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Be careful about asking dancers in a club to do private dances OTC. In many states and/or cities, it is considered soliciting prostitution. Not only that, but many dancers take offense when you want them to work OTC...I mean we're already there for our shift, why do we want to come to you, after our shift and work some more?
There are many private dance companies that provide not only party dancers, but also entertainers for one on one dances. Your best and safest option would to be contacting one of these agencies.
Assuming this is a serious question, and after the underwear comment I'm holding my breath, (sigh) ...
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If by "private dance" you mean hiring a gal for at least an hour OTC, its possible. A number of club dancers do private parties or 1-on-1 privates as a side business. One way to find out would be to simply imply in conservation that for a change of pace you sometimes hire a gal for private dances every so often and how hard a time you're having finding a decent entertainer.
If by "private dance" you mean just buying a couple of songs in the same manner you would in the club, well forget about it. The small amount of income isn't worth the potential risk to her.
In any case, even should you be successful at this, unless the gal is familiar enough with you to conclude that you're harmless, I would expect her to have a bouncer in tow, and since she has to pay him, she has to pass that expense onto you.
I agree... exactly what are you asking here? Sounds like if it comes up you should just say "no"
Most club dancers don't really like private dancing. I did it before, and I much perfer itc. Also, what's the difference in wearing shorts/pants vs. just underwear? I think it would cause a lot of unnecessary tension for the dancer, who is used to being safe itc, dancing w/ guys in pants! Is your primary goal to get off? B/c then you might as well get an escort. I know when I have danced in contact clubs, I was careful not to get a guy off! as a personal thing, I wasn't comfortable with that.
Every time a guy has asked me "So, do you do privates?" "So, could I get a dance in my hotel room?" "So, How much for a private show?"
I automatically assume the guy is looking for sex.
Otherwise why on earth would he want me to go to his room? We have private areas at the club. If he wants more time with me he can go by the hour, etc.....
It's never a favorable response when that question is asked. At least in my head. ;D
"So, Do you do private shows?"
*thought* thanks for asking if I whore myself out buddy.
I say, "No, sorry hun, another dance?"
they never offer enough anyway. The time it'd take for me to go out of my way would add an extra 30-60 minutes, plus they definitely don't want two dances. They want lots of time. And for what? a measly 200 bucks?
Even if he was being sincere and only wanted dances, I could make more in the VIP. Add to it that I don't have to worry about my safety or boundries being crossed. it's a no brainer.
^^Exactly. Its usually a low low dollar amount like that. One guy offered me a whopping 200 for sex the other day woowie! Im so flattered </sarcasm>
Until the day someone offers me a really awesome amount then its pointless to risk my safety like that.
omg, that reminded me: some guy asked me, in spanish, if he could lick my ... for 2 dollars! Wtf, maybe I could just upgrade, ya know, 5 for full sex baby! I told him my rate is 1000$ a minute, so it'll be about 2grand for him. I don't think he got it though. Shame.
but ya, every guy that's asked me for a private dance otc hasn't offered near enough. I figure the price would have to offset the risk of me getting fired!!!
From my experience, it always works best if the dancer approaches you rather than the other way around.
FBR
Offer a ridiculous amount of money (say $500 for an hour) and make it abundantly clear you don't want sex.
I can't believe this is a serious question. Lap dances are for ITC. Everybody knows what an OTC offer is for.....
The bottom line is that I will never ever ever get an escort. It is not in my nature to do this. It is crossing the line and I consider this type of behavior extremely unsafe.
Exotic dancers are on a different level that is why I find them so interesting. Perhaps I will get into this more in a future post.
As someone earlier stated, there are many dancers who do private shows on the side, either for an agency or independently. These ladies are not escorts and usually would bring a bouncer with them for security.
I'm anxious to read why you find us so interesting...please make that post soon! I need new reading material!;D
Yes....maybe the underwear thing was too much....anyway I'm just a newbie. I should be forgiven given my PL status (I'm learning the lingo!).
...ouch
"Note I have no other intentions other than a LD though perhaps in my underwear."
Dude, look for a "lingerie modeling" joint, or a massage parlor that's advertised on the next-to-last page of the sports section.
Isn't the CPR or VIPR a good atmosphere for a more secluded dance?