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Didn't Charles Darwin explain all this already Lol ?
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I thought this thread was about a Rusty Machete Deathmatch between Dick Cheney & Condi Rice. LOL
I like any penii that work! & Earn their keep! And take out the trash! LOL
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Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
So why is it all cool and awesome when a chick gets bigger boobs? Why wouldn't we as males seek out penis enlargement if we werent happy?
1) Not all men prefer big boobs. I don't.
2) There are instances where men are just too big for a certain gal.
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big boobs can be absolutely disgusting sometimes. and size doesn't matter. it's all about the bore of your barrel.
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Mastridonicus, I agree with you. It is hypocritical for guys to fussily choose girls with the biggest boobs, firmest stomachs, tightest pussy(they find this out when they sleep with her; this factor could make or break whether he'd want to sleep with her again), etc...but get mad when girls make comments about liking their guys to have big dicks. It seems to me that in society, there is more emphasis placed on girls' looks than guys' looks...although with the recent metrosexual "trend," it is becomming more acceptable for guys to style their hair, wear stylish clothes, etc. But yeah, I believe there is still more of a stigmata placed against unattractive girls, than unattractive guys. It is angering.
I was telling my roommate this in our convo today...A few years ago, before I bought my boobs, guys who were LESS ATTRACTIVE THAN ME would reject me. It was annoying! What high horse did they think they were on, to be semi-fugly and turn down a girl for shallow reasons such as, "her dyed blonde hair looks cheap"(couldn't afford to use a salon back then), or "she's flat chested," or "she has a big nose," or "she's only a little peon that works in retail and has no career/money to show." It's because of guys' past attitudes towards me, that I have made it a point to purposely act shallow back and reject those very guys for their better-looking friends. If guys can be so discriminant on girls' looks and boobs, then I can be the same way back!
NOTE: Personality matters also. However, if you are a guy who is a known asshole or a stranger that I do not know, I will judge based on looks. Guys who dissed me in the past for being (formerly) "flat chested" deserve this current-day rejection from me!
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Originally Posted by azcustomer
1) Not all men prefer big boobs. I don't.
2) There are instances where men are just too big for a certain gal.
I subscribe to these comments 100% 8) So if any gal wants a regular size member I'm available ;D even if she's an A cup ;D
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Many women will tell you their stories of sleeping with a Moby Dick.
"Hummm, but you're not with him now?"
"No, he was a dick, too." (Or insert your favorite complaint about an ex-lover.)
Which underscores the trivial truth that physical attributes can be heavenly when they are attached to a person you dig but won't, in and of themselves, cause you to dig a person long-term.
Oh, and Az--stop bragging, ya bastid!
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Originally Posted by Sitri
I have both...
:O LOL
As for me, I don't care for either. Big penises scare me, so the two I've been with have been small. Ha.
And big boobs? I'll pass. Mine are big enough for me (and Dan).
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This is a double standard that I've definitely noticed.
An average (and even below average) guy will feel that he is ENTITLED to having a hot chick on his arm. If an average looking woman felt that same sense of entitlement, she'd be laughed off the planet.
However, men DO in fact have their universal judgment standard. And it is not physical.
It's MONEY. An average looking guy may not get turned down for his looks, but he sure as HELL will get turned down for making average pay. I have noticed that in metropolitan areas (particularly cities like New York) this happens often. I hear SOOOO many guys complain about being passed over for more well to do men.
While women, with regard to their desirability, are held to a higher standard with regard to looks, men are held to a higher standard with regard to their desirability on the basis of their ability to earn.
One of the beautiful things about making your own as an attractive woman (whether it be via business, dancing, etc) - not only are you gorgeous, but you'll out earn most men...how's THAT for intimidation? LOL!!!!
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Originally Posted by azcustomer
1) Not all men prefer big boobs. I don't.
2) There are instances where men are just too big for a certain gal.
that's exactly what I was thinking.
For me, the only dick that is going to be one I don't like is one that's too big. it's cool for novelty sake (to watch in porno, to see on my man, to have sex with once), but on an every day basis it's not going to work because it's so uncomfortable.
But superficially, a small penis means nothing if he's balding, which is a huge deal breaker for lots of women. And that's socially acceptable to fix (or rather, on the same level as breast implants on women.) At least with a small penis she at least gave him a shot to get to 3rd base. :)
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1) Not all men prefer big boobs. I don't.
2) There are instances where men are just too big for a certain gal.
Women can totally 'get away with' (that's not right, but oh well) having small boobs and still be sexy flaunting them, but not so for a small peen...I don't know why, except maybe because the peen does something during intercourse, and boobs don't (really)?
The analogy between boobs and balding is a good one, actually. THAT'S the same thing, almost. Secondary sex characteristics that society pretty much approves of fixing surgically. Except even then, while some (many?) men prefer little boobies, not many women actually prefer bald spots.
The only problem I have with a small penis is that the owner is almost invariably an insecure nutcase as a result. Sad, but understandable. I don't know if women have something analagous to men and the peen, in terms of having a small one being a deal breaker.
*shrug*
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Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
I was reading a thread in which I learned that Bridgette, one of the funnier posters, posted that she would just walk on a guy with a teenyweeny.
And that guy would probably pay her good money to walk on him. ;)
It sucks to be considered undesirable by the opposite sex over a superficiality that can't be fixed, but who amongst us hasn't pointed that finger?
Besides, if all women had perfect breasts and all men had above adequate sized trousers snakes, we'd all likely be reading a different message board right now.
In any regard, I wouldn't mind an extra inch on top, and another half-inch of girth.
:-\
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Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver
The only problem I have with a small penis is that the owner is almost invariably an insecure nutcase as a result.
Am putting this up on my fridge. :D
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Ok folks, I was using BIG BOOBS as an example since BA's seem to be the most rampant right now due to job, or personal image.
All I am saying is that I find it odd that we will applaud a woman for getting bigger breasts because she wants to, yet call her superficial when she wants her guys to be well built.
I don't have time to delve into it, but I like woman who's looks compliment their personality.
I don't really care so much about any one physical feature as long as the overall picture is gorgeous, the contradiction however is that we as males will sacrifice our own interests and even date someone we would otherwise not be able to stand simply because it turns peoples head. Validation so to speak.
Of course this is a case by case study, but take relationships as a whole. When you're single you are supported as male or female in whatever you want. "Get what you want, are you sure you want her she has a big butt, oh man you should want something better" etc, but after the relationship has begun and people change, it's almost unfathomable to think that 1 month or 15 years down the road the person could change into something you don't want. And when that's the case you're told you're being too selfish. Sure there are understanding circumstances, but in specific cases I've seen someone tell me that he can't stand his wife anymore, she just annoys him, but his family calls him selfish for thinking about leaving her versus counseling and such advice of help.
Just an observation.
Phillydancer, I would love to delve deeper into your point of view.
Again this is of no GENERAL MALE THOUGHT PROCESS AZ :D just an observation on some specific cases that appear to reflect a greater populace.
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Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
All I am saying is that I find it odd that we will applaud a woman for getting bigger breasts because she wants to
we do? I don't know about that. A girl says she wants a BA and the majority of people will try to talk her out of it. Unless you're on stripperweb, and then it's about half.
Besides, it's no mystery that women are valued primarily for their looks, which is why strippers make more than your typical college grad.
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Originally Posted by BrainyDancerGirl
This is a double standard that I've definitely noticed.
An average (and even below average) guy will feel that he is ENTITLED to having a hot chick on his arm. If an average looking woman felt that same sense of entitlement, she'd be laughed off the planet.
However, men DO in fact have their universal judgment standard. And it is not physical.
It's MONEY. An average looking guy may not get turned down for his looks, but he sure as HELL will get turned down for making average pay. I have noticed that in metropolitan areas (particularly cities like New York) this happens often. I hear SOOOO many guys complain about being passed over for more well to do men.
While women, with regard to their desirability, are held to a higher standard with regard to looks, men are held to a higher standard with regard to their desirability on the basis of their ability to earn.
One of the beautiful things about making your own as an attractive woman (whether it be via business, dancing, etc) - not only are you gorgeous, but you'll out earn most men...how's THAT for intimidation? LOL!!!!
Now that's a brainy girl :)
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Same double standard that we live with everyday. Guys sleep with lots of people, they're pimps, girls sleep with lots of people they're sluts. Guys like big/fake boobs, they're picky, girls like big dicks, they're superficial and uncompromising.
I doubt the standards will ever change, in either instance, but it is interesting to analyze.
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Originally Posted by sxybrat07
Same double standard that we live with everyday. Guys sleep with lots of people, they're pimps, girls sleep with lots of people they're sluts. Guys like big/fake boobs, they're picky, girls like big dicks, they're superficial and uncompromising.
I doubt the standards will ever change, in either instance, but it is interesting to analyze.
I make a lot of money capitalizing off of that double standard }:D
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Originally Posted by Emily
we do? I don't know about that. A girl says she wants a BA and the majority of people will try to talk her out of it. Unless you're on stripperweb, and then it's about half.
Besides, it's no mystery that women are valued primarily for their looks, which is why strippers make more than your typical college grad.
Cmon...are we not forgetting the "chip and dale" folks ;D
MAST
-We're a product of our enviroment. I just think it's a simple generalization of a standard we create because that's what we do. Remember back when...when thick girls were SEXY.
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Originally Posted by supermaruchi
Cmon...are we not forgetting the "chip and dale" folks ;D
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no, I'm not...they make shit compared to us
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Originally Posted by Emily
no, I'm not...they make shit compared to us
Of course compared to you ;D
but I could see some making some more than the average joe smoe
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Originally Posted by sol_de_pr2
I subscribe to these comments 100% 8) So if any gal wants a regular size member I'm available ;D even if she's an A cup ;D
Even if?? Mighty kind of you.