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Nerdy... eventually you'll be of an age where girls LOVE throwing boys down and having their way with them... rest assured, they do not feel slutty!
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Nerdy, I do not think you are unattractive at all. There is nothing wrong with how you look, you seem pretty smart, and you have a good job(which is more than my equally insecure guy friend could say for a while LOL; he was stuck working at Acme supermarket after college for a few years because he couldn't find a better job and trust me, he looked hard!). I agree with the others, you just need more confidence...I tell my guy friend(the one who works at Acme) that all the time. And the fact that you've banged a few girls, is something to have some confidence about...My ex-boyfriend didn't even lose his virginity til he was nearly 22!!!(and he was a little hottie LOL!) And one of my other guy friends is 23 and probably hasn't gotten any(I'm not sure), and he's a decent looking guy too.
But you said that you want brutally honest...if there was anything I'd pick out, I'd say maybe a tan would look good on you(tanning salons are only about $20/month), and maybe pluck the eyebrows a little bit(they look a little thick in that one pic). Adding some blonde or reddish highlights would look nice in your hair, although there is nothing wrong with it the way it is now. Yeah some of your facial features are somewhat prominent, but there is nothing wrong with that, because they aren't big to the point that they are obtrusive(unlike my nose, which is way too huge! but that's a different story LOL). Physically, you don't look as nerdy as you sound in your writings. I agree, the confidence issue is big.
I'm actually going through something like this with my guy friend(dude from Acme) these days. I helped him pick out some nice clothes, and I'm getting him to gel his hair. (Sorry Tart, I know you don't like the fratboy look...LOL but I think it suits him a lot better than the "middle-aged men weekend wear from Sears" thing and the poufy hair that he was sporting for a while!) Like you, he is not bad looking, but he has major confidence issues. To the point that when he is at a bar or social situation, he gets real quiet and just kinda sits at the bar with his hands propping up his chin, looking kinda miserable. As a result, often girls mistake him for being this weird hermit type dude. Oh, and he's too unassertive to voice his opinion on ANYTHING, so as a result he gets a lot less pussy than even the guys who are obnoxiously blunt players.
I hope that helps. I could go on about the confidence stuff and how to work on it, because I went through that as a teenager and I'm still recovering from some stuff now. I'm fairly confident, but not the most confident person(for example, I'm thoroughly convinced that the main reason guys talk to me and/or hook up with me is because I got breast implants...my former high school classmates at the bar last night kinda lended evidence to that! :) Along with many other guys who'd previously rejected me.). I'm trying to help my guy friend with his confidence issues. I could say more, but I gotta get ready for a New Year's party, but good luck with everything! :)
Eh. don't tan. Just keep your skin and body in good condition. ;)
I would like to pipe in with...
PALE DOESN'T = SUCK!
*ahem*
And now back to your regularly scheduled program.
I think the troll left?
HE was just curious but it made for a good read ! I need to post some old dude pics and see if I'm still hot( NOT ) lmao ! I must admit it feels good to get stroked every now and again . And Yek thanks for the flash fantasy - all that licking grr .
ok, so last night i went out with EXTRA confidence. I was hanging out at my friends house (female) and some friends. My best friend, (male) and 3 girls. So 2 guys, 3 girls. My friend got really druunk and was talking with Girl 1, while i was haning out with Girl 2 and Girl 3. Ive known these girls for a while, and hooked up (kissed) them every now and then. I was talkign to them and flirting and just really trying to not be shy. I had a couple of beers, and before you knew it I went into Girl 1's closet with Girl 2 and 3. We starting kissing and they both were kissing on my neck. Girl 3 whispered to me "fuck me now" and the other one began to give me oral. And then all of the sudden.....I COULD NOT GET HARD. Both girls are beutiful and have gorgeous bodies. They were kissing on my neck, and my penis was in this girls MOUTH!!! so they switched it up and both were grabbing on to me, and rubbing my stomach. Still nothing...they were confused and then starting to laugh. Girl 3 then opened a condom and literally tried to put in on me, and i just walked out embarassed....
later on in the night, Girl 2 was mad b/c she thought she wasnt pretty enough to make me hard. I told her that i wasnt that at all and that it was b/c i was drunk (which i wasnt at all!!!) so then these girls made it a contest to see who can get me hard...i just gave up and went home...on the way home, i got hard thinking about the 3 pretty girls who tried to give me head and have sex with me :(
100% true story...im going to try to getr the pics of the hickeys up to show you the extent of their attemps...im gunna go finish this bottls of Goose and sleep for a bit.............................
those all over my body^
Was there a point to that story?????
So you wanted us all to know that you (shy guy) had two girls throwing themselves at you but Junior wouldn't cooperate? So then we were wrong, YOU don't lack confidence, just your penis.....:O WTF??????:O
I still don't understand exactly what it is you're fishin for here but you look good, work on that whole confidence thing, and don't try to hit a homerun your first at-bat. You have plenty of time to figure out women:P
-Yung
they look like lesions. blecch.
:sing: you went into the closet with skanky girls :neener:
very impressive skillz you got there
P.S. they don't call it "liquid courage" for nothing
Ugh..did I say 5 years in my previous post? I think you need at least TEN years to grow up.
Ok, so you needed some girls on the internet to tell you that you are cute and then you went into a closet with two chicks a couple nights later? And while you were in the closet with these two hot chicks your little man wouldn't work? Umm, I don't have any compliments to give you that will be able to get you hard if you happen to end up in another closet.
Oh yeah, what the hell was a chick doing to you to leave marks on you like the second pic? I've never seen anything like that, not even on porn sets that are hella kinky, so I'm curious about it.
Ringworm maybe??????
Eew they tried putting the condom on after giving you head? And they're that easy?
Go get tested, buster.
lol, although my posts sound suspicious, its the total truth...
they are not skanky, they are old friends. ive been talking to them today here and there and they said they never saw that side of me...in fact, they are mad at the fact they "couldnt" get me up....not the fact i couldnt get "me" up....lol
i guess they were drunk, i was over-confident, and i had stage-fright...
and for the point to this thread/ my posts.....DRUM ROLLL
*im shy, dont think girls like me due to my looks
* i was assured iot wasnt my looks, and told it was my confidence
*my over-confidence led to erectile dysfunction making me believe all sort of things
now i prob have ring-worm, an alphabet of STDs and 10 years to grow up....haha
hickies are soo.. like 92
Just saying
maybe you should quit while you're ahead?
Hey 2dii4- Have any confidence issues we ladies can unhinge you from??????
And pictures of mysterious body lesions you'd like us to look at?????
Atleast with you it'd be entertaining, hehe.......................
Thought I would stop by and see what the shy guy did today ;D .
I keep doing that too! I did it when 'Ernesto' had his "I'm 18 but I've got enough money and I'm smart enough to open a club," thread going. Now I'm checking this one throughout the day.
Oh yeah....NERDY, what the hell were those girls doing to make the funky ass marks on you? Not the hickeys, the other things. I have never seen anything like it, so I'm wondering how they got on you. And all joking aside, do what the other girls said and get tested.