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:-\ But but but... he comes to YOUR house?
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^^^ That was my first thought too.
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I would *never* let him come to your house.
Is he a submissive sort of man? If so, I would make him tithe 20% of his income to you, then start increasing it every month or so. If not he'll probably be shortlived and I would charge him $500/week. I had a similar arrangement with a sub at one point, where he paid me $200/hr for our sessions, and then I would "ebill" him for the time I spent answering his emails.
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Well, it' s a vacation home. And NOT my vacation home. I'll be there for about a month and a half and then I'm splitsville. He lives an hour and a half away from there and frankly I'd rather make him drive.
Thanks for the advice, Lena!
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I have done private shows for customers who spend on me in the club. Some have asked to come to my room. That is just not acceptable. Plus guys freeze up if they know another man is in the mix. You'll probably lose him.
I suggest telling the guy to get a motel room, that you don't do business out of your home. Plus most guys expect to touch in a private show. So you'll probably have to establish your comfort zone for touching. And he'll most likely want to jack off while watching you.
The norm for doing this is to have your husband drop you off at his room. Don't let the guy see him though. Then when you get in the room, call him and just say, "ok". Then call him to come get you when the session is up (usually 40-50 minutes). Get your money up front.
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^^^ But then her husband isn't going to be there to help her if the guy tries anything.
He should be within earshot and have easy access to the room. If it was in a motel room, for example, he could hang in the bathroom and read or something.
I would be really twitchy about OTC shows, but I'm paranoid that way.
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does the guy know you have a husband/that he'll be watching? the last thing you want is this guy in your house suddenly flipping out cos of your husband.
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Yeah...I should have been more specific. I see there are a lot of unanswered questions from my first post.
The guy gave me the option of doing the shows at a condo he keeps for business associates who come in from out of town. For that I'd have to drive an hour and a half and I wouldn't have anyone actually at the place with me. My husband will drive me and probably grab a cup of coffee nearby during the session, then pick me up when we're done.
The alternative is that he come to my place, my husband hangs out in another room during session. It's kind of a weird situation. The guy has a cuckold fetish--which has something to do with a nice, working family man whose slutty wife is doing naughty things with men in his house while he's at work. He wants me to pretend to be his wife and do a toy show while telling him about all the men I've been screwing while he's out. He says he does not want to touch me because he loves his wife and does not cheat on her. He just has this weird fetish and she won't go along with it. So, he actually doesn't mind my husband being nearby because it sort of plays into that whole naughty wife thing.
So which is safer? I was thinking if it was "my" house and something went wrong, a) my husband would be right there and b) I would feel more comfortably involving the police because it would look better on me. In a motel or his condo, my husband would NOT be right there and ig the police got involved I would look much more like a prostitute. Which I am NOT. (Not that there's anything wrong with it, but I'm not.)
Hmmm...what to do.
Well, thanks for your food for thought, everyone.
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If your man is there, I say go for it. You know the place, you know the area, and someone you know is there. Its especially a plus that it isnt a permanent residence of yours. I say go for $200 an hour, like common sessions normally go for... up front of course.... and charge per email. Niteflirt has Pay To Read email options, or you could get him to tribute via PayPal, StormPay, AlertPay, Amazon Pay Page, etc...
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My concern would be that he could return to the house anytime since he knows where it is.
Should you do it, make him pay lots :D
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I would charge more like 500 per hour or even per half hour, don't make it cheaper than stripclub VIP's , make the most of it and if he doesn't agree you can negotiate lower.
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Ya, I can easily get 200$ an hour in a club. I wouldn't do it for less then 600$ an hour. This guy has a condo for biz associates. He's loaded. Also, charge for the emails. Don't be cheap about it, he's probably not looking for a bargin.
here's the niteflirt paidmail link:
I would charge him around 10 for text only, and 20 additional for each picture. He can afford it.
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Ya, I can easily get 200$ an hour in a club. I wouldn't do it for less then 600$ an hour. This guy has a condo for biz associates. He's loaded. Also, charge for the emails. Don't be cheap about it, he's probably not looking for a bargin. I would charge him around 10 for text only, and 20 additional for each picture. He can afford it.
See, this is what I was thinking. He has spent a lot of time looking for just the right girl, who can say all the right things to him and with whom he feels comfortable. He is scared to death of getting ahold of some psycho who will call his wife or try to fuck with his business if she gets pissed off for some reason. He is confident that I am a resonable and ethical person. And he knows it takes a certain acting talent to succcessfully pull off the kind of role play he requires. He knows he can't just call up an escort service and expect to find that. He is delighted to have found me. And he's loaded. So... ;)
Oh, and thanks for the niteflirt link! That was very helpful.
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are you doing phone text messages too? Cool!
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What's the normal "going" rate for a xxx toy show stripper per hour in your area? I only ask look at that price and charge $100 more due to it being "specialised" (aka catering to his fetish). As for the emails definately charge him however be reasonable about the charge. Define a certain amount of time you will spend on each email (15 minutes for example) and charge based upon the time it takes you to answer the email.
In the end, do it at a place where you will feel comfortable and safe or else it just will not work. Since where you are staying is not your true residence it is just a vacation home you can do it there however you do have the added risk that he does know you are there (even if you are temporarily there).
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You're welcome. I say get what you can, b/c the arrangement won't last forever.
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Text messages...I didn't even think about that! Good idea!
Well, we decided on $500 a week. He wants to put me on his payroll, which I'm not so excited about. I'd rather get paid in cash (yes, I claim my taxes, that's not the issue), so we'll have to negotiate that. He said for $500 I can basically determine how much mileage he will get as far as number and length of visits, number of emails, etc. His whole thing is he like to be allowed just a little less than what he actually wants, to be controlled, etc. This is too freaking good to be true.
I'll update everyone if it actually comes through!
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sorry for the old thread, but curious to know how this turned out?
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Yeah i want to know too!! do tell, do tell Dottie!
PS how's your sexy girlfriend situation? I-want-one-of-those
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Dottie Rebel
The guy has a cuckold fetish--which has something to do with a nice, working family man whose slutty wife is doing naughty things with men in his house while he's at work. He wants me to pretend to be his wife and do a toy show while telling him about all the men I've been screwing while he's out.
thats actually a huge fetish you could bank off of.. its just hard to find such custies, and women who really understand it. lemme know if you need ideas!
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It never happened. He wanted me to drive over to his city (1.5 hours) and I just never got around to it, honestly. I was making plenty at the club where I was at. We were only there for a month so it just kinda slipped away.
Sexy girlfriend situation...hmm...not anymore. We're kinda just best friends now. Katrine called it "ye olde lesbian bed death" lol. She's dating some dude now. ::)