non-strip club clubbing...
So I went clubbing last night for the first time in 3 months, for a friend's birthday, and also the first time since I started dancing, and I have to say...looking at some of the girls in the crowd, I was appalled, and embarrassed for them!
The outfits that they turned up in, I wouldn't even wear to work. If I wore what they were wearing to work, management would probably ask me to change. And then the podium dancing...there were podiums throughout the clubs and chicks would jump up there attempting to shake their booty but just looking incredibly uncoordinated and trashy, and my friends and I would just watch them in horror shaking their heads, but their friends would stand around clapping and whistling and cheering them on...
And at one point someone said something about how she should be a stripper because she dances so sexily, whereas I found her dancing...offensive! And she'd be heckled off stage in a strip club!
Meanwhile girls were looking at me like I was some sort of geek because I was wearing a pretty dress and not really drinking much and not throwing myself all over the guys with my dancing. (Oh if only they knew what I do for a living!)
When I used to go clubbing before I started dancing, I always found these girls' outfits kinda tacky and thought they looked ridiculous when they danced, but now I find it just completely disgraceful, they're the reason why my friends say they'd never date a chick they meet in the clubs because they're (sorry for the language) sluts. But I'd never behave like this...but I know it's what those girls would think of me if they knew what I did.
I don't know what the point of this is...I guess to vent, and just proclaim how hypocritical and misguided some girls can be! Or maybe my friends were right when they said that my childhood ended the day I turned 20 and I'll never have fun at all. Afterall, at one point I said something like "I wonder what their mother thinks of that outfit," haha.
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Lol, I know what you mean about the dancing and stuff, but at the same time if everyones having fun then whats the harm? You do sound a bit overly concerned about this me thinks. I really cant see anything to be bothered about. All people are doing is having a good time, who cares what theyre wearing or if they look stupid and act like sluts, isnt that what nightclubs are for? (-:
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I guess so, but I used to go clubbing a lot, like twice a week for about a year and a half, so we a lot of us know eachother on the clubbing scene. And these girls are still doing it after so long, and I've seen very nice girls change to behave like them! And I have a friend who is 30, 2 kids, lives with her parents and is a sales assistant at a cheap clothes store...and still behaves like this, every week!
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Im 36 with a teenage son and I still like to go clubbing (-:
I think its a waste of time worrying about what other people are doing. Just have fun when youre out and be happy with what you're doing cos no-one else is going to care what you think and at the end of the day you cant change how people are. Now ive forgotten my point, lol (-:
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Haha. I don't know if I ever had a point, if I did I don't remember it now! However when I cut back on clubbing to focus on study when I realised how much I stuffed up in my first year, all the girls that went clubbing sort of...turned on me, like I was doing something horrible.
Oh and there's nothing wrong with older people with children going clubbing (I didn't mean anything like that! She's heaps of fun to hang out wtih and everyone thinks she's 22 anyways, haha!), but the thing with her is that...she hasn't...accomplished much. She slaves away everyday to make minimal amounts of money, can't even begin to imagine getting her own place, her parents basically raise her kids so she can waste her money on clubbing, she has no direction. Sadly a lot of my clubbing friends were like that. All they cared about was what the next event was going to be, and failed uni. They stopped being my 'friend' once I stopped risking my education.
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The reason I refuse to go clubbing (i stopped around age 24) is because it reminds me of work a little tooo much. If I wanted drunk or near drunk guys hitting on me then I would rather do so in a strip club where I have the potential to make some money off them ;)
As for the girls, i have to laugh when I see girls use the pole that is up at the back of The Shack nightclub (I've done jelly wrestling there a few times) locally here as they have NO idea. I love getting on it and showing them off.... then again I showed them some moves as I'm not a bitch and would rather them know one proper pole move than to try and look basically really stupid on it.