thank you, stripperweb...
i don't know if this is the right section for this, but i just wanted to say thank you to all of the ladies who post on this site.
when i have a shitty night or i'm trying to find a new club, i can read all of the advice here and it is an inspiration that keeps me motivated. it makes me realize that all dancers have to put up with the same shit, and we work hard for our money - but in the end it's worth it. you ladies have helped me overcome my fears and made me think "if they can do it, so can i!"
it is also a comfort knowing that there are other intelligent, successful women who dance and don't fit the trashy cracked-out stripper stereotype. i don't feel ashamed about what i do for a living, knowing that there are other girls like me who are just trying to get through college and make a decent living. i feel empowered by what i do and i think this site is an excellent support system. this is the only place i can go to talk to girls who actually understand what it's like, and that is so valuable.
everyone here is friendly. it's not like talking to some girl in the dressing room who i cannot trust. it's the internet and we have nothing to lose by helping eachother. after finding this site, i don't feel so alone anymore.
i'm posting this because i'm leaving for the next 2 weeks and staying in a hotel and working at a club. i really hope the profit is worth it. i've been packing and getting my outfits together and i'm just nervous. i keep telling myself "remember to hustle hard, smile, look good" etc. thanks to stripperweb, i think i can do it. :)
Re: thank you, stripperweb...
I just want to thank you all too.
Now I am going to :'( and then :-* because it's Friday night and those of us that are working tonight........we are all going to bank. RIGHT LADIES??????
;)
Re: thank you, stripperweb...
No. I have my Burlesque lessons Friday night for the next month. So I will be bumping and grinding and having a ball ;) hehehehe
:-*
Re: thank you, stripperweb...
here here! I totally agree with everything you said noctina! :D
good luck honey :)
id also like to add something. SW members hav really helped boost my confidence. i never really think i am all the wonderful things you guys say about me wen i post my pics and its cos im always thinking about how i could be better and not taking the time to appreciate how good i am right now, so you guys keep my feet on the ground and remind me to chill on the perfectionist shit and be happy with who i am. so thank you.
Re: thank you, stripperweb...
stripperweb is my bible. =)