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owner told me to "tone up"
yea i was about to leave -$9 and the owner says "hey big girl" and procedes to tell me to tone up my tummy.
i was stunned and so ubset i just stood there.... i was like "yeah that 9 lbs baby did a number.."
i then went to the dressing room and got dressed and cried in my car. lame.
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Collegegirl
yea i was about to leave -$9 and the owner says "hey big girl" and procedes to tell me to tone up my tummy.
i was stunned and so ubset i just stood there.... i was like "yeah that 9 lbs baby did a number.."
i then went to the dressing room and got dressed and cried in my car. lame.
That happend to me once... the manager told me I was fat and needed to tone my stomach.... he says this as in front of him the feature was on stage who was a bigger girl then me(and she didnt even do porn) and she was even less toned then me... I looked at him and said 'oddly enough... you tell me this and your feature is a bigger girl then I am.. and hey at least I can dance... your feature sure as hell cant'. Seriously this feature was like brutal... couldnt dance at all, her 'thing' was smacking her ass and screaming.
I started featuring not long after that... and I KNOW it bugs him :biggrin:
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I fucking hate the way stripclub dicks think they can talk to girls.. sorry about my pottymouth but fuck em. stupid men They are lame , don't let it get to you.
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Oh honey, that's brutal. One of the managers was all "Molly, you've got a hot body, but those love handles- you should try some lateral excercises", and then yesterday "oh jesus, your hair". Asshole. It surprisingly doesn't bother me as much since I already think he's a ginormous asshole. I am extremely sensitive about my body- but somehow I don't cry over what douchebags say anymore. I just delete any credibility they have in my mind. It sucks that these guys lack any and all sensitivity. Jerks.
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See, and this is why I left there. "Tone up your legs." Fuck you, I could crack a walnut with my ass and the custies love my legs.
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I hate how some men in this business treat women like trash >:( Don't worry about it girl, hold your head up high. He's probably the type of man who tells his 90lb girlfriend to go on a diet. Asshole!
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What a fuckhead!!! Honestly, karma....
he'll be on a highly restrictive no fun cholestorol diest someday!!!!
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Oh man what a dick! Next time give him some smart ass answer b/c I bet he's not fit himself. How dare he tell you something like that.
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How classless and insensitive beside just plain rude.
I wouldn't cry too much over it. Some miserable people live to make otehrs feel horrible. In some sick way, it makes them feel better about themselves.
My friend was told by a mgr to lose 10 lbs to be able to work at a club. She's 5'2 and weighed 113 lbs at the time. She is a tiny little thing and was a gymnast for 14 years! She went on the "C" diet (having enver tried the stuff before) and lost the weight in a week. Thanks a lot to that she had a problem with it for many years. Sad what jerks drive people to do in desperation.
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The manager that told me I needed to lose weight told me "If its any consolation, I'd fuck you in a new york minute!" FUCK that. It's a power trip thing. They can suck it.
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Yes, guys thinks we're meat on a slab.
In my club there is this extremely quiet girl who is ALWAYS busy because she is ALWAYS working. 17 no's in a row don't phase her, but she is a super quiet talker and pretty sweet. The other day a guy pulled her dress and down simultaneously and grabbed her breast and said it was too bad it wasn't as big as her butt. She just had this truly cinematic moment where she looks at him and says really quietly "You know I'm still a human being."
He had the sensibility to be ashamed for like 2 seconds. Guys are such tools.
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Awe Collegegirl! *hugs* These guys...I swear!
I went to audition at a club this past week and was told... "Lose 10lbs, then come see us, now go home and relax, but don't eat a cheeseburger, have a salad maybe"
Uh...What!?
My favorite was when a custy asked me if I was a man, Yes, I am a tall girl, and yes I do have some muscles...lol, I looked at him and said "Why, did you want to suck my [email protected]#?"
stupid boys.
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ExoticEngineer
My favorite was when a custy asked me if I was a man, Yes, I am a tall girl, and yes I do have some muscles...lol, I looked at him and said "Why, did you want to suck my
[email protected]#?"
stupid boys.
Lol I've been asked this as well. The guys who said it was really short and obviously intimidated by my height.
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ExoticEngineer
Awe Collegegirl! *hugs* These guys...I swear!
I went to audition at a club this past week and was told... "Lose 10lbs, then come see us, now go home and relax, but don't eat a cheeseburger, have a salad maybe"
Uh...What!?
My favorite was when a custy asked me if I was a man, Yes, I am a tall girl, and yes I do have some muscles...lol, I looked at him and said "Why, did you want to suck my
[email protected]#?"
stupid boys.
haha you are great what a great comeback. Did you realy say that thats one of things i think of to say after the moment has past.
and college I am sure you are beautiful don't cry I know its tough I had an ugly stupid dj say some f*up shit to me once and tears fell from my eyes faster then I could catch them but hold your head up and keep on dancing.
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I've gotten asked if I'm a man, tall and implants with a semi-toned build....but I guess the club is full of closet homos because it works for me
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Emily
I've gotten asked if I'm a man, tall and implants with a semi-toned build....but I guess the club is full of closet homos because it works for me
oh hell no!!! i would have laughed my ass off at a customer for saying that... god people are sooooo dumb... i've seen some of your pics on here and you are obviously very feminine looking.
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and another thing.. you know what College, I get it all the time too.. from customers... bc i am tall 5'10 to be exact, i've had customers refer to me as "big boned" first off, i know these idiots are out of their minds... im a size 4, weigh 134 lbs... i don't know how that constitutes as being big boned.... A lot of managers, looser customers, and idiots have little man complex.. and they don't even have to be little to have it.. They have their own insecurities and it boosts their self esteem when they put others down.... its like they are getting off when they try to make cruel comments to people... hang in there, i'm sure the majority of girls on here, myself included have been talked to like that in some way or another.
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KamrynAnne
bc i am tall 5'10 to be exact, i've had customers refer to me as "big boned" first off, i know these idiots are out of their minds... im a size 4, weigh 134 lbs...
whhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat.
These guys are total assholes. They want curves, but if you have them you're fat. If they're fake, you're gross, and if you're skinny, you're either still fat or way too skinny. *confused*
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oh i feel ya... people have no shame or class...thats the problem.
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KamrynAnne
and another thing.. you know what College, I get it all the time too.. from customers... bc i am tall 5'10 to be exact, i've had customers refer to me as "big boned" first off, i know these idiots are out of their minds... im a size 4, weigh 134 lbs... i don't know how that constitutes as being big boned.... A lot of managers, looser customers, and idiots have little man complex.. and they don't even have to be little to have it.. They have their own insecurities and it boosts their self esteem when they put others down.... its like they are getting off when they try to make cruel comments to people... hang in there, i'm sure the majority of girls on here, myself included have been talked to like that in some way or another.
I'm 5'9" and I always wear 6"
It definetly intimidates guys. Anyways.... Before I had my son I was 127 (so little like you) and now I'm 150. I have much bigger boobs and ass..... but man my kid weighed 9 lbs my tummys not going to just go flat after being a home for a 9 lb human being???!!!! yeah my sons almost 2 but my body isnt magic.... but over this past year it has improved so much.
even though I'm the 1 girl who doesnt tan i'm going to tan to look thinner.
i called and told one of the managers that i'm really friendly with and he said all this nice stuff about me and said of course i could come back friday (i was confused as to wether the owner ment dont come back till i "fix" it)
the weird thing is.... 6 months ago when i started i was SOOO out of shape, 10 lbs heavier, bad hair, makeup and clothes.... i think i've really improved.
eh. i'm not mad because its not a beer bally. i had a beautiful 9 lb baby that I grew from that tiny little figure (i once had) and my breasts sag some from the 2 years i spent breastfeeding him.
...i honestly dont care because i had the perfect little boy.... this tummy doesnt bother me.
secretly i cried because of the thought of going to gym... ahaha.... naa just sit ups on the excersize ball everyday all day. damn.
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I bet your sweet little boy is worth all the figure flaws in the world! :D
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honestly i've been 150 before at my height and it doesn't even look bad.. fuck that stupid cunt manager girl... i can't believe the balls these people have.
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My favorite was being told to tone up by a 300 lb fatass manager -- I so wanted to ask "Can I have your trainer's number?"
Anyhow, we've all seen girls at work who really should tone up -- but still, there is never a call to talk to us like that.
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did i mention the person who said this looks like danny devito with hair?