How to pretend like your having fun
Ofcourse we all know guys don't want to hear about problems and anything negative. Sometimes we have to work when we are having bad problems, and we need someone to talk to. Customers might give good advice every now and then, but they don't know you outside of the club, so they probaly aren't looking out for your best interests. Take advice from friends that know your really well, and go to the club as another person. If it takes a drink to get you in the party girl mood (probaly bad advice) then responsibly have a drink. Think about some funny times you've had or some goofy customers, Do whatever it takes to get a smile on your face, because a smile is worth a million dollars & a smile will make you hundreds of dollars. <~~~ the best advice your going to get from me. I'm tired of girls whining about not making money, and I know why they weren't making money they were telling customers all of there problems. These customers come in to be in a "fantasy world" and expect us to be robots we always look that good, we are always this laid back, we are always this fun, we are always this funny, etc. Give them there fantasy so you can get your money,
If you come in as a different person, you won't get so offended if they say something rude. Because they are saying something rude to someone that's not you. To make this long story short, when you walk in the door get a drink from the bar and tell yourself that this is the first start to becoming *stage name* tell yourself how good you look* how fun you are* that you are a sex kitten* and *you will become someone's fantasy tonight* The SC is the most superficial place you can go, so don't go in as yourself and you won't come out hating men! *XOXO* HOPE I helped someone out! *ReDhOthONeY* :-*
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No one replied, but I hope someone got something out of that.
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I think that was good advice. I rarely hear it summed up that well.
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Thanks for the advice, as a newbie it's refreshing to see that someone else uses their alter ego to not only get money, but to protect their own spirit. You couldn't have said it better!
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ITC I'm an outgoing, social butterfly, OTC, I'm a shy, reserved, sort of pruddish person who keeps more to myself and doesn't let too many people "in" meaning my heart, I rarely will open up to anyone. So, I agree, I think it's best to become the opposite of the person you are in the "real" world! Good advice.
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Yes, that is good advice. I see girls walking around like robots at my club with no smile, no personality, just that bored I don't give a fuck about you unless you are getting a dance from me right now look on their face. Who the hell wants that, and you wonder why you don't make any money????
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That's good advice... that I needed right now! My love life is kinda bumming me out right now and I'm heading out the door to work right now. I just. Need. To smile. :)
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At my currently club there are a couple of exits from the dressing room onto the floor. I like to let myself be in 'transition' when I'm in the dressing room... after all I have my purse and personal items in there. One of the exits leads right onto a rarely used stage. I like to walk through that exit onto the floor. As soon as I stand on that stage I survey the crowd, switch fully into dancer-mode, and sashy offstage onto the floor. I try never to let the 'real' me hit the floor. (Unless I'm out of costume and tipping out. Fuck all y'all dorky customers then! :p)
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good advice. :)
i knw, it is hard going to work when yer in a bad mood (think PMS!)
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^Just want you all to know I followed the advice... I just kept smiling... and tonight was gooooooood! :) <-a REAL smile!
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Im so happy the advice worked, I always hear the custys complain about girls looking bored, and un-happy. If you look at yourself in pics when you dont have a smile vs. when you don't 100 % of the time I'm sure you will think you look 100% better w- a smile! XOXO RedHoThOnEy!