Please
I say lost cause. I know I think of good custys as part of my "paycheck".
Strip clubs aren't meant to find dates. You're there to be around a beautiful woman and have a good time. She's doing her job, by making sure you're entertained and having fn.
Re: Professional Help Please
If I were the dancer in question, I would be very disappointed if you asked me out. I love my customers who play by the rules, enjoy themselves, and make my night pleasant (not just money-wise, but also by treating me with respect). When one of them decides to try for more, it puts me in a very uncomfortable position; I now have to think of a way to say no without hurting his feelings. The truth is that I NEVER meet customers OTC, ever. Work is work, and it stays at work. I have plenty enough going on in my personal life. If I want to go out for a nice relaxing dinner, I'd rather be with my boyfriend or my friends.
The dancer in question probably genuinely likes you as a customer, but I doubt she wants to entertain customers on her night off. Please just enjoy what you have.
Re: Professional Help Please
Oh, for crying out loud...
Its a job...the more you fall for the dancer, usually, the more money they make.
Do yourself a favor and find someone outside the club. Oh, and hit the Customer Convo section for more advice on this.
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Re: Professional Help Please
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Originally Posted by Yekhefah
If I were the dancer in question, I would be very disappointed if you asked me out. I love my customers who play by the rules, enjoy themselves, and make my night pleasant (not just money-wise, but also by treating me with respect). When one of them decides to try for more, it puts me in a very uncomfortable position; I now have to think of a way to say no without hurting his feelings. The truth is that I NEVER meet customers OTC, ever. Work is work, and it stays at work. I have plenty enough going on in my personal life. If I want to go out for a nice relaxing dinner, I'd rather be with my boyfriend or my friends.
The dancer in question probably genuinely likes you as a customer, but I doubt she wants to entertain customers on her night off. Please just enjoy what you have.
DITTO!!!!!!!!!!!!!