Originally Posted by Paris
The second part of being sexy is having an idol to to focus on. Mine is Marilyn Monroe. It is funny, even though I look nothing like her, I get a comment that I "resemble" Marilyn Monroe just about every shift in every club I work at. When Paris is not in the mood to deal with the junk that the customer's try and fill my head with, I just think "WWMMD?" (what would Marilyn Monroe do?) Likely anyone who is rude to her would have felt like crap simply because she wouldn't justify any rudeness with a retort. I love to say things like "Honey, do kiss your mother with that mouth?" and other comments of that nature.
So;
1. KNOW that you are sexy in the skin you're in!
2. Channel your idol and let her take over when you can't work up the energy.
TA-DA! Instant personna!