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Goodbye Lines?
I just started dancing, I've worked three nights so far and starting tomorrow will be dancing a minimum of three nights per week, 5 hour shifts. My approach when I started was not to hustle too hard or worry about making money the first few nights because I wanted to get used to the atmosphere, get familiar with how everything worked, get comfortable on stage, etc. I haven't made too much money yet since I haven't really been trying, but have sold some dances, feel comfortable on stage and giving lap dances, so I am ready to really try now.
I've noticed that I will spend the night talking to a few customers, and usually I will get a dance from all of them, but only one. My first night, I had one guy get 2 dances, and another get 3, but other than that, every dance I have sold has only been one. I understand that not every guy can afford to buy more than one dance or might be satisfied with just one, but I need to learn a good way to convince the guys that can afford it to keep going... I also need to interact with more customers. I honestly spend too much time with each guy, and while I might get a dance out of every one, if I only talk to 5 guys, then thats 5 dances, not enough. The number one thing I need to learn how to do is gracefully move around the club and make conversation with more customers, obviously so I can sell more dances. When I get into a conversation with someone, I have a hard time ending conversations. I've been trying to think of some nice ways to end a conversation with a guy who is not buying dances, only wants 1, etc. Something like, "Well it was nice talking to you, I need to move around a bit, maybe I'll come see you later." ??? I need help with this...
I also have a hard time trying to ask a guy for a dance or to get more than one. I need to keep reminding myself that they know how it works, they know I'm there to make money, they know I want to sell dances, they know that if they want one, then they have to pay. I definatly need some help with "wanna dance?" lines and lines to try and continue dances. I've read lots of suggestions on here, but some of them just don't work for me.
I've noticed a lot of the girls sitting with guys around the bar, letting them touch them, sitting on their laps, etc. I've been very flirty, but have tried not to let them get too close because I figure if they want to get close to me, they can pay $20 for 4 minutes of it! If I sit on their lap and let them rub my back for free, where does that get me? Though, I will let guys give me hand and feet massages, lol, cause I enjoy not having to go somewhere and pay for that! And usually they'll give me a few bucks for allowing them to do so. I also decided that I need some lines in case a guy does express an interest in something like me sitting on his lap, getting a little closer, etc. Something to let them know that they can do all that, though it just has to be in the other room, so they will buy dances...
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Re: Goodbye Lines?
first, search "wanna dance lines" and you will come up with a lot.
second, limit yourself in time per customer. as you said if you only sit with 5 customers... call it the 5 minute rule. you will most definitely be able to tell in that period of time if you are getting a dance. and 5 mintues is SURELY long enough to ask for one.
third, that line is great for after the "I'd love to dance for you now." if no, "It's been great talking, but i need to make money," to which they will nod or smile or say they understand. and then YOU can ASK for a tip for your time. "Would you like to tip me/be kind enough to tip me for my time/conversation?"
follow it up with, "thanks for understanding that i'm here to make money. so many guys just dont!" it's a good compliment for you to leave them with.
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Re: Goodbye Lines?
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