first time dancing.. guess what happens!
well, before i got on stage i gave my ex long-term relationship boyfriend a call because i was feeling down on myself.. i tell him i'm just having a drink at the stripclub i'm at, but i figure the LAST thing that would happen was that he'd come to see me or pick me up (since we were fighting the whole time post-breakup). it was my first time that day to ever go up on stage, and by the second song, who's face do i see?!?! HIS!!! i didn't even strip the whole way through, i made a fool out of myself. after i got off stage, i ran to the change rooms but eventually had to come back out.. he was waiting for me right in front of the staircase, and he actually started crying! calling me trash and shit.. what do i tell him..
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No one invited him. Tell him never to return or you'll have his rude ass thrown out.
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If you're broken up and at work, you shouldn't call him, that will just ruin your night like you saw what happened. If he shows up again, tell him he needs to leave the club, you're working right now and you wouldn't show up to his work unannounced, uninvited. If he refuses to leave and is calling you names, have him thrown out and do not speak to him again. Remember, there's a reason why you broke up!
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so you called him, knowing that you guys were post breakup/drama/fighting/whatever, and told him where you were? that you were just "at a strip club drinking by yourself"?
no offense, but it sounds like you wanted him to show up.
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you shouldn't have called him. It's your business not his.
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what he did was uncalled for, your business is your business and plus there is some beef/problems between you two. Either let it go or try to work it out...no sense in staying in the "fire". Just my 2 cents.
Good luck to you.
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In my opinion, if he really loved you he would accept your wishes and let you choose what you want to do.
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Pretty_Penny
so you called him, knowing that you guys were post breakup/drama/fighting/whatever, and told him where you were? that you were just "at a strip club drinking by yourself"?
no offense, but it sounds like you wanted him to show up.
...i agree, you invited it, so live with the consequences. Yet, bringing a man to tears at main stage is quite rare.
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^^ yea i agree fully. totally asked for it, but in a man-hating mood i *might* have gotten some popcorn and watched for the rare sight of a man crying.
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Originally Posted by
AS1A
well, before i got on stage i gave my ex long-term relationship boyfriend a call because i was feeling down on myself.. i tell him i'm just having a drink at the stripclub i'm at, but i figure the LAST thing that would happen was that he'd come to see me or pick me up (since we were fighting the whole time post-breakup). it was my first time that day to ever go up on stage, and by the second song, who's face do i see?!?! HIS!!! i didn't even strip the whole way through, i made a fool out of myself. after i got off stage, i ran to the change rooms but eventually had to come back out.. he was waiting for me right in front of the staircase, and he actually started crying! calling me trash and shit.. what do i tell him..
interesting first post
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you totally asked for it.
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Uh yeah that was very... unwise. But hey nobody's perfect, and you def didn't deserve to get the ninth degree from him when what you asked for was support, and on your first night no less. If I were you I'd tell him how disappointed you are that he let you down when you needed some backup, AND then he went outta his way to come over and diss you- tres immature and selfish, shape up or ship out!
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The keyword here is EX. He's your EX. You don't need to tell him shit. Get a bouncer to kick his stupid ass out.
I never understood why so many people torture themselves by keeping in contact with EXes. They're EXes for a reason...
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Ex-sex is oh sooo good. :devil:
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Mmm, I can't get turned on by someone I broke up with or who broke up with me. I didn't want to be with them anymore for whatever reason so they no longer make my panties wet. If they broke up with me, then I don't want them anymore either. Maybe I'm in the minority there.