today, I started dating the person that would become the love of my life.
We met when I was 15 yrs old, he was 16. On our way to a Metallica Laser light show at OMSI, a boy passed in front of our headlights in his blue truck...my friend freaked "OMG, did you see his hair! it's soooo long! OMG OMG OMG! Wouldn't it be sooo cool if we met him!" (remember, we were 15 lol)
In we went to buy our tickets, we were early and were the 2nd group in line, behind my future husband and his friends. We started checking each other out. He was so dreamy (hahaha, i said dreamy).
I didn't smoke, but my friend did, and she needed a light...outside we went to find him and his friends outside smoking...i've never been so happy to have a friend smoke! lol
she asked for a light. his friend gave it to her. we started talking, well except for aaron, he's not much of a talker. me, i'm a loudmouth, lol
Inside we went to get in line, as we were walking into the dome, i jumped in front of his friend so i could sit next him.
after the show, we gave them our numbers.
we didn't hear from them for a week!
then they finally called...we went out on a date...and i was hooked.
a month later, i ended up moving closer to his town due to my dads job, then we "officially" started dating... March 21, 1992. Sophmore year.
We grew up together, moved in together at 18, then finally on my 21st birthday, he proposed in front of our friends at my birthday dinner.
9 months later we got married, on our anniversary, March 21, 1998.
We've been through rough times like everyone else. Had 3 miscarriages, but also 3 healthy babies. We've fought, yelled, screamed and loved.
We've been through very rough times...for 2 years I even wondered if he loved me. Then a breakthrough...we talked and realized how much we loved each other. I wouldn't give up those 2 horrible years for anything...it made us what we are today.
We are stronger, we live and love harder. I trust him and love him with every fiber of my being. I've not once ever worried that he'd cheat or ever hurt me.
He is my other whole.
We are total opposites...if you've never seen an actual "opposite attract" just look at us.
I'm loud, he's quite
I'm messy, he's perfectly organized
I like country music, he loathes it (but i like all music)
I'm goofy, he's serious
But nobody can make him laugh like i can
he is my perfect partner. He totally and fully completes me. I couldn't live without him.
We will be together for the rest of our lives. We stand together on issues now. We rarely fight (unless I'm being too messy, then he gets on to me, lol)
He's a quiet soul, he doesn't say much, but he shows me he loves me in little ways...like bringing me a twix bar (my fav) out of the blue, buying me an electric blanket for christmas because i'm ALWAYS cold...things like that, the little things, that he remembers are what matters.
I loved him then, I love him so much more now.
Happy Anniversary Aaron! I can't wait for the rest our lives!:-*

