Re: She won't leave me alone
Ah, I know what it feels like to not being invited to a B'day party.
Apparently she likes it when she is ignored. So keep on ignoring her. Because if you pay attention to her she will quit paying attention to you
It's like the Sadist and the Machocist.
Masocist ... hit me hit me..
Sadist... No I won't.
Which action or non-action causes the most pain...??
Re: She won't leave me alone
[QUOTE=Sitri]
Apparently she likes it when she is ignored. So keep on ignoring her. Because if you pay attention to her she will quit paying attention to you
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Reminds me of the concept from the "Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy" that tells us that the only way to avoid hitting the ground when falling is to accidentally miss. :)
So, if you want her to go away, just pursue her. Then enjoy your time without her. When she returns, after having been ignored for awhile, just repeat.
Re: She won't leave me alone
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Originally Posted by TaLlOnE
She hurt me so bad like every women I've ever liked an I'm a bit of a "american women hater" now since being burned so much.
SO now you know my problem, I need a solution
Wow. I'm really very sorry.
OK, first, please don't be a hater. The next girl you meet should not have to carry the collective burden of your trauma with every other woman in your historical love life.
Second, forget about Asia. This is a business transaction to her, not a personal one. Otherwise, you would have been invited to the birthday party, her house and to every breakfast and after-work party the girls were throwing. Trust me, if she wanted you to be there, she would have made sure you were. That sort of makes intuitive sense, don't you think?
She's all over you in the club because she's upset she's not making any money off of you anymore and she would like to change that (notice that she's not all over you OTC. That's the difference). It's as simple as that.
She will eventually leave you alone when it becomes obvious that you are no longer a good customer for her. This is perfectly reasonable, normal, and acceptable in the SC atmosphere.
I would suggest that you consider spending time and money on her in the club, but you seem emotionally invested in her with no reciprocal interest. And more than a little bitter. Which I'm truly sorry about.
So now it's time to move on. And please don't hold it against her in any personal sense. It's just business to her. As it should be.
Re: She won't leave me alone
Take a time out, man.
Go hang out at a Toast Masters meeting or something. Them people like to bullshit I can tell you that. There will be plenty to talk about.
Re: She won't leave me alone
Why do you hate American women? Are you being influenced by google searches for mail order brides? Do you believe in empty promises? Do you deserve your misfortune? I don't know, but inquiring minds are curious????
Re: She won't leave me alone
Why doesn't she remove herself from your life? Why don't you remove yourself from her place of business, where cuddling people and rubbing boobs in their face to get money is standard operating procedure?
Or, if you must hang out at this particular club, maybe you could tell her plainly that you won't be spending any money on her. Why? Because you don't feel like it. She'll learn to leave you alone.
Re: She won't leave me alone
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Originally Posted by The Other Owner
OK, first, please don't be a hater. The next girl you meet should not have to carry the collective burden of your trauma with every other woman in your historical love life.
READ THAT.
OVER. AND OVER. AND OVER.
I swear if I hear one more "I just can't trust men" comment I'm going to explode. :D
Sorry you're bitter bro. Time for a new girl. Simple as that. It's the bliss of this industry. Emotional investment should be a high sign to sign out if she's not returning it in an initiating way.
Mast.
Re: She won't leave me alone
you want to get rid of her? tell her to suck your dick. not for pay, for free and be serious. that way she'll either suck your dick or leave you alone. make it the first thing out of your mouth everytime she approaches you. eventually, she'll leave you alone.
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haha, yah, asking for sex might be a good way to get rid of her but I think she would ablige since she does like me sexually in a way BUT everyone forgets that I go to this club because I have friends who OWN it so naturally I'll keep going there, Asia doesn't work there ALL the time, like 50% of the year (since Alberta is booming an it's where the money is, all the top girls frequent Edmonton alot more now).
So I won't do that because I don't want everyone to think im a pervert.. rumours can get started an I don't want friends thinking I'm a sleaze. Besides Asia knows me too well an that's the problem.
Also Asia is calling now an it's like some cliche "didn't want me before, wants me hellah bad now'>
True eventually she'll give up but from girls I dated in the past who sluffed me off..... well if a girl from 10 years ago still pesters me.... then I don't think Asia will stop either..
That's why I'm asking.... but coodles for sander8 for a good suggestion LOL