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CONTACT POLL (for dancers only)
there've been a lot of threads on touching lately. i know there was a poll awhile back on what ammount of contact you prefer, but i'm curiosu to know how fellow dancers -feel- about the contact. so pick the answer which best describes your opinion. keep in mind that these statements are "in general" not "with the right person", so answer what you think MOST of the time. also, when i say enjoy and dislike i mean mentally and/or physicaly.. not exclusive to one or the other. forget about the rules of your club too, this is more of a personal opinion poll. so if your club only allows air dances, but you prefer to give light contact because you like it or only for the money etc. etc. ... put that as your answer. pleas ebe honest, no one can see what you've voted.
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You forgot the poll Penny! Anyway, for me I actually enjoyed when I worked at a non-contact club. It literally makes me nauseaus as the club I'm at now watching other girls give a dance and the amount of "work" they put into making the guy almost bust his dam pants. It's disgusting!
Also, Penny, I really dig your new hairstyle. Very cute
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i didn't forget the poll. i was making it. the system only allows you to make the poll after you first submit post, after that you are taken to the page where you type out the poll. you girls both posted within 2 minutes of the thing going up. :P
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^^^^ Ahhh well now you know how anxious we all were to respond. We just couldn't wait! ;)
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Shit, I picked the wrong option. I wish there was a way I could re-vote
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I enjoy medium contact. However its something I've been doing sinse I started dancing so I am very uncomfortable doing air dances (go figure)
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I picked "I dislike contact and will only allow customers to touch my sides or arms" because it was the closest option for me, but in reality I allow the customer to touch my back, stomach, legs, everything but my breasts ass face and crotch. I don't like it per se, but I put up with that for the money. But it didn't seem to jive with your description of medium contact as touching of the breasts and ass.
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I've never done air dances because those don't really exist here. I don't mind contact as long as it's one sided.
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I was so used to one way contact that I got spoiled by it. I have no problem with one way contact, but if I am in a place that has two way contact, I won't let them touch my boobs or crotch.
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I think crotch grabbing is the boundary for me. As long as the customer is respectful to the rest of my body (doesn't squeeze or pinch) then I'm cool. Oh and I will not allow mouth contact.
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I prefer one way (dancer to customer) contact and will be up and all over the customer naked if I can due to it. Yet where there is two way (customer to dancer, dancer to customer) contact I prefer (and thus voted) I enjoy medium contact (gentle touching of breasts/ass/etc/no crotch).
I'm a sensual person so I don't mind being touched on my breasts and ass etc NO CROTCH!!!! Yet at the same time I find I do and give better lap dances when there is only one way (dancer to customer) contact because then I am not restricted by the customer's hands.
I find it rather boring and mundane doing two way contact dances. I have a limited scope of movement as all they want to do is touch and I can't get away from them due to the touching... and thus I tend to do the same type of moves which will allow touching of my breasts and ass over and over again... :yawn:
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I actually loathe contact... but I am no longer in a no contact area.... so what can I do? I allow "medium contact" but unlike the definition in the poll, I do not allow touching of the breasts. They can touch my ass and back and that's about it. If it were up to me? NO TOUCHIE.
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I hate customers touching me. With persistent customers, I tolerate the touching of my arms and calves, sometimes back ... but I hate it. I hate, hate, hate it. I do make them pay more to compensate for my disgust (ie upping the VIP price).
I am not okay with rubbing on a customer's groin with any part of my body. I don't do it. I get away with this because grinding is not the norm for floor dances.
I enjoy dancing and entertaining. If customers wouldn't insist on making a dance a wrestling match, I think that they'd have a much better time too. Why do they seem to get off on making girls uncomfortable?
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I enjoy medium contact which does not include any touching of the breasts or ass.
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It depends. I enjoy medium contact when I have invited it and the customer is appreciative and respectful. I do not like ANY contact when the customer is groping, rude, or acting like he's entitled to it. I'm not a toy, and I insist on remaining in charge during a lapdance. But I do really enjoy medium contact - even gentle breast and ass touching - under the right circumstances.
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i really dislike contact, especially since a lot of stupid men define touching as grabbing, pinching, pulling, squeezing, etc. i also hate mouth contact on any part of my body. However, i have absolutely no problem with grinding or me touching them. i do put up with two way contact for the money though, unless it gets too physically painful. Above all, i will not tolerate my face being touched. It's off limits regardless the amount of money the guy is spending.
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I am only comfortable doing air dances. My club (I recently found out) actually allows dancers to place customers hands on their hips but the dancer has to control it.
I don't do this, I won't let them touch anything I am an absolute prude about this.
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my own answer: i dislike most contact. i -used- to be ok with medium contact, but men pushed and/or downright forced themselves past my boundries. also, after awhile of that i started to associate the touching of my breasts, etc. (even in my personal life) with negativity. as soon as that started to happen, i stopped allowing anything more than arms/stomach/sides/SOMETIMES ass, if they know how to keep their hands from going between my legs. i have, on rare occasion, allowed breast contact when i am desperate for money. this is something that really bothers me personaly and is something i need to stop doing. i can honestly say that allowing more contact than i am comfortable with inside of a strip club, is the only thing i've done in my adult life (and i'm 27) that i TRULY regret. it's the only thing i would absolutely take back. it caused me to doubt myself, which is something i never did before. i think part of the reason it still bothers me, is because i still allow myself to let my limits slide when i'm low on money. part of the problem is that i work in an extras ridden city where very high contact is the norm. even having said that, i can still only blame myself. i need to stop allowing more than i'm personaly ok with all together so that i can forgive myself. i hate the fact that i've let men push their way past my limits for a little extra cash. i also hate the fact that i'm willing to bet almost none (if any) of those men would give a flying fuck if i told them that. in fact, i think that many of them would think it was funny or that they "won" in some sort of twisted game.
to clarify: i've never done "extras" or let anyone touch "there". by past my limits i mean mostly breasts... or just putting up with rougher contact, etc.
i am -very- commited to being entertaining, doing my best on stage, being a good conversationalist, giving a great tease of a table side, or an even better private dance. i -want- the customer to be happy and those who are seeking those things are normaly VERY happy when they leave. unfortunately though, most customers are only seeking high contact.
all that being said: in the ultra very very rare case that i am actualy attracted to a customer -and- he happens to be fun, nice, etc. i'll allow the most contact legal. :P
..... but that's literaly only happened once in the last 2 years. oh and, if jonathan rhys meyers ever comes into my club i will A. "cut a bitch" to get to him first and B. break every law possible.
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I'm kinda numb physically, in most situations. So I honestly don't mind the contact, so long as it's not by the guy's mouth and it's a GOOD DISTANCE away from the crotch.
That is actually what bothers me most about medium contact. They can't just enjoy the fact they get to touch the boobs, but they have to try and try to get as close as possible to the eight square inches of my body that I said "don't touch". And then they ARGUE with me over whether or not they're "touching it". I say "NOT EVEN CLOSE to it", and that is just not understood. They get pissy and say "RELAX girl, I'm not gonna touch it". GRRRRR.
But that isn't every, or even most customers. Definitely a minority, but it pisses me off.
I think what makes me uncomfortable dancing are the ones who just push boundaries. It's a power thing, I think. Like when I'm doing an airdance, whether because they chose the $10 option dance, or if I'm at an airdance club, I can still get very uncomfortable if they touch my legs or butt or something. Or even look at me or speak in a way I don't like. It's just a feeling I get from certain guys. That's what I don't like about dancing...it's not quantifiable though, and it's not something I can ascertain about a person until dancing for them, unfortunately.
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Originally Posted by
Pretty_Penny
my own answer: i dislike most contact. i -used- to be ok with medium contact, but men pushed and/or downright forced themselves past my boundaries. also, after awhile of that i started to associate the touching of my breasts, etc. (even in my personal life) with negativity. as soon as that started to happen, i stopped allowing anything more than arms/stomach/sides/SOMETIMES ass, if they know how to keep their hands from going between my legs. i have, on rare occasion, allowed breast contact when i am desperate for money. this is something that really bothers me personaly and is something i need to stop doing. i can honestly say that allowing more contact than i am comfortable with inside of a strip club, is the only thing i've done in my adult life (and i'm 27) that i TRULY regret. it's the only thing i would absolutely take back. it caused me to doubt myself, which is something i never did before.
I know. I feel the same way. I wish I could erase some of the things I've done because they still fuck with my head.
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Originally Posted by
mollyzmoon
I think what makes me uncomfortable dancing are the ones who just push boundaries. It's a power thing, I think. Like when I'm doing an airdance, whether because they chose the $10 option dance, or if I'm at an airdance club, I can still get very uncomfortable if they touch my legs or butt or something. Or even look at me or speak in a way I don't like. It's just a feeling I get from certain guys. That's what I don't like about dancing...it's not quantifiable though, and it's not something I can ascertain about a person until dancing for them, unfortunately.
Definitely.
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IMO, don't touch me. You may touch my arms and maybe my legs, but don't touch me otherwise.
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I hate contact but I will allow touching of the breasts, ass and everywhere but my crotch. I can be a heavy grinder... it doesnt faze me.
I hate it.. but if the area I work in calls for it i'll do it. I still try n get away with air dances though lol
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i'm the only one who likes to give hard contact dances??? maybe i dont understand what hard contact is... i usually gind alot, but the custy cant lick me or touch my vaginal area... that's what i consider hard... am i wrong??
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Originally Posted by
Corgan
i'm the only one who likes to give hard contact dances??? maybe i dont understand what hard contact is... i usually gind alot, but the custy cant lick me or touch my vaginal area... that's what i consider hard... am i wrong??
I think everyone has their own idea. For me, hard contact is when I watch a girl literally grind a guys dick for an entire song without stopping once. No other moves, just ass on his dick...But that is my vision of hard contact. Others may agree/disagree.