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This is for the guys who want to say "yes" but say "no" because they are afraid they will get carried away and spend too much. For example:
"Oh, I can't go back there. Last time I was here I spent $1000."
"if I get a dance from you, I know I'll end up spending all my money and having nothing left for the rest of the night."
You promise to cut them off. "Tell me what your limit is now and I will stop you when we get there. I would rather you do one or two dances with me than none at all because I can tell you really want to."
Yes, you should stop when you do your agreed number of dances. "Okay, dance is over and I promised I'd stop now" (insert sweet smile while putting on clothing.) Half the time he will tell you he wants you to stay or do more dances later on because he "trusts" you. And even if he doesn't spend more later, you turned a "no" into a sale.
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yes, this really *does* work. good post em! i dont get dressed right away though, i offer them a choice, "I told you I would stop now, I promised you. Do you still want me to? (while still on their lap somehow)" and only one in like 5 will say yes stop. most will say, no, you can do one more. and then i say something like, "oh good because i was enjoying dancing for you!" and THAT has led to a VIP sale before once or twice.
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:thumbsup: Right on! I'll remember this - thanks!
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Emily, you are dead on about the "trust" point. You are basically saying to the guy "I am going to take responsibility to give you a good time on your terms, and send you off happy." I sure as heck wouldn't say no!
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So you're saying that once you do the agreed number he most likely wants more dances. What if after you stop and he says that he wants more then? Do you remind him of what he said or you go for the dances again?
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^^ you go ahead and keep dancing for him unless he's like drunk.
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i do this all the time!!! it totally works!
sometimes when we've agreed that it's time for me to stop, suddenly the guy will want more dances and i'll even argue all cutely and be like "but you didn't wanna go over your limit! you're so bad!" and really get him going... hahaha...
but i think it builds major trust when you actually stop when the guy asks you to stop. they probably expect you to be the typical stripper and keep nagging him for more anyway, but then you are true to your word and then BAM suddenly he feels comfortable with you and you're his fave...
plus you totally shut down his "i have no self-control" excuse and there's no way he can say no.
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hey i jsut need some advice. I need to make money fast but i always been so nervous about stripping. Can anyone just get up there and start dancing and look good? i just dont want to make a fool of myself lol. Id rather waitress but the club owners always offer me to strip instead. I know i can make alot of money i just dont know if i have it in me to do it. Me and my mother are goin thru bad times and we might lose our house and iam desperate to do anything at this point. Anyone have any good advice please let me know. thanks =)
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The guy who ADMITS to having no self control, definately won't after a hot dance HAHA, especially if he thinks he can "trust you" as mentioned hahaha! Good one!
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I do this all the time. When they are scared of spending money, I always whisper to them that they could have just one and that they don't NEED to spend money. Usually they end up buying two or three. When they start debating over whether they want more dances or not I tell them that we should have one more and I promise to cut them off.
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Lol I do this all the time and it works like a charm. "Ok mister, just one- then you're cut off!"
At least 50% of the time it turns into a VIP room.
Also good... "why don't you save yourself $20 bucks and just take me straight to the room?"