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I have just been doing better, then Thursday night I went over to a friends house and he raped me! I was able to get him to stop but was so upset. I trusted him!!! I called my friend and boyfriend once I got home and they talk with me all night then the cops came over and I told them what happened. I do feel proud of the fact that I told, but after talking to the cops they don't feel there is enough facts to be able to press charges on him. :( But they will talk to him, and my report will stay on his recorded, so that makes me happy. I am just so upset and I don't know what to do.
Now I don't feel like working or doing anything anymore. :-[
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What kind of crap is this that the police said it wasn't enough? I am so sorry this happened to yu. No one should be hurt this way :(
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This is one of the worst things that can happen to a woman. We are here for you. PM if you want to talk about it. :hug:
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jaysis h.! i'm so sorry! what's wrong with the cops that they can't even file an assault charge against this guy?
if the cops are being dicks, try the DA's office or a rape hotline. :(
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The cops have been really nice to me. The problem is that he used a condom so there is no DNA, and I have no bruises that I can prove came from him. They do think that we might be able to entrap him somehow to admit he raped me then they would be able to go forward. But it looks bad, because he was my friend, I went over to his house, I did have a relationship with him last year, and I work as a topless dancer. It would be my word against his. At least I know that my story will always be on his record, so if this ever happens again they will get him!
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I am so sorry this happened to you. At least you had the courage to go to the cops and report what happened.
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I know this is a few days after the fact but don't shower don't do anything and go to a hospital ASAP. Even though he used a condom there still may be some DNA evidence left over (such as a pubic hair) that may be identified in a rape kit. PM me if you need anything.
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^^ yes. First thing you do is go straight to a hospital. Dont call the cops first. The hospital can call them in for your statment. But go to a hospital first thing. Dont shower. Dont pee. Dont change clothes or anything. It can all be evidence.
But since its to late for that now...Hopefully they can catch him. Stay strong. Im veyr sorry this happened to you.
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I'm so hurt for you, this is something no woman should go through. I sugguest that you call the local newspaper/stations and say that the cops an the da won't file charges against your rapist b/c of your job. Ya, that would suck, but iat least then it'll be out there and the city will be compelled to do something.
imo, a person who rapes once will do it again if given the chance or pushed, and a person who rapes would kill someone if they got mad enough.
no way should he just get a slap on the wrist.
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Don't feel bad about the cops not pressing charges. Less than one percent of reported rapes in this country are convicted. It has nothing to do with you.
Take your time going back to work and be gentle with yourself, k?