I have considered it but looking for opinions from those who might be experienced.What cities are good to work in?Incall or Outcall?Where do you advertise and most importantly how do you avoid getting arrested?
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I have considered it but looking for opinions from those who might be experienced.What cities are good to work in?Incall or Outcall?Where do you advertise and most importantly how do you avoid getting arrested?
There are already tons of threads on this topic posted in this section. If you do a search for "escort" or "escorting" you should find most of your answers.
hey perla,
Have you ever tried dancing. It's a really serious decision to become an escort. Its one of those lines that once you cross you can't go back. I don't think that there is nothing wrong with being an escort. Just make sure you really want to do it.
why can't you go back?
Perla- READ ! Here & on other boards like TER, Bigdoggie.net, erosguide.com (check out web-sites of VIP girls ) bestgfe.com & utopiaguide.com. Get all info possible and decide based on what's best for you. It's sex for $ at least 98 % of the time and most of the sex sucks from YOUR pov.( I'm not going for a cheap laugh). The gals I know who date for pay tell me that 2/3 of their custies are total lames.
If, IF you decide to do it, SCREENING is key. Most agencies do a shitty job.Insist on references from existing providers and check them-that means calling & e-mailing & asking if Dave Jones is cool. Insist on work phone #'s & check to see if he really works for Continental Lint or Dewey, Cheatem & Howe. Never,ever call a custie at home unless he asks you to. Get deposits up front.It weeds out the less serious and LE. Get a mail drop where they can send cash Fed-Ex.
Incall to a good hotel is fine.Confine outcall to high-class hotels NOT motels near the airport.The better & pricier the hotel, the less chance of a creep or LE.
Spend the money on an eros ad.Craig's List is used by many and I've never figured out why from either side's pov.
Lastly, and MOST importantly, WHY do you want to escort ? You have to come up with an answer that satisfies YOU ! No one else. And you better base it on the realities of the scene and not what you think it is.
IF you are SERIOUS, pm me.
No Emily, I am not a pimp . Your interest is what ? Do you know anything about escorting ? Have you been an escort ? Do you know any escorts ? Well, without being a pimp or having an escort service I DO know. Without being judgemental I would advise most women/dancers considering it, NOT to do it.For a lot of reasons- psychological, health,safety etc. And btw, you can "retire" from escorting just like anything else. In fact, I've met more than one dancer who started as an escort. A lot of escorts are married; some with kids. Did you know that ?
I never claimed to know anything about escorting. I just wonder why some newb junkie would...and offer to help.
I stand corrected and hereby designate you an expert on the topic since you know some escorts and former escorts.
I offered to help because I happen to have helpful info. I KNOW a number of women who escort. Who do it ( on the high end btw) sensibly & intelligently w/o seeing creeps or getting busted.Some are genuine friends. We talk about a lot of things including their business. I have another connection or two that I'm not going to discuss on a public bd.
^My curiosity has gotten the best of me...what is the nature of your escort connection?
Curious too here.
May i ask if you 'buy' any of these women, or they just tell about the life of being an escort. You say many are friends, and i know that there are very good companies running, West Palm Beach has one of the best agencies nation wide so many men told me. But i mean, they still fall under "vice eyes" now and again...
probably a hobbyist.
ps : to the lady that started this thread, I will go ahead and state an obvious fact and i dont care how shitty it does come across. Trust no one in that buisness and even less so the men you'll frequent. Even the helpful ones. They are always in it for their best interests, be it services for good reviews *( because that is how you will make your earnings ..based on reviews. ) Or to get a lowered fee since you are "new"
pss: DO NOT end up on TER ( the erotic review ) the owner of that site is affiliated with LE ( law enforcement ) any and all reviews can be bullshit , he doesnt care. and if LE is lookign for a sweep in your area they start on TER. and that is 100% fact.
Do NOT post on craigslist, The erotic review or Escorts.com
alot of girls seem to advertise on Eros.com
im curious too.....what kind of "connections" do you need to be an escort besides a phonebook or the internet?
^^ Eros is good depending on the area the girl is in. there are no real connections needed, however there is a need for some street smarts. All a woman needs to know ( that is going to do this ) is where to find the DNS database ( do not see ) , legally what they shouldnt say on their sites and how to screen. You dont need to know shit else. And I will argue with sir hobbyist pimp on that one.
i hate when men will come out of the wood work just to take advantage of a newb. fucking scum those guys are.
Thanks Tart for your advice!!How do I figure out what is ok to post & what I shouldn't say???
Dear me, where to begin ?
LOVESEXMONEY- My personal life concerns you, how ?
PAMELA- My personal life is just that. PERSONAL ! If you have a legitimate question beyond prurient curiosity, feel free to PM me.
TART- If you did truly KNOW anything about the real world of escorting you would not post nonsense such as " high and low end are the same". They most certainly are NOT ! or more accurately do not have to be. It depends on the woman and how she conducts herself and her business although the end result in both cases is essentially the same: It's sex for $.
You are 100 % CORRECT about TheEroticReview.com. The owner is a certified RAT who rolled over for the FBI & turned over a lot of info.
PERLA-Despite some of the nonsense posted by some of these well intentioned busybodies, I am NOT a pimp. If I were, would I have tried to make sure that YOU understand the realities of escorting ? Pimps try to talk women INTO prostitution and are bloodsucking leeches afaic. They only talk about the upside and never the underside of the coin. If, IF it is something you are serious about, I think it is far
preferable that your decision be based on factual reality and that it's a choice YOU will be able to handle. If you have any doubts- DON'T do it ! Escorting is NOT about getting dressed up and meeting a suit for dinner at a nice restaurant although at the high end that is often part of the "date". It's about selling y-self; SCREENING,Screening & screening; reading people ( so if you get the wrong vibe you bail asap- you go to the ladies room & don't come back ! ) And it's about performing sexually for a stranger that you might see again but probably never will. It's about deciding whether or not to be PSE,GFE or totally "safe". Escorting is a BUSINESS ! Probably the most "personal" business there is. And btw, unless one of these gals admits to you that she's an escort; or a "retired" escort or at least really KNOWS an escort then with all due respect, consider the source. Most of them do NOT know what they're talking about. They have their OPINIONS to which they are absolutely entitled but that's not the same as knowing the facts.
PERLA- Oops ! Sorry. Forgot to tell you to be VERY circumspect about posting on public bds. and in any internet ad. NEVER specifically mention sex or money. Read some ads from Erosguide.com and you'll see the standard disclaimer many providers use. Remember, time for money is NOT illegal. Sex for money IS !So you emphasize the time for money aspect and do not publicly discuss sex at all. Don't even use popular euphemisms like "bbbj" or "GFE". Some gals do and I think it's a mistake.Better to keep it vague and oblique until after you've screened, checked references and feel comfortable.
Eric, I think where you went wrong was in the "PM me" part.
Pimps don't necessarily say only the positive things, they say what the girl wants to hear in order to gain their trust, THEN they go in for the kill. And it looks like that is what you did here.
You might not be a pimp but why not just give your opinion and leave it at that? What girl in their right mind would PM some random guy on the internet to get into the escorting biz?
Straight up. I could give two shits about your personal life Eric. YOU put your super-secret escort "connections" out there. ::) What makes YOU so much more knowledgable on the subject than anybody else posting in this thread? Oh, I get it now. You're not a pimp, you must be a manager.
Perla, have you conducted a search yet? Do a title search in this forum for "escorting" or "escort" We have quite a bit of pertinent info/web sources posted by independent girls, in other words: girls who ARE escorts or are now retired. Not only that, it will give you an idea of which girls you might PM should you have specific questions.
Eric you gave enough info. already....
Goodness gracious ! I'm so glad no one is taking anything personally !
I DO have some friends in the biz and I'm NOT going to chat about them on a public board just to satisfy some self-appointed guardians of womanly virtue.
DYLAN- There's a big difference between "OPINIONS" which I leave to you ladies and "FACTS". If you gals want to think I'm a pimp trolling for poor unsuspecting neophytes; go ahead. I can't control what you think. From most ( not all ) of the posts I've seen on this topic there is a lot more opinion than fact voiced.Most of it negative and that's fine.Everyone is entitled to their opinion. There's a general bias on this site as a whole ( speaking generally now) against escorts and high mileage dancers & clubs for that matter. So be it. Again, it's all part of a pluralistic society.
Peace be with you all and here's wishing everyone a very Happy Holiday !
Since Eric_Stoner actually underscored the importance of screening, I'm willing to give him the benefit of the doubt, and I am a veteran retired escort. In my experience, a "hobbyist" or a pimp would never, ever suggest such a thing to a newbie.
At best, he can offer to put you in direct touch with the women he knows. At worst, he'll ask to meet you for "coffee" first - but if he did, Perla, you'd be smarter than that, as I hope anyone on SW would.
We've had creeps here before and it's right to be wary and protective of our sisters, but I don't think that Mr. Stoner means harm, and I'm a diehard cynic.
Tart's advice rocks. I've written some stuff here before, so do a search on my posts in this particular section. After you've read them, feel free to PM me, and I will answer as best as I can (understand that I'm limited by federal and state law).
I do recommend that you purchase this e-book:
I was really sceptical at first because the author is a man, and I know him by reputation in the biz (he has reviews on TER as "OCWizard" and is a moderator on , but to my surpise, there's a lot of good stuff in there that's worth the six dollar price tag.
Perla- u asked which cities are good to work in. i know atlanta has ALOT of business within the escort industry, but its kinda hot in atlanta...girls are getting busted left and right...some of the hotels here even work for the police. then again, thats probably everywhere. ive heard navada is a really good spot to escort and ive also heard theyre a little more liberal about it (correct me if im wrong). basically, if your working for an agency, you should find out from them if they have a high call volume. try working for one that has been around for a long time as opposed to a newer one...people who are just starting out might not know how to teach you every thing you need to know and they might have a smaller clientel (not saying they dont have customers, but older agencies have more older and trustworthy customers). hope this helps and good luck in whatever you decide to do!