He doesn't want other men looking at you? Doesn't he realize that other men look at you anyway?
WHY does he not want other men to look at you? Because he is afraid that you may attract a stalker? I could understand if a guy feels that the job is unsafe and wants to protect you. Then out of respect for his feelings and your marriage, then I would not do it. Is he afraid that attention from other men will pull you away from him? Is he afraid that a guy at the club will steal you away? If that is the case, there are definitely underlying issues in the marriage that need to be addressed.
If this is a good marriage, I would tell him that this is something you really want to do. You have thought about it for a long time. You promise to be safe (make sure you do read about safety precautions) and reassure him that you love him & he has nothing to worry about in terms of you running off into the arms of another man. This is about making money and nothing else. When he is at home, maybe you can do something special together with the money you've earned...a couple's massage, a quick getaway, something to show your hubby that you are stripping to earn money so that you can enjoy doing special things together. Or save up for something you guys need. Then he will see that stripping is just another means to an end. Stripping is your job, and that is all it is. If he still doesn't like the idea, then I would not risk the marriage. Why put a good marriage on the line?
If this is a bad marriage, or if he is being an asshole to you, do what you gotta do. Save up your money and get out and RUN.
If you are doing this for attention because your hubby is gone a lot? Are you lonely?

