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move aroud a lot and don't bother tanning if you feel it isn't you. i'm the whitest ass in my big ass club and no one cares. in fact, they love that i am so different. it draws attention to me in a good way. if you are sitting with a guy and he's giving all the signals for a "no" ask him if he wants a dance anyway, then leave if he doesn't but offer to come back in a while if you have the time. he could change his mind in an hour or so. in a big club there really are other fish in the sea. you can try sitting for a couple songs and then asking for a dance or walking up to guys and asking them if they are ready for a dance but i don't like the "wanna dance" thing but it does work in really bug clubs. just be sweet and leave the table on good terms. that makes it easy for you to go back later and see if they are ready that time around. it is good to stand out in a big club like that, it makes it easier for the guys to separate you from the other girls and lets them know you have something the other girls don't have and they want to know what it is.
good luck with your club.
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Stand out. Keep your milky skin. Wear clothes that are different and appeal to customers. As for music, men with disposable income like 70s rock, 80s, and shit like The Killers -- and oh how 40-something men love The Killers.
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I freking love big clubs!!! anyways you don't need to change guys will like the fact that you're so diffrent keep playing your rock music and don't tan like I said they will like that you're diffrent, there probably used to seeing the same type of girl over and over .
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Keep yourself to the 3 minute rule. 3 minutes tops with a custy and then ask for a dance or VIP, or move on. the bigger the club, the more money there is in it. keep your eyes on the prize and just hustle your white ass off :) im also a non tanner, and i like it. and honestly, many dont remember your music when you are off stage hustling for dances. you're psyching yourself out there. keep your positive attitude always and keep smiling no matter how many No's you get. If it's packed... wanna dance lines work wonders.
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this thread came at the right time. i moved up to a large upscale club last night and had the same questions. thanks! i'm a non-tanning irish chick as well.
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I thought tanning might help me out too because I'm white as hell but the other day one of my regulars came in and started talking about how pretty my fair/white skin is and how that's what originally attracted him to me! I was shocked. Also, the whitest girl at my club totally banks-I think...she sells the most champagne rooms anyways. Good luck!
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the color of your skin doesn't matter much. it's your communication that earns you money.
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I don't tan either. Customers always compliment me on my soft, smooth, healthy white skin.
Definitely adjust your music, though. Ask your big spenders what they'd like to hear!
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I just started using the air brush tan and i have a lady at a tanning salon do it. It turns out real nice and lasts me about a week. It is more expensive than tanning packages, but I just look at is as tax deducable. Also there are guys who like the fair skinned girls. I have fair skin and if I don't have my fake tan I do get compliments on it. If you don't want to tan, than don't. Do what makes you happy not the customers. If you're happy, so are they.
I'm also moving to a bigger club starting on Thursday. I went in and noticed most girls are super tan, but there were also a few white ones. Skin tone doesn't matter, you're what matters.
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Don't sit and talk as much as you would in a small club. Guys can see you are busy and if they don't want a dance move on!
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I did the air brush tanning too but after a couple of days my face and my arm pits would get pale while he rest of my body stays tan. i wash my face and shave my arm pits more often then the rest of my body. i dont want to tan so i stay pale. i feel like such a dork:blush:. but i actually got some compliments on my skin. plus its soft and they always comment on that. when i feel bad about being pale i think of Marilyn Monroe! people still think she is sexy even though she is pale. lol.