Weird situation... Bad customer
The strangest situation happened last night at my club.
I was standing near a couch with some bad-boy, skater type guys, and suddenly I rolled my ankle and my shoe strap came undone.
I bent over to fix my shoe and rub my aching ankle when I felt hot air on my ass and vaginal area. I quickly stood up and turned around to see some of the guys laughing. Anyway, I told them it made me uncomfortable to be blown on and that for me personally, I don't allow that.
This one older guy, the guy who assume must have been doing it, got really angry and demanded an explanation since it wasn't legal touching. I told him I was just uncomfortable with that, but he demanded and demanded to know why.
I'm a science major, so I explained to him that my major concern is that microbes are passed that way. (Not AIDS/HIV or anything like that, but colds and the flu, yes). I told the guy that putting his face so close to my genitals could cause a common cold to be passed either way, "and we want to keep our customers and girls in good health here, right?" The guy stormed out.
The manager came and asked me what happened and I nervously told him what I said to the guy. I was really afraid that he might fire me just for mentioning the word germs in the club around the custys. Anyway, it turns out that the manager has a bachelor's in bio science as well, and he totally backed me up and said I did the right thing. I asked him if he was okay with mentioning spreading colds and stuff, and the guy said I had a legitimate point in that hot oral air on vaginal surfaces can most definitely spread a cold or the flu. I was so shocked that he wasn't pissed at me.
Anyway, has anyone else here had a weird experience like that? I've never had a customer stick his head practically right between my butt cheeks and blow hot air, but it was very weird, lol. Oh well. The manager said that guy is not welcome back anyway because he did the blowing thing once more after I first politely asked him to stop.
Hmph.
Later ladies,
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He violated your personal space. That Satchmo-Wannabe is lucky you didn't slap his smartass face.
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Originally Posted by madmaxine
He violated your personal space. That Satchmo-Wannabe is lucky you didn't slap his smartass face.
Yeah, it's just too bad I'm such a kind person. I really would've liked to have slapped that guy. I couldn't believe he actually pushed me to the point of a biology lesson. The guy was saying, "No, no, beyond your comfort level, what the fuck is wrong with blowing?" Well, he got his answer and he certainly won't be welcomed back. Two of the other girls told me he'd done similar things to them. One chick even said that that custy had tried to slyly put his lips on her anus while she was dancing in the other direction and then bent over! I hope he gets a damned cold... Or an STD, even better! (Except that he seemed like the kind of guy that probably already has something).
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I was in Puerto Rico...working and I found out the hard way, that some of the men their have a "thing about butts". :O ..white butts /:O ...go figure. Anyway I had been butt-licked on stage several times....eewww gross. BAM, SLAP! :smiley_dr
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If any customer "demanded" to know anything me I stared them in the eye and stated "Because I f*cking said so, do you want me to get one of the bouncers so you can talk to him about it" always worked for me. You have no obligation to explain YOUR boundaries. You don't owe them any explaination about anything. Remember, a lot of guys get off just by trying to set a dancer off so she pays attention to them. Remaining in that uncomfortable moment might only enable the harassment and you don't get paid for that either.
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EWWWW. I dont know whats with the "blowers" Someone passed around a flyer saying it was an awesome idea or something. Someone needs to pass around one saying its NOT cool. Does NOT turn us on. Its dirty and germy and unnecessary. Good for you telling him no.
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you're very luck you have a smart and reasonable manager. many clubs would rather keep the customer happy. congrats on you club choice ;D
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Originally Posted by Kaiyla
If any customer "demanded" to know anything me I stared them in the eye and stated "Because I f*cking said so, do you want me to get one of the bouncers so you can talk to him about it" always worked for me. You have no obligation to explain YOUR boundaries. You don't owe them any explaination about anything. Remember, a lot of guys get off just by trying to set a dancer off so she pays attention to them. Remaining in that uncomfortable moment might only enable the harassment and you don't get paid for that either.
Exactly, that guy didn't even deserve an explaination. One of the clubs I work at is fully nude. I've never experienced that on stage, but every time a guy pulls that during a lapdance I put my thong back on and give him the most conservative dance possible.
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my speel before a lap dance goes " no mouth contact- no kissing, licking, sucking, bighting, blowing." i always geta weird stare on the blowing one tagged in the end there.
blowing is fucking gross. i think id be more comfortable with a lick then a blow. :shivers:
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I still find it amazing what alot of men find 'okay' to do in a strip club :-\ Hello, you're blowing on me! That's pretty lame jackass!
Christian
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I just say, 'honey, I don't know what you do at home, but here, the girls don't need to be inflated first!'
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I just say, 'honey, I don't know what you do at home, but here, the girls don't need to be inflated first!'
lol!!!
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That's a great one Lilith. I'm putting it in the archives. My favorite is "Be careful - it might blow back!" (Wish I could remember the author of that - step forward and claim credit if it was you!)
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It's extra rude that he was invading your personal space while you were tending to your ankle. Insult to injury. What a douche bag.