Re: new at private dancing
"when it is ok to not bring security"
it's never ok to not bring security. by telling her it's ok to come without securty you set her up for a bad judgement call later. also, those escort services you're talking about... jesus. you should anonymously report them for prostitution. i don't have a problem with escort services, but if they're encouraging that customers rape the girls.. they should be shut down.
Re: new at private dancing
pretty_penny is on the money. it is NEVER okay to not bring security!!!!!!
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I've been literally told by escort services sending over a girl that if the girl tries not give me what I paid for I should take what I have paid for.
Fuck that!!! It is NEVER okay to rape or violate anyone regardless of what s/he does for an income !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Re: new at private dancing
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Fuck that!!! It is NEVER okay to rape or violate anyone regardless of what s/he does for an income !!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think we all wholeheartedly agree that it is never ok. My comment was only to show why I'm concerned about her starting to do this.
I'm think I'm going to insist she finds another girl to always go with her and to bring either a guy or a gun in the car (or both). I don't know too many guys who want to dance with a girl around here when for all he knows the security in the room is her boyfriend.
Ok, I digress but I have to mention this:
A boyfriend being "security" was actually a big news story about an incident in the past couple years AT THE SAME CLUB. It was a complete setup/robbery or so I'm told. I know the girl in the news story and she has a short fuse when drunk and I think she just got tired of the guy asking her in the club to see her OTC. Apparently she lead the customer to the motel, and she and the boyfriend beat the crap out of him and took his money not long after arriving. I think the boyfriend is in jail now. The girl just recently returned to working at the club so maybe she was in jail too. I have a funny story about me forgeting her history and half-jokingly asking her out on a date when she was trying to hustle me for money in pool. Ended up at the end of the night with her interrupting me and angrily saying she would go on a date if I got a date with this other girl first that I was standing with..... which I had already had a date with (a date not a motel visit) but now was just friends with (good enough friends we were willing to throw our date in the face of this girl). Not often a guy gets to be the cool one in a strip club. 8)
Re: new at private dancing
I have my flatmate who is a good friend and never anything more to be my security. As for who actually acts as security, I agree that the person(s) should not be in an actual intimate relationship with the performer (IMO). It really does rub-off in a not so great way with the client(s).
There is a thread already which I created quite awhile ago (valid for everyone not just aussie gals) in re: how to find/hire security.