I moved to a new city and have been dancing here for about a year. I still have not made one single girlfriend in the club (or outside of the club).
The reasons why I believe are this:
I am two busy hustling. I don’t spend time talking to girls because I am out talking to customers, and my time in the locker room is limited.
I am afraid to open up to girls about my personal life because that has been used against me in the past (ie – thanks for telling my best regulars about my kids, boyfriends etc).
I have two kids, and so far my social life has pretty much been work, kids and my boyfriend. I would be nice to have a fellow dancer to chat with.
My question to you guys:
How do you go about making new friends at work? How do you make new friends outside of work?
Would you think it unusual if a girl from work asked you to grab lunch/coffee because she is new to the area and looking for friends?
Thanks,
Miss Diva
