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Giving a Guy In A Wheelchair a Dance
I gave a guy in a wheelchair a dance tonight... It was the most awkward thing ever... i didn't know how to give him a dance without crushing him.. i felt so bad.. i think he liked it though.. Have any of you ever given a guy in a w.chair a dance?????
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Yes. I actually thought it was easier than giving in it one of the little chairs we have. He was really nice too. Some stupid customer asked me if he could feel anything. Why would he come here if he was paralyzed? Dumbass.
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I've danced for guys in wheelchairs AND guys who are paralyzed. Most of the time they are really sweet, and they know it's awkward for us to dance for them. I just keep all convo very light, and don't mention anything about them being disabled. unless they mention it first.
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I have met some really cool guys in wheelchairs, but once I met a gangster in one and it was hell.
He pulled his dick out, insisted I kiss him, tweaked his nipples, etc. It was a VIP and I stopped it, but he begged me to stay. He was that gross, which is saying a lot.
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gingerlee
I've danced for guys in wheelchairs AND guys who are paralyzed.
I wouldn't have a problem dancing for a paralyzed guy. It just annoyed me that another customer was like, but can he feel anything? I wanted to say go ask him yourself!
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I have once. I was the only girl who approached him on a really busy night coz I didn't want him to feel bad as if no one wanted to dance for him. He wasn't ready at that time but later in the night he got our MC to ask me if I could dance for him.
First I asked him if he preferred to stay in the chair or move into another chair, coz I realise that people in their wheelchairs like to get out of them if they are able to but he said he preferred to stay in the chair.
I was concerned about hurting him tho coz his legs were very small from the muscles wasting away from not being used and I was very gentle.
He seemed to enjoy it.
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I had one 'regular' ish guy at "the club across the street" that would only have lap dances off me. The guy was paralized from the neck/shoulders down. So I could climb all over his chair and it was encouraged by his carer as ..well.. how else is he able to "feel" the sensation of me against him if I didn't get up to his face level with my body. I had a ball.
I knew he wouldn't do anything bad as he could only move from shoulder up. So I went to town... and the wheel-chair made for some interesting moves! ;D It made it a challenge for me over a 'normal' dance.
I'd do it again in a heart-beat. Wish more guys in wheelchairs would choose me.
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What everyone has failed to realize its that not all guys get dances for what the can "feel". Guyys are very visual as well. They also enjoy the smell of a girl, the look of her, and the fel her her body on them. I used to be a nurse...so I have no problem dancing foir gys in wheelchairs. Just treat them as you would anyother guy...And it will be fine. So what if they have no feelign in their dicks, or legs, or ams, pretend that the do.
Ps...lock the wheels first....
Forgot to do thatonce and tipped us over....
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Emily
I have met some really cool guys in wheelchairs, but once I met a gangster in one and it was hell.
He pulled his dick out, insisted I kiss him, tweaked his nipples, etc. It was a VIP and I stopped it, but he begged me to stay. He was that gross, which is saying a lot.
I too have met some really cool guys in wheelchairs, but also have a horror story....
Was some old mans 70th birthday party. His kids took him out, and bought him a lap dance. I swear, I was (barely) grinding on him for a minute & a half, and he came. He groaned so loud and hard I swear everyone within 100 feet heard. I stopped (what would have been the point of going on?), backed off, and watched him try and catch his breath, and I'm talking borderline asthma attack when I say catch his breath. The real kicker...he handed me $1. I got word out to staff, and eventally one of what I think was his kids came over and handed me $50 and apologized.
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i don't mind at all. we are providing a service after all!
i work in quite a high contact club so i will just casually ask if i can sit on them/if it will hurt etc.
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Kaylinn
What everyone has failed to realize its that not all guys get dances for what the can "feel".
thats what i was thinking too! if that wasnt the case, we wouldnt still have air-dance clubs.
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IMO, it is uncomfortable and awkward to do dances for someone in a wheelchair. I'm not saying I will turn down a request or pass by someone in a wheelchair, but I would prefer not to give dances to someone in a wheelchair. I'm just not that coordinated.
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[QUOTE=Lady Slap;982652The real kicker...he handed me $1. I got word out to staff, and eventally one of what I think was his kids came over and handed me $50 and apologized.[/QUOTE]
i read this and just about died. ::) hahah sorry... oh dear me.
i have danced for a few guys in chairs... one was paralyzed from waist down, we actually talked about it and it was totally cool... the other had CP, but both he and his dad (who saw how much his son enjoyed the dance) were awesome! just keep an open mind.
OH AND MY ADVICE FOR POSTERS IN THIS THREAD.... or those with custies in chairs... see Murderball! that film will change your idea of wheelchairs. and what may be done in them. watch the extras on the dvd... might help with lapdance positions.
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It's appalling how guys that are sitting nearby will act when someone is giving a lapdance to a guy in a wheelchair. I had to give the guy a dance on the mainfloor (obviously he couldn't go upstairs) and all the other customers are watching and pointing and laughing, probably at how awkward we looked, but it was so rude. I mean give the guy a break, he can't even walk!
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GoldCoastGirl
I'd do it again in a heart-beat. Wish more guys in wheelchairs would choose me.
WISH GRANTED :laughing:
I just knew I posted something like this somewhere. I had to re-vive the thread! There were two patrons turned customers inside the strip club on Monday night and both of them wheelchair bound.
Guess who turned the both of them into customers !! Oh yeh! I rule! ;D
I really don't have any troubles dancing for them. I really do want more of them in the clubs !
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I have a hard time when their feet are in those brace thingies in front of them, too close together to fit a leg between, too far apart to straddle gracefully, so you have to stand off to the side the whole time.
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^^^ Yeah, those leg brace/ foot rest things are hard to maneuver around. I nearly fell on my face & almost knocked the whole chair over tripping over those. Luckily only a couple people noticed my clumsy ass.
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I did a couple of dances for a guy in a wheelchair. Dancing was the easy part, dealing with the guy was hard. He had total issues, and threw his wallet across the room, begged me to be his girlfriend and love him, etc. It was sad and draining on my mojo.
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most of my wheelchair experiences have been good, but it is because i myself have been in one, and i do tell them this. i do ask them if they have any injuries so i dont hurt them, but i was in one due to an injury. oh and make sure the brakes are on! i met a nice guy who wanted me to dance for him, but his chair had no brakes. he said it would be fine, but his chair started rolling backwards, so he had to move to a regular chair. we both laughed over it and i got paid to show him wheelchair tricks i used to do.
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a few more things: the leg braces CAN come off. usually it's this clip that unhinges and you pull them up and away. in a lapdance club, it's not really an issue- as long as the leg braces on the chair are hooked in. i worked in an air dance club, so i just straddled one leg at a time when i danced.
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Yes, I am VERY familiar with this. At first I was scared to dance for men in wheel chairs, as I felt like I was going to break them. As time went on tho, I realized that the last thing guys in wheelchairs want at a strip club is to be reminded that they are "different" from the Average Joe. And guess what, you are NOT going to break them!!! ;)
I reccomend putting their wheel chair up against a wall or an object that won't move and you can go to town on them just like you would to anyone else. It's totally important to treat them totally like you would anyone else.
I had a great time one nite with a gentleman in a wheel chair. He actually lifted himself with his arms out of his chair ( I was in VIP with my friend Tara) and he scooted into the booth. We gave him a wicked dirty dance, and it was great.
You have to remember that in our fucked up superficial society, guys in wheel chairs get treated differently all the time. The coolest thing you can do is treat them the same way you'd treat anybody else. And don't be afraid to get rough with them, they can take it!!
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in my two wheelchair dances that i have done, one was a great great guy who occasionally still comes to see me, but the other dance was a creepy old man who kept trying to lick my nips and tweak them. euw. what was creepier was he was talking about going to a swingers club in town and wanted to know if i'd go with him. uhhh no!
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I've danced for a couple guys in wheelchairs. At my old club once I kicked myself though because I didn't ask a guy in a wheelchair to go to VIP (because it was up the stairs) and then later I saw him go up them with another girl by hopping. So never assume :) A customer at my current club is in a wheelchair and we joke about it, cause he has a great sense of humor. A lot of girls won't talk to guys in wheelchairs cause they're weirded out or assume that they can't/won't get dances. The number one rule in my club is that if no girls are approaching a certain customer, then I approach them. Be it a lesbian, couple, disabled person, hillbilly, whatever. If you're the only girl to approach them in half an hour, and you're not ugly, they're going to give you their money, unless they are gay, and even then they might still want a dance, you never know.
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I used to work at a club where one of the regulars was missing his legs and in a wheelchair. Once I made friends with him, he bought dances from me very faithfully every time he was in and was a very sweet guy. I don't remember there really being any weird issues with the chair -- he would put the breaks on before I danced, so he wouldn't roll away from me. It was pretty much like dancing for somebody in any other kind of chair.